Actually there are other ways as well and some not so obvious, because you are already married...

to the guy: 1) Every vacation revolves around going to his mother's house. Long weekends, all holidays etc. 2) If he is in a war zone and calls HER instead of you. 3) If he still lists her address on his driver's license and refers to it as home. and some simplier things BEFORE you marry him? How old was he when he first left home? How many times did he move BACK home? Is his mother raising grandchildren and now great grandchildren because HER own children can't raise their children themselves? When he goes home does everything in the house still revolved around HIM

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