You've got to trust yourself first. That means you've got to know that the relationship you've picked for yourself is one that you've spent time working on before you made the big "commitment" move. The earlier in your dating career you learn this, the happier your dating life will be and the more solid your pick for a husband will be when you make it. Because, by then you have established a habit of picking the men you hng out with smartly. You will have developed a method that gives you the time to find out ALL you need to know about him BEFORE it gets serious. I've been hurt repeatedly, and the key reaon is that I move too fast. I don't take enough time to find out about a woman those things that are important to me and whether her dispositions fit mine, etc. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you should be friends for five years to find out every little detail first. Just set up some method of your own that eliminates the most important and influential issues that you may have............Too wordy?