What exactly is it you can't do any more? Fight? Be with someone you love? or be someone you're not in love with? stop pulling away or keep pulling away?
I'd love to tell you the mystery of love and why it should last forever! I'd love to tell you to sit down with this man that has shown you love and given you respect and tell him how you feel!
I'd love you to look in the mirror and be honest with yourself. 'Why after ten years with this man do I want out?'
Perhaps you don't! Perhaps you need a little more romance, a little more fun, to remember why you fell in love in the first place.
We all change and grow, sometimes together and sometimes a part. Sometimes we get a bit bored! I guess you could start by asking yourself how you'd really feel if you made the break.
If you don't feel like stroking his face, holding his hand, or sharing your feelings, you need to do one of two things.
Move out or work on being in love. Only you know this and both are a challenge.
Whatever you do, you need to move on with your life. That may seem difficult, but you have to do it.
You also need to share these feelings with the man in question! Difficult but positive in helping you move in whatever direction is best for you.
Embrace your future but never forget the past!