I do a lot of crazy stuff and can tolerate A LOT in any relationship. But if it leaves me emotionally hollow in the end, what's the point? They have to love you. Yes, the stuff I have done has been incredibly stupid (hunger strikes for attention, endless texts, putting up with lie after lie without a word, accepting the insults.) And yes, people would think less of me if they knew ("pathetic" comes to mind.) But everything has been a learning experience for me, so I don't really care in the end. You grow up or you spiral downwards. Whatever, as long as you can pick yourself up in the end.