No. God determines every little single thing that happens to anyone. Why be concerned with "who" your partner is, if you are talking about LOVE then you will just know deep inside your heart when you have found true love. You shouldn't go looking for it, nor should you judge any of your partners on their faults, you should accept them for who they are and if it was not meant to be in God's eyes then it is just not meant to be. Some women go around like "oh I must have a tall guy with blue eyes and blonde hair and not fat" but in actual reality these women end up with men the exact opposite of what they had wanted, but the men they end up with love them no less. same applies to men.