We are out there :) Unfortunately the standard guy may not put himself in a position that is open enough to be found. Like women I guess, when we go out we will tend to stick with mates.
But that said I don't recommend finding someone out at a pub or any type of social event, as men don't tend to look for longer term partners in these situations.
I am a big fan of online dating, but being a male I don't tend to be inundated with requests for contacts, but at least it will allow some type of filtering of men for women. As stricktlydating mentions use the big name ones that charge a little. You will always get the selfish blokes but they can be filtered usually within the first few emails.