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Is it fair to hurt your boyfriend or girlfriend just because you are hurting?


Sometimes when I am upset I can get a little crabby or pouty with my boyfriend, but I am quick to apologize and I never intentionally try to hurt someone else just because I am angry. Is it fair to let your loved one hurt because you are hurting?

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    Cristina (Stina Caxe) 3 years ago

    Yeah, I agree. When I am stressed or unhappy I just try to look at the positive things in my life. It's hard sometimes because I do have to fave a lot of negativity, but the last thing I want is to make other people really suffer just because I am.

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    Cristina (Stina Caxe) 3 years ago

    I think for me what hurts the most is when someone I care about withdraws because they are unhappy. All I want to do is help make them feel better and it makes me feel useless when they don't let me.

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    Cristina (Stina Caxe) 3 years ago

    I try to hide it the best I can when I am upset. Sometimes I will vent but I never make things seem like as big of a deal as they are because I don't want people who care about me to hurt.


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