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How do I get my boyfriend to give me more attention?


My boyfriend is turning 30 next month and I'm 22.could that be the reason why I feel that I'm being neglected by him?He is so laid back and all I want is for him to pay more attention to me..I really want our relationship to work since we are from different towns and only get to see each other twice in a month or when I come to visit.I really want him to take me serious

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    lupine 3 years ago

    You took the right steps in finding out more about yourself, and improving. Now that you learned this, I'm sure you also learned to choose a guy with better qualities too.


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    savvydating 3 years ago

    Amen, Drew nite. allaboutY, he is so right. If a man does not expend any energy on you, it is because he doesn't want to. Forget him, and find someone whose actions show you he cares.


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  • Jibbo 2 years ago

    This is so true, anger and desperation dosn't work, you get nothing of what your after. When I didn't care, which really I do he came to me, I felt loved and secure.

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    Bruce Winship Wright (bwinwright) 2 years ago

    Excellent answer. Men are relatively easy to please. Simply combine the elements of sex, love, and romance. Being sexy and romantic for him tells him you LOVE him and makes him want to please you. This is the key to keeping both of you happy.

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  • Great David 12 months ago

    When things need to be made clear it is already too late. Emotions do not work like broken pipes. They don't just get fixed. Emotions have a mind of their own. That is why I don't believe in marriage. People only should be together if they want to be

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    Bruce Winship Wright (bwinwright) 2 years ago

    Pauley13, I like your answers. The only thing I would add is for a woman to give a man what he wants most, which is love, sex, and romance. The woman really does control the sex dept. She must make the man feel desirable. This is the key.

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    Bruce Winship Wright (bwinwright) 2 years ago

    All men want is SEX from a woman they honestly believe finds them desirable. It's so simple yet most women fail to be loving, by being sexy and romantic for their man. Just a few minutes each week is all it takes too.

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    Bruce Winship Wright (bwinwright) 2 years ago

    Excellent idea. A smart woman can spend as little as 30-45 minutes per week, wearing super-sexy things, high heels, etc. for her man so he knows its just for him. Do this for a few weeks and you will see a huge difference in his feelings for you.

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    Yes it's true.


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    Ciel Clark 3 years ago

    Strong feelings are good. Something I am only (years and years and years later) finally realizing is that I always wanted the guy to know what I needed/wanted and I didn't want to ask. Ask. (no whining, just tell him what you need. He will do it.

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    Great point guys love it when a girl flirts with them!

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    IIona1, this is a great answer. Being the best woman you can be involves understanding how to take control of the SEX department most effectively.

    Please your man this way and he will conquer the world to please you.

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    Sometimes you need to give a guy some space.

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    lol that is not the question silly but good answer if it had been , ' how can I turn on my man or get him into bed' sorry the response just made me giggle is all sorry ...

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    Indeed, lots of guys miss subtleties. Then when passivity builds to the breaking point of emotions and\or the dreaded waterworks the guy gets blindsided as his false sense of harmony , previously shielded by virtue of her subtlety, is shattered.

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    Women have been brainwashed by their mothers to use sex as a reward for the man who does as he is told. This is why strip clubs and porn are so popular. Smart women can make their men jump through hoops when they handle sex wisely. BE SEXY FOR HIM

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