Sweet! I just published a hub about arguments in relationships. http://hubpages.com/relationships/Stop-an-Argument
Chemistry is really interesting to me too. It's like you need a certain amount of friction between a guy and a gal to keep things spicy. But not so much that you irritate each other. If things are too calm, you've got nonsexual friendship. If they are too hectic, the relationship burns out and becomes more trouble than it is worth.
Is it even possible to maintain an equilibrium? And how much can this balance be influenced from the outside? Got me thinkin. Thanks!