Say yes even if you want to say no to your husband when there is an option.You can say NO later.
Do not insult your husband's ego.
Keep your negative thoughts to yourself.
Allow your husband to enjoy your company with any one.
Try to stand on your own by working to save money and be engaged.
If you like kids just make one a girl or boy or a boy & Girl.
Do not waste your time you can do what men can do.