When couples first begin dating or fall in love it appears to be a million great hallmark cards you could give your mate to express how you're feeling. However several years later it takes more time to find "the appropriate card". A few years back a male friend of mine went to several stores before finding the "right Valentine's card". He wasn't overjoyed with his marriage at the time. Ironically his wife gave him the same card! LOL! If you are having a difficult time finding "the right greeting card" does this mean there are underlying issues in your relationship?