After dating a year, I'd say you are already in a relationship. If he doesn't think so . . . I'd definitely consider moving on. If he wants his next "relationship" to be "his wife" and he isn't ready for a relationship with you - guess what he's saying . . . Yep! You guessed it! I don't mean this to be cruel but sometimes we lie to ourselves easier than we do to anyone else. He's obviously stringing you along and you sound like a nice person who doesn't deserve that kind of treatment. Ever read "He's Just Not That Into You"? May I suggest it . . . .