I think that is a very real and necessary question. It doesn't mean you are "questioning" that they love you...you just need to know why. If they can't answer that question, then do they really love YOU. Do they really know who you are on the inside--what you like, what you dream about, what makes you laugh, what makes you sad, etc. If they are intimidated by that question, how will you be able to communicate when you face a serious situation in your life?
I don't think it's rude but some people may look at it as a sign of insecurity. They may think down the line you are going to constantly "require them to say or do things to prove their love."
Most of us assume a person knows his or her own feelings.
The only reason we'd ask them to tell us "why" is because we either don't believe them or we're fishing for compliments.
Another possibility is we want to make sure that we define the meaning of love in the same way.
If one is intent on asking the question the best way to do so is probably while you're snuggling together.
"I don't want you to take this wrong way but I need to know what is about me that caused you to fall in love?"
Truth be told we can ask any questions we want to if we are willing to ask them in a way that doesn't put the other person on the defensive.
by Sandra Greaney 11 years ago
Is it rude to ask a person a question and before they answer it,turn away?And start talking to another person.
by smlbizmatters 11 years ago
Is it rude to ask someone when they are getting married?I'm referring to singles who are dating and have intentions on being married but have not had the opportunity to do so.
by Dr. Wendy 13 years ago
Do you think it is rude to ask someone if or where they go to church?
by Harlan Colt 9 years ago
Is it rude to ask someone to explain a contradiction in their faith?There is a hubber who's forum is based on answering questions about her faith. I pointed out that an official church prophet says, " We are not Christians, not anything close to it," and yet all the followers walk...
by hanijane 10 years ago
If you could ask God one question and recieve the answere on the spot... What would it be?
by naijenni 3 months ago
I would ask him, how are you coping with the pressures of the society below?
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