In my opinion, the answer is yes. I don't see why a girl can't have a group of male friends and go to separate dances with some individuals within the group when she wants to. She does not need to settle for one... Why should she?
If you are talking about sleeping around then it becomes more tricky. Yes, there are certainly double standards when it comes to this. But, I don't see how any guy that sleeps around with various girls has any moral reason to point a finger at a girl who does the same as he does. Just my 2c.
All the best,