How can you move on when someone leaves with no goodbye and you see no trace of

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   Gaylyposted 13 years ago

   How can you move on when someone leaves with no goodbye and you see no trace of him at all?
   
   

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   Right On Timeposted 13 years ago

   You gotta find closure from within, and maybe a touch of therapy couldn't hurt, to let out the pain and frustration and get some tips for how to cope. Clearly this person is not worth mourning. It's probably a good thing that he left, actually, what a jerk.

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   Joesy Shmoesyposted 13 years ago

   I agree with Right on Times, what a jerk.  That type of break up is a serious loss, comparable to death in some case and should be dealt with as such.  You must find closure and if you need help to do so then get it.

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   Ashantinaposted 13 years ago

   This cretin is not worthy of you.. think yourself lucky that he left!! Sometimes, its a blessing in disguise...

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   dashingscorpioposted 13 years ago

   Actually there is nothing he could have said that would have made you feel better about having your heart broken.
   
   Closure is overrated in my opinion. It's like asking to be slapped or kicked as your ex walks out the door.
   Knowing "why" someone doesn't want to be with you is not as important as being yourself. Ultimately we are all looking for someone who will love and adore us for who we are.
   
   The reason why one person dumps you will be the very reason why another person falls madly in love with you! You don't want to fall into a trap of bending whichever way the wind blows. Stay true to yourself.
   Your future lies ahead of you not behind you.
   
   Best of luck!

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   stricktlydatingposted 13 years ago

   I agree with dashingscorpio's response. Knowing 'why' someone has chosen not to be with you isn't that important.  But doing a dissapearing act is cowardly and can cause you to go through many different emotions. I've had this happen to me - I tried to contact him about the reasons why he 'disappeared' and received no reply.  I came to realise that his idea of breaking up was 'The silent treatment' and when I  accepted that this was the way he was chosing to treat me - it helped me to move on.

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   Ahmediiiposted 13 years ago

   U need to become brave and take care for the same not to happen and be carefull on how you handle the next person don't be misused and give everything.

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