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Why do men hurt the person they love? If they love a woman why they do crazy things?


I have a good relationship with this man and he just admit that he was having an affair that he wants to continue seing that person. I never see this coming since everything was so great with us. We never have a big fight a little argument and we had been through a lot and we have been together for years,

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Rod Martin Jr (lone77star) says

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    NiaLee 2 years ago

    here is a real man talking, mature and honest... women and people need to stop thinking that all these painful things are part of a big love story... novels, movies and liars have made it a point to use decent honest people


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    Shaina (shaiena) 2 years ago

    I really love this comment, thanks for the reply

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    coki252000 2 years ago

    This is so real and to the point. Most people block out things that may hurt them or find excuses as to why it's right instead of being confronting the truth. Everything happens for a reason. Be glad you found out now & find the strength to move

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    Borsia 3 years ago

    It takes 2 to tango, women are just as willing to hurt as men are.


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  • Kris Koshner (spock28) 2 years ago

    this problem comes because women wants men to be monogamist leave this Utopian notion all will be ok then at least most of the time .


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    Alaina Smith Cain 3 years ago

    Bravo, well-said! Finally, a man who is willing to speak the truth!


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Eleanore Ferranti Whitaker (Ewent) says

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  • Kris Koshner (spock28) 2 years ago

    we are all evolving, both genders have some plus and minus , though its very dangerous to pass comments on gender basis as all of us are individuals and have qualities which cannot be compartmentalized gender wise.

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    Linda Burks 2 years ago

    I concur

    self - control is key,

    where hearts are involved.

    'Love Strive To Protect"

    Lust if cultivated can transform into a malicious act .

    Cheating has become a sport to many

    A selfish heart cheats causing,

    "The I can't breathe Effect" +

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  • g9usoca 4 years ago

    This describes my marriage, also. In fact I didn't really start to seriously evaluate the relationship until recently and we have been together for twelve years. Sometimes his behavior or comments put me in face shock. I am stunned.


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    Linda Burks 2 years ago

    Meaningful to me and appreciated

    This is the comment 'I WAS SEEKING

    Truth

    Excellent

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  • Kris Koshner (spock28) 2 years ago

    love when its negative feeling its hatred without loving i doubt you can start hating!!

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    Katya Drake 2 years ago

    One of the WORST things we do as a society is to blame the hurt partner for the actions of their lover. Honey, if a man cheats on you, its because he has no self control. He's being selfish and lying and does not really love you. ITS NOT YOUR FAULT!

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    miracle moore (welch moore) 3 years ago

    it is wrong to date two or more one men at same time because the relationship will not last and when the man get to know, he will cut off the relationship no matter the love he has for you


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  • Kris Koshner (spock28) 2 years ago

    yep stupidity is the only language some ladies understand , reasoning is beyond them.

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    Chris Conley 3 years ago

    Same holds true for women. This applies to both genders, which I'm hoping is what you meant.

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    violetheaven 2 years ago

    If the hormones are to blame than a woman would have no choice but to kill her child's father while she is in labor and it would be okay... because the pain as a result of implantation by him would be a justification. We all have brains for a reason


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    Michael Starvin 2 years ago

    Yeah that age is dead because of these feminist women that destroyed all chivalry, is this not getting through to people yet??? holy shit.

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    violetheaven 2 years ago

    Then why not give up bananas and switch to oranges instead? why still eat something you hate while enjoying an orange in secret? if you know what I mean


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    Michael Starvin 2 years ago

    "in love" is actually proven to be a mental illness.

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  • Kris Koshner (spock28) 2 years ago

    thats some ladies and male concept majority cases is when there is a gender communication gap and he cannot reach out to his partner in spite of best efforts, men are from mars women from venus we can meet only halfway

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  • hotmama41 3 years ago

    I agree with you there it can be a addiction, and they might not know how to talk about it, they may think you might judge them,but trust should be upfront and communication.

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    Ashutosh Tiwari (ravi1991) 2 years ago

    You` re almost to the point but for that communication gap must not occur. They must be continuously connected through any means else it`s sure harbinger of some evil forebodings.


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    Michael Starvin 2 years ago

    I will agree though on the testosterone running through our veins. imagine all that crap in you and see how you become.

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    Michael Starvin 2 years ago

    We all fear this and it's clearly obvious isn't it?

    fear of potential break up, fear of getting close to a girl that will potentially leave you. all of these things only apply to the mature men only.

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  • Kris Koshner (spock28) 2 years ago

    if given a chance all of us would love to have the cake and eat it too!! if only its possible each gender have their own way of trying it

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  • babsfreedom 3 years ago

    Testosterone is a man's curse. Just like estrogen is our curse as women. It is just the way it is. It was made that way to ensure that species continues. However, men and women can be faithful once they are satisfied with themselves and partner.


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    Chris Conley 3 years ago

    Some men do, but not all. It's all about upbringing. How are they raised?


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    anne james olsen 3 years ago

    Get with it thicko god so meny problems murders lack of money the chancers are you will find some l or need a shrink ar lord ure pathetick and you say you want 2 die a man is not every thing go out and do something you love and dont do something sili

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    Breatheeasy3 3 years ago

    what do you suppose this means??? By what means does this trend and 'phenomenon' take place?


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    Michael Starvin 2 years ago

    Most of us don't know how to react to love... it isn't really how we are programmed. the only way that a man can love is if he is in love with someone special. otherwise he is an animal.

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    Michael Starvin 2 years ago

    Turn off the tv and quit absorbing that garbage. I say this to EVERYONE. all that crap is stupid. most of tv is stupid and the media supports it. wtf ? this day and age is really dumb.

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    Michael Starvin 2 years ago

    nothing to do with me. i can assure you that im 1000 years ahead of most men. thank u. the ones that don't know wtf they are doing should be shipped to the jungle like the apes they are. not all men are savages.

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    Michael Starvin 2 years ago

    Since when did the human race was intelligent enough to make a wise choice? when?

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    William Robb 2 years ago

    With your best friend jeez glad you found a way to overcome.

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    Michael Starvin 2 years ago

    no they are attracted to women only physically. they just think that they are better than women. just like feminist cunts that do the same to us. it's the same fucking thing. there is no love here. this is evil bullshit and it's just a sickness

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