Give her a little bit of dignity, use your pair and rip the band-aid off. Tell her straight up it's not working out for you and you are breaking things off. Unless she's a complete and total &@*#& you probably shouldn't just kick her out on the street. Give her a reasonable amount of time to find somewhere else to go and then move on.
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