chris forgives himself for beating Rihanna

Chris Brown

Chris Brown on changing his image and another quote regarding the domestic violence situation of 2009

"I've been humbled by the whole experience," Brown, 23, told Lauer. "From me losing everything, you know, to me having to regain public opinion or whatever it is -- but most importantly, you know, knowing that what I did was totally wrong and having to kind of deal with myself and kind of forgive myself in the same breath and being able to apologize to, you know, Rihanna and be that man that can be who is a man, you know?"

Well, isn’t it wonderful that Chris Brown admits that his life went south after the incident? The way he approaches the situation is insightful within itself, don’t you think? You become violent with someone in the vehicle and we discuss how it affects you, the perpetrator’s career. Constantly there have been more actions associated with Chris Brown and violent outbursts.

Thank you NBC’s today for asking the hard questions. Check out the story on NBC today’s site,, or

How wonderful for Chris Brown to forgive himself after the 2009 situation. Admitting you are wrong is the first step, but then there were the following activities that occurred after this issue:

GMA dressing room fiasco

Frank Ocean entourage altercation

Moving forward, all is well with the world. Chris Brown admits his bad behavior and has forgiven himself. Rihanna is now in the bliss stages of the domestic violence saga, as she has not had an injury to her face lately at the hands of Chris Brown. While no one is error free in their life; there are clearly issues that need to be addressed.

What should we learn from this situation?

  • Understanding Dysfunctional Relationship Patterns in Your Family
  • Eighty-five percent of women who leave an abusive relationship return. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
  • Realize when your past has played a detrimental role in your future
  • Violence.htm shared in 1999 that women accounted for 85% of the victims of intimate partner violence. On average, a woman will leave an abusive relationship seven times before finally leaving for good.

Stay tuned of the real life baby boy saga romance of Chris Brown and Rihanna. For those of you in violent relationships, get help and use the resources available to you and get off the violent roller coaster; it’s not normal and it’s not healthy even if you witness this situation play out in the media.

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