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Is there truth to this statement: If you love two people it means you're not "in love" with either?


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aliasis says

14 months ago
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    dashingscorpio 14 months ago

    I believe when you're "in love" you believe your mate is "the one"!

    On the other hand if you just (love someone) it means you care a lot about them but they may not be "the one" in your eyes. You'd be open to explore other possibilities.

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ketage says

14 months ago
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    dashingscorpio 14 months ago

    ketage, So many people confuse loving someone with being "in love" with someone. Like you I believe what J.W. Bourdillon is saying if someone is "in love" the heart has but one eye. You don't have the desire to go out on dates with anyone else.

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Prabhat Parimal (Parimalpolymath) says

14 months ago
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    dashingscorpio 14 months ago

    Parimalpolymath, You're correct regarding this question being of the romantic nature. It's listed under Gender Relatons- Non-Monogamous & Cheating in Relationships. I believe people who are “in love” don’t cheat while those who love/care may.

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Dr Billy Kidd says

14 months ago
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    dashingscorpio 14 months ago

    "..you find yourself thinking about that person, to the {exclusion} of everyone else." - Excellent point!

    I believe if one was "in love" with the (first person) they wouldn't have made time to date the second person and develop feelings of love.

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Faceless39 says

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