my ex and his mate grew up together but the time i was with him they weren't very close at all. they also are no longer in contact with each other. he's saying no 1 will get hurt and keep it between ourselves.
If they aren't friends anymore, I don't see what the big deal is...but I'm always weary of people who want to keep things secret. If no one will get hurt, why would you need to just keep it amongst yourselves? I'm not saying you should shout it from rooftops, but I don't know why you would need to have a clandestine relationship.
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