Ate Maita how are you my dear Ate? Nothing can make a man do anything. He must choose to want to do it for himself. Like the old saying goes, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink it." Ooooops a prettydarkhorse could lead you but not make you to drink, necessarily.
There are many many reasons a man can choose to take that trip to the altar, and each man's decision can be based upon many different things, such as beauty both physical as well as inner beauty, demeanor, charm, punctuality, cooking ability, adaptability, spontaneousness, open-mindedness. I could go on and on.
Always remember and never forget though, there is a huge difference between being "In love" and, loving someone. The latter is the most important.