I believe the answer is yes and no.
Clearly "traditions" have changed from the 1950s and earlier. More men are (expected) to help around the house and be more involved with raising their children. It's not an unusual to see a father out alone with the kids shopping or eating at McDonalds while his wife is spending time with a girlfriend or having a day at the spa.
Over the past couple of decades men have been encouraged to be more open about sharing their emotions and less domineering. Better career opportunities have made it possible for quite a few women to out earn their husbands or significant others. In some instances women are the sole breadwinner while the man is a stay at home dad. In some instances economics dictate lifestyle choices.
However it must be noted not everyone is happy with the changes. This makes it more of a challenge for mixing and matching the right people together based upon their (expectations). For example some women are resentful over the fact that they make more money then their man. If they make $100k they want their man to make as much or even better, more. Instead of having a guy being open about his emotional needs and negotiating with them about important decisions these women long for a "take charge" type of the guy who makes them feel safe and secure. She wants him to be strong and fix things.
On the other hand some women strictly want a 50/50 partnership without the man insisting on being "in charge". Their ideal man cooks, cleans, changes diapers, listens to her, and consults with her before making decisions and vice versa. Equality is stressed over being traditional. Most men today don't want a stay at home wife either.
It's not uncommon for some "traditional women" to be frustrated with "progressive men" and exclaim, "A (real man) should do this and a (real woman) should do that." There are also some women who love their independence and feel they don't need men much at all. Some have chosen never to marry, adopt children alone, or conceive through a sperm bank. "I don't need a man!"
Sometimes the more options one has the more confusing things get.