Dating and Marrying a Filipina

I love Filipino girls: the t-shirt!
I love Filipino girls: the t-shirt!

Searching for a Filipina Bride?

American women are aggressive and demanding and are simply not comfortable with their natural role as a woman. Many Westerners—especially American men—who get married to a Filipino swear that they make the best wives in the world. Why are Filipinas so popular among Western men?

Best Qualities of Filipina Girls

A Filipino lady has a lot of winning qualities that make her a dream partner for American men. They possess stunning natural beauty, friendly and loving personality, humble and submissive disposition, joyful nature, tidiness, and unconditional love for their husbands. In my experience, Filipinas are very loyal to their families, always show their respect to their elders, and are fond of caring for children. They would never abandon children or sick people; it's part of their culture. Overall, they are very loving, caring, and loyal and don't fuss about the physical appearance or age of their partners.

Most Filipino girls are brought up in a conservative and traditional atmosphere, and for them, marriage is lifelong commitment. Filipinas have a more traditional approach to marriage compared to western women, for whom marriage is just a business contract.

When you select your dream Filipina bride, it is very important that there is trust, love, and true feeling between both of you. Usually, a Filipino girl will only marry a man she loves. Because of economic problems in Philippines, many loving Filipinas are willing to marry foreigners.

Online Dating With Filipino Girls

You can easily meet lovely Filipinas on the Internet. Many people in the Philippines cannot afford a computer with Internet connection at home, but they are fond of surfing the 'net in Internet cafes where they frequent dating sites for Filipino girls. Usually, Filipinas are interested in finding a sincere relationship. Getting registered in an online dating site is one of the fastest ways to get introduced to your potential Filipino bride, and screen her for compatibility.

When you join a Filipino dating site, you should create an attractive profile with a good photo of yourself. Keep in mind, you are looking for marriage, and don't forget that marriage is always a serious affair, especially with Filipinas.

Be Ready to Travel to the Philippine for Your Wife

Once you have found your potential Filipina lover or bride on the 'net, you should plan for a visit the Philippines. Please do not expect her to visit your country first. Remember, Filipinos are conservative and such things cannot be expected from them. They expect you to visit them first as a sign of respect. Before you travel to Philippines, you should get acquainted with the Filipino culture, traditions, and etiquette. It is best to meet the girl at her house in the presence of her family, which will create a good impression and suggest you are a gentleman who is serious about your relationship. Remember, for Filipina girls, family members' approval is the topmost priority.

If you just go to the Philippines without making any plans, there is chance that you will probably meet bad people who will just want to take advantage of you because you are a foreigner.

Be Faithful to Your Filipino Bride

Filipino girls are very loyal to their partners, and you should be the same so that she trusts you even if you are in a long-distance relationship. If you are involved in a serious relationship with a Filipina, let her know that you do everything you say. You need to tell her that you love her, and mean it with all your heart. If you give your word to her then you must do everything to bring her to your own country and marry her.

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Set's All Set 7 years ago from New England

so in summary, philipinas are gold diggers. LOL


1BigMac 6 years ago

Hey Set’s,

Just read your profile…

If you love learning so much and are such a humanitarian, I am curious to know why I find you to be such an uneducated, close-minded, meathead.

Perhaps you were rejected by one of the many genuine Filipinas that only desire to be loved and respected. Perhaps you were dropped on your head as a child.

You know I heard once; All Hispanics are alcoholics and crack heads however, I’ve educated myself well enough to know that’s not true.

Maybe you should consider exploring alternative sources of education.

Maybe you should use the shift key at the beginning of your sentences.

Sincerely,

1BigMack


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MarcoMarks 6 years ago from Fort Myers, Florida

I agree with you fully about Filipinas and I am married to one myself. But I think you may be misleading some readers who are interested by saying you should visit the Filipina instead of expecting her to visit you. Filipinas cannot leave their country to visit the U.S. or their U.S. potential husband in any case, so there is no choice but to visit them in their country.

Also, don't let yourself be dragged down into name calling with idiots. Just delete their comments and block them from making more comments that spoil your hub. It's not worth the effort to argue with them.


gg 6 years ago

most filipinas who are married to foreigners are actually rejects of filipino men, they look so ugly but so pretty to the foreigners usually from a poor family.


joan 6 years ago

in some way,I agree with gg..lol.I am a Filipina and I don"t toatally agree with this article.For me,its still a case to case basis.But more often than not,Filipina makes up a wonderful partner whether she's married to foreigner or fellow Filipino.You just have to know carefully who you are marrying to.


elpman 6 years ago

what's the best way to find an honest and good wife from the philipines


krispymacaroni 5 years ago

The Philippines is known for very beautiful caring women who are looking for a loving caring man to spend the rest of their life with. And Cebu is often said to have the most beautiful women in the Philippines.

http://www.introasia.com - Philippine brides


john maddalena 5 years ago

i fell in love with a 19 year old nursing student,i am 51 right from the beginning of our relationship she has written that age is a number.Everyone is different,every relationship is different,i bless God each day for my treasure we will be together in April and become engaged.Knot every time you roll the dice does it come up snake eyes.


gazhelenza 5 years ago

Hey John....Good for you. I'm 54 and my Asian lady is 23. After 8 months of building a long distance relationship and accepting the negative comments from my well wishing friends I met her and found her to be everything I expected and more. I am even more in love now. We are engaged and planning to obtain a K1 visa as soon as possible. I was as cautious as anyone might be at first but all I can tell my friends is "if she is a scammer she must be the best actor in the world" because I have never felt so loved in my life. Even after a 15 year Marriage and 2 long relationships. She is young and I know she may change. I may also but for now we have true love. What kind of fool would walk away from that because of other people's prejudices about race, age etc. I met a lot of filapinas in my search. For every one with a scheme or ulterior motive there are 10 sincere ladies who seek only true love and an honest man.


Danny 5 years ago

Im cosidering flying to China to marry a Filipino girl who currently works there. If i do marry her in China is it faster to get her to the U.S. ? Thanking you in advance for any assistance you can give me.


hamed  5 years ago

Im hamed ,im Msc student ,i want to marry with beautiful girl ,if evryone ready to this work call to me,im 26 years old,with nice face and style,my phone number is 00989359148715


jim 5 years ago

be careful you dont wind up supporting her whole family back home.


bernadette 5 years ago

i disagree with GG, lol, you should not say Filipinas who married to foreign guys are rejects of Filipino guys and ugly,lol, you are just jealous. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and if the heart speaks love. its never wrong.


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pajamazzon 5 years ago

GG, tsk tsk tsk! Bernadette and i have strong sentiments on this, the fact that probably you can't even get a foreigner for yourself. I think Generalizing Foreigners wanting rejects is beyond anything. How can you say that these Filipinas, over a million of them,getting a fiancé visa every year, are rejects? when they must be looking for love and security of a loving husband?

GG you're just jealous.Come on ADMIT IT.


stevo 5 years ago

Im dating a girl in philipines. She tells me she cant wait until were together, cares and worries for me. Im a bit hesitant as she asks for money once in a while. I payed for her mother medical expenses. Last month she got ill from dengy fever and was hospitalized..... i asked for proof like an invoice. But she said they dont give you reciept until pay bill. She eventually provided a bill summary which look authentic.... but i said i couldn't pay which she was placed under guard until bill was payed. She understand my situation for not paying bill were still together. She calls me her husand after 2 months of dating?? She lives in Digos City which is 2nd class city she teaching. How much would a grade 3 teacher earn? Even though shes like a magnet or boomerang, im still a bit caucious. She tell me she loves me with all my heart... i even sent her a letter saying true love is about money. What's your thoughts?


Jean 5 years ago

Hi stevo Im a filipina, well please dont send money unless you met her already, saw that she really needs it and find it yourself that she needs it , it shouldn't be asked unless one -time dying dilemma well that must be once in their whole life. THINK before you ACT :) Good luck to us :)


Jack 4 years ago

I am American and not just american but a well to do american. I am 44 and i am married to a 24 years old filipina. All I can say is SHE IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE and I THANK GOD FOR GIVING ME SUCH PERFECT YOUNG LADY THAT TRULY LOVES ME. I am married to american for 17 years but i have never ever felt to her what i felt to my filipina wife right now. She showed me REAL LOVE.


winky 4 years ago

Well lets face it the real reason why there are some Filipinas marrying a foreigner because from them they found love. The word "marriage" for Filipina is equivalent to love and since they are a very loving person, they are really very capable of creating a good family. I believe that there are some who are just after the pockets of the guys but before getting hook to them for sure you can easily notice it.


Bob 4 years ago

I am very interested. I know a man who is married to a Filipina and they are very happy. I also know a male Filipino and he agrees they women are amazing and loving, and well educated. They have a difficult time finding work there. he says they do marry for life, but if mistreated or beaten, will leave. I just don't know if I could make such a love connection via email. Very Scarey.


wannda 4 years ago

hello.. I Wanda from Bataan Philippines.. I am looking for a decent and

serious man who's willing to know me as wife. I

am honest and caring, most of all and very

important, honest and faithful, words are not

enough so i need to see you and prove to you

what i said and post here. I am 48 years old, widower with 3 children. I am

not here to pursue anybody. This is for real, I am

tired of searching people in different website. My yahoo email and messenger is campos_wanda@yahoo.com.. my cellphone number is +639128846780. glad to hear from you.. God bless..


Robert 4 years ago

Great Article. I am 45 y/o single dad who is engaged to a filipina girls. I am in awe in the way she already has taken to my children having never met them. We look forward to the day that we can all be together as a family. Guys if you are seeking a wife from te philippines just follow the advice of those who have already and you will never be happier.

www.bayqo.com


Mary 4 years ago

Those who generalize filipinas in their comments doesn't know the basic of math. They think that 1+1 is equal to 100. even 2+3 is not equal to 100 right? Have they already meet all the filipinas that they can already generalize them in their comments? You cant even live all your whole life knowing everyone of us, so you dont have a right to say something like that. Maybe you can generalize us if you can change the rules of mathematics, prove to us that 1+1 is equal to 100. "If you know what I mean"

I want to get married to a white man too cause they are handsome and tall. I want to have children with mix blood. not for money cause we are not so poor.

Im Mary, 22.


Guest 4 years ago

Hi! I am an American who met his fiancé online. After four months of chatting and phone conversations I thought I was truly in love. She is from a province, but not poor. She is the greatest woman I have ever dated or been with in my entire life. All Filipina are not the same!!! They too are looking for true love. I have been to the Philippines several times now and met the entire family. She never asks for anything, always there when I need her and I believe in my heart.....ever so faithful! I am a contractor so I am only home to see her every three to six months. When I do arrive to see her, it's like the first day we met.......EVERY TIME! Definitely consider making one your life partner. Also, a lot of the stories you hear about wanting money and a free trip to the USA ARE true. Everyone can't afford to make several trips to the Philippines to be sure of what they are about to get themselves into, but I recommend you visit more than once and make sure to stay a few weeks! There are so many islands to visit and things to see! I hope this has helped anyone that is considering marrying some of the best women in the world!


Arina 4 years ago

Old, fat and unattractive western men marry filipinas and make from these poor girls maids and kitchen slaves.


railyn genardino 4 years ago

hello,

im looking american man for married im faithful honest and respectfull all the time thank u guys .....


Das 4 years ago

hi i am Das 46 never married had broke up few times with malaysian girls they are too demanding ! now i am searching for filipina soulmate, my friend told me filipina are nice and beautiful so i was in this site tagged, lookin for a nice filipina girl perfect for me .? four years searching for a filipina soulmate , in fours years i been to phil 8times i like the girls there they are nice and friendly and easy to get...i had met 12 filipina girl hoping to i could get marry to them mean i met those filipina girls every trip difference girl each time i go there is was nice to meet and spend time with them but still cant find the ryt one , still i am not giving up hope , hope to find the only one for me the right one , she is some where out there ..? going again to phil again until i find her! i love filipina girls.


Donald 4 years ago

Went on a missionary trip there ages ago when I was 21. I'm a white Australian so I was very popular with the women haha. I hope to go back there one day, I love the people over there. I could easy live over there, spent 2 months there and didn't want to come home. Filipino wime


Jim Braun 4 years ago

I am married to a beautiful Filippino. She is a good girl. We met in Kuwait and been together since for 4 years now. I am 66,she is 38,I know shame on me. Don't care,we are happy and living in the Filippines. The Filippines are not what you expect.


annemaris 4 years ago

hi im anna from philippines looking for a matured husband.im single never been married .


maryam 4 years ago

hi im maryam from philippines workin now here in africa im single mom 40 yrs old .im lookin for a husband tht knws how to love and care likewise as i am.here's my e mail add maryam_soriano@yahoo.com


big t... 4 years ago

i went to cebu for three weeks to meet my girlfriend who i will marry in november when i return there,all i can say to guys that think they will get robbed by girls there is look around you can get ripped off anywhere.you will not find nicer people anywhere in this world and we could all learn a lot from them.pity we cant smile as much. people in the west dont know how well off they are..and i aint rich so no its not all about money to them..


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ArdorSmith 4 years ago from Hawaii, USA

Hi everyone,

To those who are looking for a Filipina girlfriend, there's a dating site which you can find christian filipinas. Please do visit https://christian-filipina.com.

Happy dating!


evelyn del pilar 4 years ago

hi its me evelyn from philippines im looking for a future husband and im single interested in married if we are meant to each other its our destiny!


cheche 4 years ago

im cheche looking foreign husband, only a serious man.interested just email me


Kevinz102 3 years ago

Hello everyone, i'm only sixteen but iv met a Filippino girl and oh wow, there just perfect i sware there like angles =P well maybe not all but this girl i'm with right now is just EVERYTHING+MORE! love to all the Filippino girls =)


filipina 3 years ago

hello there.... my name is FILIPINA, a real filipina... i have all the qualities of being a true filipina.... try me... i can be a perfect wife for u. by the way im 39 years old.


Anne 3 years ago

:) I love reading comments here :D good luck to all pinays if u r destined to meet foreign no 1 can stop it anyway wether u have an internet or no. :))


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Abster Javier 3 years ago from Pasig

great writing :D and great comments (bad or good) If you are not that fortunate, you will really meet bad and wise girls. So just be smart enough, but in general, i agree Filipinas are loving and caring :)


Richard from Canada 3 years ago

I am sorry if use bad words. I am with one icy cold fish, arrogant, stupid, primitive. I would kill myself if we have no child. She is so primitive that is putting to garbage everything what she doesn't understand or doesn't know how to use it. In fact she knows nothing therefore extremely expensive and good things are in garbage while she is buying sh... for our child. Sexually is more then zero. When kiss her: you hear. Out. When touch for intimes relation, she is shouting STOP it. I preferre not to touch this primitive icy cold moron. In front of everybody she is playing loving and caring. Man is bad. If not a child she should be a widow long time ago. Arrogant, primitive moron. This what I want to say about totally primitive nation. I was tollerant but now I am racist and wish this nation be exterminated. Let the other idiot marry next cold moron who wants ONLY leave their country.


shaneyu_31@yahoo.com 3 years ago

hi im shane 25 from pangasinan im lookin 4 a guy willing to meEt me and wel be my husbAnd. surely u wl be hoNest nd n0 cheating.thanks


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LIZA 3 years ago

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LUCY_31 3 years ago

Hi everyone,

I just love reading all the comments here. I feel happy to know that there are so any men out there who are interested to know more about philippine culture and the people. I am also one of those millions of filipina who are looking for true love because i haven't find the right one yet..

If anyone interested to know more about me, feel free to talk to me in YM......its lucedayo@yahoo.com...As of now , iam here in qatar working as a domestic helper and you can reach me on my phone number: +97477527054 or +97455205679...I will be going home to philippines when i finish my contract next year 2014 month of july!!!

Hope you can be with me....thankzz


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Looking for a Filipina girlfriend? Check out this site www.FindFilipinaGirlfriend.com .. You may also want to read more Filipina dating tips here www.filipinofilipinaheart.com .. I am a Filipina married for 8 years now to a European... Good luck!


Rabshaa 3 years ago

I believe that too phlippine girls are so quite,friendly,beauty even if she's ugly but her heart always white as we are following that only so:

I would like to know only that I am having a girl from phlippine as she said to me: you make happy and I am the one is happeines to her so she's like to be always happy and that I am ready to do it as daily but:

The question now:

We have already trust each other but she want to go back in her country?

And how many times we got angry from each other till she block me from her Facebook but when I told her that we will go to place that everybody like it so she comes back to me like nothing happen?

So up to now I haven't got what type of girl she is?


justleave 3 years ago

To foreigners who wants to marry Filipina girls be aware that almost always the reason why Filipina girls would want to marry you is first and foremost because of economic reasons. You are not only marrying her you are marrying her family as well. It will be quiet expensive supporting your own family plus her family back home, so think hard about this first before starting a relationship with a Filipina. You need to have a generous heart and enough income to do this, otherwise it will be a big strain on the marriage later on.

Also, although there are plenty of decent Filipina girls, beware of the opportunists types and scammers. Be wise, be discerning and be informed.

There are a lot of stories of Filipina-foreigner marriages that did not work out, you can search it all over the internet. Learn from their mistakes before marrying. I am a Filipina, I care for my fellow Filipinas, it breaks my heart when I hear horror stories.

Please marry only if you really love each others.


doug 3 years ago

I recently started chatting with a Filipina young lady. She seems very respectful and nice i'm starting to have feelings for her and her for me. we both want to continue on.I think we would be perfect for each other. can anyone tell me how difficult it is going to be for her to come to the u.s.


Michael 3 years ago

Letters from you, her church, and her working business is very important. Also you will have to pay for her visa fees which I believe is 160 us dollars. There is no way she could afford it. I believe everyone women is different in each country. There are however special aspect with Philippines women versus United States. I've been talking to my girlfriend from Philipines for 9 months and couldn't be happier. Soon she will see me which I am excited. I am also a 23 year old good looking gean American and also a pharmacy student. She is not looking for money and truly loves me.


donald 3 years ago

i married a filipina tens years ago, we had a great marriage, no kids by choice. but im ready to do it all again,, why not my new bride to be is 19. im 48. shes absolutely beautiful. her parents both have jobs and are ok with our plans. life is too short to be unhappy.


Weroneworld 3 years ago

@ justleave

Your comments seem genuine and heart felt…thank you.

I write my comments to support the Filipino people and their country.

Unfortunately there are Hubs/blogs around that are set up purely to try to denigrate the Filipino race and their country as a whole and categories the vast majority as scammers, sly, manipulative, lazy and worse. Furthermore, the authors of these hubs only publish the posts that support their view and delete the rest before anyone gets to read them. One particular hub is called:- Why do so many men report bad Filipina dating/marrying experiences? Link is:-

http://ulyssesulysses.hubpages.com/hub/Why_do_so_m...

And the main authors ( objectivelyspeaking, TanfromAustralia and Ulysses Ulysses) plus a few other followers (who make up the most of the posts because they delete the others who have a differing view) spend their time beating each other’s chest with back and forth banter about how disgusting they think the Filipino race is as whole and calling their country a sewer etc. Shame on them!

These authors of course deleted my couple of posts simply because they are not willing to accept any other opinion or views and just want their own little group of Filipino knockers to send each other notes on their little public forum to get each other’s rocks off in some perverted way.

My last post read:-

“I’m 99% sure you will delete this post because you guys cannot face reality & you continue to live in the dark distant past being unable to accept the fact that there is good & bad in every race. You insist on denigrating the Filipino people and their culture as a whole which is proven by your many broad brush posts on your hub. In reality you are just racist pigs.

I have read in detail your hub guidelines & your data trying to back up your argument & it is so old & limited info it’s ridiculous. If I hear the phrase “As a former migration lawyer who worked in that field for six (6) years and having dealt personally with a large number of Filipinas and their foreign male sponsors” again I’ll spew!!

You will know doubt be very proud of yourselves that in the 15 months of your hub going you have had almost 50 people post comments on your hub…..Wow! what an astonishing result & outcry from so many given your so called epidemic problem! Even googling “bad Filipina dating” the hub site comes up way up there at number 3 on the list, however still only 50 people interested over a 15 month period! Such a massive problem! You know in business I have learnt that if you give poor customer service to a customer, then that customer will tell on average 13 people of their poor experience. However, if a client receives impeccable service, on average they will tell only 1 person of their experience. So get with reality here guys, you have the few that have been burnt with a bad Western/Filipina relationship coming in & telling their stories. However more than 10 times that amount are not even telling their story because they are busy enjoying their beautiful lives! And then you have all the posts of differing view that you delete. What a joke!.

You continue to say how the Philippine economy doesn’t contribute and the rest of the world supports them. Well just a couple of stats for you:-

Stat 1:-

Source - Crikey - Independent media, independent minds article dated 21/11/13

The Philippine economy has strengthened, posting sustained growth in every quarter since PNoy won power, so much so that the country is now considered one of Asia’s investment bright spots by international financial institutions and economists. Annual GDP growth rates reached a high of 7.5% in the second quarter of 2013 after four quarters of annualised growth above 6%. That second-quarter performance made the Philippines the fastest-growing economy in south-east Asia and put it on par with China.

Stat 2

Economic boom spreads wealth wider in Philippines

By Teresa Cerojano, Associated Press, Updated July 4, 2013 8:49am

In this May 17, 2013 photo, trading continues at the Philippine Stock Exchange at the financial district of Makati city, east of Manila, Philippines where the Philippine economy skyrocketed 7.8 percent in the first quarter, outpacing China.

AIPC September 5, 2012

The divorce rate in Australia is 43 per cent. That is: 43 per cent of marriages can be expected to end in separation within 30 years. Divorce rates are somewhat higher in the United States and Canada, at 48 per cent, and lower in Japan, 27 per cent and Singapore 10 per cent. Although divorce is not allowed in the Philippines the separation rate currently sits at 26%.

Summary

I am an experienced traveler in the Philippines & I know many people there & can talk here from experience. Although there is massive poverty in the Philippines the standout thing for me when compared to say Australian society (my home country) is that the Filipino’s are a very happy people. They smile, they are friendly, although there is traffic kayos everywhere, I have never seen any road rage or disgruntled drivers. They are an extremely courteous, friendly & happy people. Not like Australia & I am sure the USA, where it is common to see disputes, road rage & high stress levels as we go about our day to day living. There is a myth in West that somehow wealth & material items equals’ happiness in the eyes of the Filipinos. Although this definitely seems the case for most Australian’s & I’m sure those in the USA (& yes including Australian woman!), however the truth is that the vast majority of Filipino’s are not driven by material things like the majority of western culture. Happiness to the majority of Filipino’s is all about family & people. Sure the Pinay’s want security in their life but seriously who in this world doesn’t? Yes we all do! In fact when it comes to ‘happiness’, the Filipinos have it worked out far better than the west does, despite the wealth of western culture.

Most Filipino women are genuine, loving, caring and faithful, yes FAITHFULL to their partner and yes for life. Of course those western men (and there are many of them, not the majority but many) who travel to Phil to try to sleep with a dozen Filipinas & then pick one as a wife on their first visit and get her a green card asap are asking for trouble. Not because their new Filipina wife will try to rip them off through some scam etc., but simply because these type of men are arseholes just wanting a young beautiful Filipina wife who they can sleep with, show off to their mates, get to clean their house, cook for them and then the guy generally treats them as subservient and like shit. These guys, which thank God are not the majority, are the guys that end up in trouble keeping their marriage together and then cry ‘Scam, Scam, Scam ’ when it falls apart.

The decent guys who take the time to build a proper relationship and will find the most loving beautiful partner in a Filipina. Sure, like everybody she wants security in her life, however who doesn’t and for the majority of Filipinas it’s not security from material possessions as we in the western world think of security, they just want to be able to go to sleep at night knowing that they will wake up in the morning with food, love and safety, nothing more. From my experience the vast majority of the women in Australia who are in my dating age group (late 30’s to mid to late 40’s) are also looking for security. The only difference is that these Australian women are driven by material wealth & that makes them a riskier proposition for guys like me. My advice to guys in a similar situation to me is to not discount Filipino woman for a lifelong partner. I’ve been there many times and have had the same loving, wonderful Filipina partner for the last 3 years. I know many people who live there & others that have migrated there. Filipino’s are a beautiful people with the vast majority of the woman being very caring, loving, faithful & genuine.


OZZIE 2 years ago

I have just returned from Magnificent Manila and have had the most glorious experience thus far in my life.

My online pen pal (now gf) & her family welcomed me with open arms and bestowed upon me the greatest respect I have ever experienced!

My Filipino Princess came down off of her throne and treated me like her King ...... a truly emotional & humbling experience for this old fella ... we're not children .... me 64yrs and she 41yrs ..... but our individual needs for love, respect & living life with joy & hope is truly abundant when we are together .... I am blessed!


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Lick philipino pussy 2 years ago

Whatever u say Filipino girls r very smart on pretending they are like serious in love but actually not... Filipino girls are only for ugly n fat Americans who never had a girl in life so those ugly and fat American guys show their money to Filipino girls to be their girls otherwise there is no way to get girl for them hahaha


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Hi im janita, want to meet somebody who is responsible and godfearing man.


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Hi im janita, looking for a responsible and romantic and loving man.only serious one please....kkuwait23@yahoo.com


Tom 2 years ago

Hi, I need some help and advice. I am 28, and my filipino girl friend is 20 yrs old. I Knew this girl through her friend in 2010. I've known her friend since 2008. Around 2010 to 2013, we were on and off due to some challenges. This girl had made mistakes and still begs for forgiveness. As always, she professes love and appreciation of our friendship, which I know is true. She wish to spend the rest of her life with me. She always ask me to visit the Philippines but haven't able to because I'm a student and do not have enough finance. I also love this girl like crazy. Is it very expensive to achieve my aims? Is it worth going after her? A week ago, she wrote me a very long message on facebook about how other men are pressuring her for a relationship. I've seen her mom online and she seems to like me. She has 7 sisters and the all seem to like me too. I love this girl and very confused what to do. Oh, one more thing, she is not in sch, it was hard communicating with her when we first started chatting. I had to ask her to type in Tagalog while i translated her words in Google translator. She confesses I made her good in surfing the net, typing and fluent in English. I wish she is in sch. Pls, what do I do??? :-(

Thanks for your responses in advance. Tom...


sate ayam 2 years ago

dude....go for a girl in your country. same language, values, culture.

oh everybody likes you? your wallet and nationality perhaps

do some reading and when ur 40+ you can always get filipinas.

i get the impression you don't know what you are up against. I lived there for over two years and could write a book about it ;)


kopite 2 years ago

hmmm...sate ayam....ur name smells delish but not ur personality...bet u dnt hve anyone in ur life...hahaha...


sate ayam 2 years ago

so typically filipino to say something negative about someone's personality when they don't get what they want to hear.

why is it that every filipino always must convince you that you need someone in your life

can only think of 1 reason: $$$$$$

FYI i'm with a filipina for over 6 years


Tom Tony 2 years ago

Interesting. @Sate, you mean I shouldn't waste my time with this girl?


sate ayam 2 years ago

1/2 a million filipinas turn 18 every year in a country where 25 is considered old...........plenty of choice is guess ;)


Tom Tony 2 years ago

That make sense. Thanks man...


sheren 2 years ago

im a 19 yr. old filipina still studying taking up criminal law ....

ive went to every cities here in phils. but the most cities form mE THAT HAS MOST NUMBER OF GOOD LOOKING AND pretty nice girls are in davao city most pretty girls in philippine pageants came from davao they are loving thoughtful and caring they are like models

they are like brazilian in my own opinion.......................and cebu too.........

ive been encounter so many filipina womens but no offense to my fellow's but when you want to meet a filipino girl you should come to phils. to find true one,, learn her attitude well.........in internet if someone give or post there number to find foreign mens like the above its like you decieve by them ,,,,,,,,,,,,,attracted to their words like saying they are loving caring ...............pls. be conscious ,,,,,,,,,,,,,im not being bitter to my fellows .but i just want to say that if you love someone its not the money in his/her pocket you have to count but the heart indicates

.....


Tom Tony 2 years ago

@Sheren, thanks for your insight opinion. This is my problem, I am really not of the beauty per se but of the heart. We've known ourselves while she was 16yrs. She will be 21yrs by September (Our birthdays are Me "Sept 25th & Hers "Sept 29th"). She seems to have these qualities that I want in a woman. We Skype, we send photos, we text, calls etc. Am not sure if she does same with others. I know its possible to have several facebook account, but she has chosen to give me her fb password for the purpose to view her photos cos she has no other means of storage so made fb her storage. No one else can view her photos cos they are all private. Also, I can monitor her fb activities whenever she is at the internet cafe bcos I am permanently logged in. She doesn't ask for money and doesn't care about my money, afterall she knows I have no money. She looks decent and she's from Oriental. Whenever I see her I feel this glowing love that is unexplainable. My feelings for her keep increasing every single day. Pls, I need some serious thots and ideas on how to deal with my predicaments. Thanks in advance...Tom


Tom Tony 2 years ago

She is actually from Mabinay, Negros Oriental...


sheren 2 years ago

i went to mabinay oriental that place was good for a vacation .....

btw you should ask her if she truly loves you or not

just learn and thnk wise and accept the consequences if it will be a postive or negative .....just tell her what you feel......

being in a long distance relationship ......sometimes its always be

complicated


Tom 2 years ago

Thanks so much Sheren. I think you are right. Being in a distance relationship is always very complicated. I wouldn't dispute or disregard whatever advise I get from you. I know for sure, a relationship is about TRUST. Even tho this girl chat with me all this time or leave me offline msgs doesn't justify her decency. I think it will be better to stop deceiving myself by trusting her. Like you said, Mabinay Oriental is a good place for vacation. I won't be surprised if she is presently hooked up with other men whom had come to spend vacation there. Am giving up on her. Whenever she text or leave me offline msgs, which she did couple of hours ago, I will reply if i got the chance to or instead ignore it. I can see room for distrust. She goes to the internet café almost often, spending minutes or hours while I only got to chat with her for few minutes. If she got no other motives, why would she be there when I don't chat back? I bliv she is up to other plans with other men. I give up. Thanks again Sheren. Your such a wonderful girl. I wish I could know you more. Big hug


sheren 2 years ago

just want to help...............its ok!!!!!!!!!!!!


koala 2 years ago

The reality why a filipina woman seeking a foreign bushband is they want to escape from poverty and its not the love.


josef 2 years ago

but not all.....ive been to philippines and not all are poor there are some rich im from new york i have a filipino friend she race from a rich family very kind and pretty , i been visiting her when have a time and her too ....visiting me here in new york ...... i meet her friends ,,some of them are pretty and rich,,,,,,,,

her names reanne very cute and pretty i like her

that's the reason why i always visit her in the philippines

although when she ask me why i always in the philippines i just answer it that i just want to relax sometimes ........well im just thinking that she miss me and visit me but the fact that she has ancestors here in new york.....

i always wish that someday she will look me as a man not a friend....

or a brother,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,


Tom 2 years ago

Thanks all for your insight. I really do appreciate your contributions. I haven't really quite stop communicating with this girl, but just last night and couple of days back, she's been asking for help that she's in financial need. Though, whenever she asked for money, it usually very small like within $100 and $150 us dollars. I don't think I can continue with her since my feelings has started depreciating as per her always using the word "miss and love" for every single text or chat. The word has been over used to the point that I feel irritated by it. I hope to meet someone worthy soon...


sate ayam 2 years ago

@Tom

$100 may not be much for you but thats the monthly salary of a waitress for 10 hours a day , six days a week. 5 minutes late? no money, only tip!

stop sending her money and see what's gonna happen

if you meet someone, tell her you are not going to support that family stuff and ask her to come with you.....if she says no, its time to go for you buddy


Tom 2 years ago

@Sate, thanks for your input. Sure, $100 does mean a lot to me. I've been watching out for your comments and am beginning to believe in you. If I hadn't listen and took actions, I think I would've been fooled. Your comments are really helping me make considerable decisions. Thanks again.


juoles 2 years ago

like they're wtf! first just gonna fool you by saying

i miss you ...! why would she misses if we didn't met yet !!!!!

hell as yeah! then trying to be like a pity dog ...

.......my mom is sick or i want to saw you....or we have a problem

FINANCIAL financial financial...............

yeah right just like a gold diggers,,,,,,,,,,,,,

just what they called solicitors,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

what's with them,,,, cant just they move with their own feets,,,,,,,,,,,,,

trying to play with someones feeling just to have money,,,,,,,,,,

pity on them ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,


Tom 2 years ago

The funny thing is, I finally sent her a text on fb and regular text, and her reply last night was "it's ok baby. I understand u can't help me. It's ok. I miss u baby and I love u." @juole it is true they have a way of playing into one's emotions. Now she has made it seem like even tho I couldn't help her now, there would be other time I would be useful so wouldn't express disappointment. Due to the way she act, she wins my attention almost immediately. In generate note, I am very emotional and also caring. This is sometimes having a great impact on my whereby I am unable to say "No" to certain situations. It's very sad...


Tom 2 years ago

The funny thing is, I finally sent her a msg on fb and a regular text, and her reply last night was "it's ok baby. I understand u can't help me. It's ok. I miss u baby and I love u." @juole it is true they have a way of playing into one's emotions. Now she has made it seem like even tho I couldn't help her now, there would be other time I would be useful so wouldn't express disappointment. Due to the way she act, she wins my attention almost immediately. In general note, I am very emotional and also caring. This sometimes have great impact on me whereby I am unable to say "No" to certain situations. It's very sad...I wish everybody could be very sincere with their feelings and emotions.


juole 2 years ago

that girl is totally crazy and you too ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

how could be the eff,,,,,,.....told you she loves you if you didn't met yet in person,,,,,,,,,,,,,...........if you love somebody you wouldn't count

his money or whatsoever ..............

word isn't enough to describe how much you love someone

cant you see that or just denying the fact that even the distance where stretching between the both of you ............

dont fool yourself ,..............grow up .plsss.


Insert Name 2 years ago

@juole I think what she meant by love is his wallet and his genes, but I hear filipino women prefer middle eastern men to Caucasian(from the west).


juole 2 years ago

okay now.. you know so what's next

still like a dog following her..........that's totally insane of you


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John Carlon 2 years ago from Clinton, Montana

I met a lady in the Philippines quite by accident online ( not a dating site) and am about to visit her in a few weeks. We meet on Skype, she owns a business and is not far from my age....53. She cares for her mother who is 93, speaks honestly and looks at the heart of the man not the outward appearance. I did not plan on a long distance relationship with anyone anywhere but she was so honest, sincere and over time we grew to realize we had real love for each other. So communication is the key. Knowing the right questions to ask. I am excited and hope for the best on this hjourney. Will spend 20 days at her home outside Manila with her family and take a few jaunts to Bohol and a couple other places for alone time. She is dedicated and true in her heart. It is all you can ask for and she communicates with honesty. If you look for the right qualities...you will find happiness.


Tom 2 years ago

That's good to know. I doubt if joule has ever been in a long distance rltship or been in love before. Communication is actually a key to a rltship. I'm not trying to be judgemental. @joule your words re kind of insultive. I stopped replying to this thread just bcos of u. Anyway, @john, I wish u the best and hope u have a good story to tell after ur return from the Philippines. Cheers!!!


joe 2 years ago

They are all gold diggers and will rob you blind, its comon to see an 80 years old man with a beautiful 18 year old filipina girl.


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MRS TALIKO

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MRS TALIKO 2 years ago

MRS TALIKO

I was married for five years without any child,because of this my husband start acting very strange at home,coming home lately and not spending time with me any more. and because of this my husband divorce me. So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family.my friend told me about DR EKA from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him.he cast a reunite spell to bring back my husband and it was a miracle three days later my husband can back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (girls) we are happy with ourselves. Thanks to DR EKA for saving my relationship and for also saving others too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact him and testify this blessings like me, the great spell caster DR EKA email address is:(dreka14demons@gmail.com)


MRS JARRET 2 years ago

MRS JARRET

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MRS JARRET 2 years ago

MRS JARRET

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then you won't believe this when I contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back, and after a month I miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother of a baby girl, thank you once again the great Dr. EKA for what you have done for me, If you are out there passing through any of this problems listed below:

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(8) If you need financial assistance.

(9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money.

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JUDITH 2 years ago

JUDITH

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KRISTINE MARK

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KRISTINE MARK 2 years ago

KRISTINE MARK

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JULIA OKSANA 2 years ago

A GREAT SPELL CASTER (DR. EKA) THAT HELP ME BRING BACK MY EX BOY FRIEND BACK TO ME.

JULIA OKSANA,

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MRS ALINA 2 years ago

MRS ALINA

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MRS ALINA 2 years ago

MRS ALINA

This is a testimony that I will tell to every one to hear. I have been married four 4years and on the fifth year of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until I met a post where this man DR EKA (dreka14demons@gmail.com) have helped someone and I decided to give him a try to help me bring my lover back home and believe me I just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, I saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why I am happy to make every one of you in similar to met with this man and have your lover back to your self. His email:(dreka14demons@gmail.com)


MRS OZETOBETH 2 years ago

MRS OZETOBETH

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ESTHER MOORE 2 years ago

ESTHER MOORE

My names are MRS. ESTHER MOORE .i want to use this opportunity to thank my great doctor who really made my life a pleasurable one today. This great Doctor brought my husband back to me, i had 3 lovely kids for my husband, about 3 years ago i and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me for one lady. i felt my life was over and my kids thought then will never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i couldn’t control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and i always wish he will come back to me, until one day i met a good friend of mine that was also in a situation like me but her problem was her ex-boyfriend who she had an unwanted pregnancy for and he refused to take responsibility and dumped her. she told me that mine was a small case and that i shouldn’t worry about it at all so i asked her what was the solution to my problems and she gave me this great man phone number and his email address. i was doubting if this man was the solution, so i contacted this great man(dreka14demons@gmail.com) and he told me what to do and i deed them all, he told me to wait for just seven days and that my husband will come crawling on his kneels just for forgiveness so i faithfully deed what this great man asked me to do and for sure after four days i heard a knock on the door, in a great surprise i saw him on his kneels and i was speechless, when he saw me, all he did was crying and asking me for forgiveness, from that day, all the pains and sorrows in my heart flew away,since then i and my husband and our lovely kids are happy.that is why i want to say a big thanks to DR EKA. (dreka14demons@gmail.com)This great man made me to understand that there is know problem on earth that has no solution so please if you know that you have this same problem or any problem that is similar, i will advise you to come straight to this great man. you can email him at (dreka14demons@gmail.com)


Yaniza 2 years ago

Hi I'm Yaniza from philipines

I'm 24yrs old I'm looking for my lifetime partner .

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Insane 2 years ago

If Filipino women are as great as you describe than why do Filipino men fall in love hard with women of other races (Thai, Japanese, Caucasian, Latina, African-American, Hawaiian, etc?) It seems almost insane to boost that Filipino women only make good wives, desirable, and "Beautiful" when there is women all over the world who possess those same qualities. If a good woman is only limited to a specific ethnicity than it makes no sense that God created women from all parts of the world. I understand pride in what you are but there's a limit-- because this website seems borderline narcissistic.


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Insane 4 weeks ago

If Filipino women are as great as you describe than why do Filipino men fall in love hard with women of other races (Thai, Japanese, Caucasian, Latina, African-American, Hawaiian, etc?) It seems almost insane to boost that Filipino women only make good wives, desirable, and "Beautiful" when there is women all over the world who possess those same qualities. If a good woman is only limited to a specific ethnicity than it makes no sense that God created women from all parts of the world. I understand pride in what you are but there's a limit-- because this website seems borderline narcissistic.


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Chrisdeth11 2 years ago from Sohar, Oman

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Waterbaby 2 years ago

Reading all these comments on here about filipinas , leads me to share my story . I'm 42 white male from Florida US , to start I was married for 12 years to a home town girl , 2 kids , good job , house all the things we wanted , divorced by the time I am 33 , single for 6 years after . Met a filipina that had been in the US for 8 years she was also divorced , we were engaged for a year and she left me to go back to her x husband ( he did me a big time favor ) . So getting to my point , Im now engauged to a beautiful 39 year old from Cebu , her fiancé visa has been approved and hopefully we are to be married in Nov 2014 , here in the states , we did not meet online or a dating site , her sisters husband and I fished together from time to time , so my fiancé sister introduced us , and the rest has been great , so those of you thinking about a filipina for a soulmate and or wife , find the Filipino community where you live and if you are a good guy , make friends with the husbands that have filipina wife and I promise you that they will be glad to introduce you to a single filipina family member , this is your safest way to meet a good , honest , and loyal future soulmate , honest communication is all you need and well of course the money to travel there to meet her and the family , they will take good care of you !!!


Waterbaby 2 years ago

By the way , I do not have any problem finding American girls to date . My issue is my kids are grown up and have their own lives , and I'm not raising anyone else's kids or dealing with there x husband , so for me finding a 39 year old that has no kids and never been married was a big turn on for me !!!


Carol 2 years ago

Hi, just wanna share my experience in finding a lifetime partner on a dating site.....

I'm a Filipina 27 years old and married to a wonderful European guy who is 35 years old, (just got married January this year) and (we were on a long distance relationship for over a year), and now living together happily and waiting for our first baby by the end of this year :)....

We've first met from a dating site , and chatted over YM for a few months then we've first met last 2012 in just less than 2 hours, coz I was so afraid to meet him and quite hesitant to go for a date with him, (like I was having 2nd thoughts of meeting or say go for a date with him coz of the thoughts about what would other people say about me dating a foreign guy and that was my first time to date a foreign guy too) (and that there were some rare rape cases by going on a date with a foreign guy too) (sorry, but I was just quite paranoid about what would other people tell... coz in reality, Filipino's usually think that you are a gold digger if you're with a foreign guy, or that u r a slut,,, sad reality,,, but true. (not generalizing all Filipino's though)... my husband know's about that hesitation of meeting him the first time and everytime we talk about it today, we just laugh and make fun of it lol (((((and btw I'm pretty sure that my husband never doubted about me saying that he's the only foreign guy I've ever dated, coz he was the only guy I've ever slept with (so I guess u know what I mean) .... not that he's the only guy who dated me (I had filipino bf a few yrs before I started dating him and Im not an ugly woman too (well that's as my friends)...., but because I gew up in a home with 5brothers so they were quite protected and quite strict with me ;) )))))) ,...... ......, ,,,,,,

I'm a decent girl and the reaason why I registered to an online dating site was because of curiosity , (like how it works) and (since it was free to register, i've created an account) and thats how and where I found my husband (which I consider as one of my best decision made, coz he is really a wonderful husband)..... ... and I never asked a single cent from him (God knows that my intension is just to look for somebody to share my life with, although I know that it was quite risky to go for online dating but I'll never knew if I never tried), and it was so great that I went for a date with him and even that less than 2 hrs of chatting in a restaurant somewhere in Greenbelt Makati, we both felt that special connection, and when he flew back home to Europe, we kept sending messages via YM and FB (just using my iPod that time coz my laptop got broken a few days after we first chatted online) and cant use skype coz I only have the 2nd series of iPod that time (no camera) (was able to bought it coz I was working in Makati that time..... then he came back to be with me and met my family a few times (I actually have 5brothers and the only girl among the thorns lol), and was raised decently by my parents and brothers too) and everytime he visits me in the Philippines, we make sure that we have our !WE! time together by going somewhere out of manila for a few days so just to get to know each other more, then back to have a bonding time with my family.... He is a really a nice guy and my family accepted him whole heartedly without any hesitation (they even allowed me to travel to Europe last year with him, even though we were just on a !BF and GF! relationship) and there, I met all his family and friends in different places..... It was never my dream to have a foreign husband, it was just out of my curiosity to try that online dating site..... and destiny brought us together, and now living together happily :)

To those who are commenting or generalizing that Filipina's are just over money.... well, there r so many decent Woman/Filipinas, u just have to be careful in finding them and just not to search somewhere on a bar/pubs (most of them only needs money from their foreign guys) and most especially never send any single amount of money......, decent girls never make such drama on the net (asking for money for their love ones, or because they're sick..., they asks money to different foreign guys to make a living... they are not the type of WOMAN who is worth keeping for a lifetime and cannot be even trusted with a long distance relationship.......) decent girls are those who goes chatting with u, and doesn't ask for any material thing, they may tell u some problems about their family but will never ask help and ask money from foreign guys, and the chat conversation should goes decently as well.....

Date a woman who never ask for money and is sincere about what she tells you when you are in a long distance relationship.....

(My husband told me that he likes me and knew that I was sincere on what I was telling him during those times that we were chatting coz he saw my pictures on FB on how close I am to my family, and all my brothers has decent job to make a living as well......)

(an btw, the reason why I said that online dating is quite risky, is because there are also guys who make a good profile but then all they want is just to have s e x while on their vacation in the Philippines....sad but true....

Just sharing my thoughts.....

Have a nice day everyone.....

Thanks


jeya 2 years ago

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Hazel 2 years ago

Reading all these comments about how Filipinas are caring, loving, honest and faithful partners in life made me proud to be one. Although there were some negative comments I trust they were just the exception to the rule. Thank you for all the folks out there for their positive observation and comments about us

Btw, I'm Hazel, 22 years old, graduated college(education) and just passed the board exam for civil service. Currently, I am staying in the city of Manila working for my papers at the Professional Regulatory Commission . I came from a province in eastern Visayas where one can enjoy the white beaches and pristine blue water of the sea.

As I've said, those beautiful experiences I've read gave me the encouragement to post my name here and see where will this lead me to. My facebook account:

hazel_alobin@yahoo.com


Joyce 2 years ago

hi im joyce from philipines,im looking american man,who loves me,im 24 years old,this my number..09297922430,thanks have a nice day!


Joe 2 years ago

There is no culture that is more misleading then FILIPPINOS.I married one and lived there for several years.Pathological lying is one of there greatest anti-qualitys.They make very good actors that you will find hard to believe.


ritzstar 2 years ago

What the heck are you saying about filipinas? 50% of filipinas are true and 50% lies. .Lol! Beware


Rod 22 months ago

I would like any suggestions, comments, or concerns for my current situation.

I got bored many months ago and decided to create a account on a dating site. Yes, I researched the stats and know a lot of scams take place on these types of sites. I would call it common sense to know these things. I had 300 messages from different girls within 3 days of opening my profile. Yes, you could say there was scams everywhere I'm sure. After talking to a few for a couple of days I settled on talking to one. She caught my attention the most with looks and what she had to say.

So we talked for about a week just through the site and we both decided to close our accounts on the dating site and continue talking through facebook and a little later Skype video chat. It was some what re assuring seeing all her post from now to years back. Currently we video chat about 2 hours every day when I get up (when she gets off of work). On her day off we Skype more like 4 to 5 hours. She is a manager at a store in a mall in Cebu City. I know she telling me the truth because she is constantly sending me pictures every day from her ride to work, at work, and after work. She send me pictures of her and her staff at work to. She sends me a letter every day off (Tuesday) with stickers for my son. I send a letter back when I receive hers. We also call each other through an app called viber. She is educated and speaks English very well. She is 24 years of age with no kids, I'm 32. We text through out the day unless one of us is sleeping. I have talked with her mom through skype and her Step Dad (who is a American). Special occasions like Christmas or New years or what ever it might be we Skype. We talk about everything under the sun. Money has never been a topic though. She is looking for that special someone and to have a family with. As am I. In July, I plan on flying to the Philippians so I can spend time with her alone and spend more time with her family. The family wants me to stay with them when we are not traveling seeing the sights and learning each other 1 on 1. I totally believe that everything that is happening between us is real and not even close to being something bad. I could see myself bringing her over on a fiancée visa if it feels right. I just would like to here your thoughts and if I'm missing something.


Micky 22 months ago

Hi Rod

In a round-about way you asked if you're 'missing something'. I'm using an educated guess to say you are. You appear to be seeking approval rather than sharing your real concerns & hearing what you might not want to hear. Would you need to ask for approval if you never had any doubts in your mind?

So to know this girl more. She was one of 300 who messaged the 'fresh meat' within 3 days of you opening an account. It's not a good start. I take it her 1st message was somehow related to your individual profile rather than an 'interesting' but generic message which could've been sent to anyone?

The closing of her profile, sounds very reassuring doesn't it. In reality it means nothing to a Filipina scammer whom may already have several active profiles on several different sites, they're free after all. Same applies to FB, the scammers will more often than not have more than one account. Being added to the account with friends & family mean little if they all know her game and the unwitting foreigner is just an 'idiot man'.

You say she's educated so I'm guessing college at a minimum and most likely, university? Studying what exactly? How does this tie in with being a manager for a store in a mall in what appears super-fast time if she somehow worked her way up? 18-24 year old Filipinas are 10 a penny when it comes to working in the mall, usually all on short-term contracts so the bosses don't have to pay further entitlements (towards pensions etc) after the 6 month mark. Being a manager I guess she's now an enforcer of such a hideous practice.

Must be great for the staff regularly having their pictures taken with the manager. Probably explains why the customers regularly get told "out of stock sir/ma'am" :) How can you be certain the pics are current? Seems like she goes to great lengths to 'prove herself'.

Don't think I've ever heard "Step Dad" being referenced in Phils before. My experience was 'Tito christian name'. I guess being American would explain the very well spoken English. How old is Tito, is he retired, a permanent fixture there? Amongst the scammers in Phils are many foreigners, running all sorts of rackets from illegal cyber dens to general online scamming (using their wives, gf's etc). It's difficult for foreigners to survive on earnings alone in Phils.

The staying at the family home bit, why is it really necessary on a 1st visit? You wouldn't be so eager in the west lol. It's one thing learning their culture but it doesn't mean you have to lose yours. No need to play the family game, do your own. Staying at the family home is often because they don't trust you, it's about control. They'll tell you it's not safe for you to be out on your own, they'll need to chaperone you. It doesn't matter you travelled half way around the world, it's too dangerous for you to visit the local wet market alone lol.

Well some of the above may or may not be relevant in your particular situation. I just decided to post something opposite but still realistic compared to your very positive account.

If you do have any doubts, you need to be honest to yourself and carefully weigh it up. Listen to the head, not the heart.


alburo.richelle 20 months ago

I have been searching for a man, a western man to be exact for long term relationship. I know it's not that easy. Scammers are everywhere and in fact, i have been scammed for three times just this month so i did some research about them.

Not all of us are gold diggers, players or whatever it is. We just want to have a serious and a lifetime companionship.

Other foreign men always asks for nude photos so please don't try to clean your image if your one of them.

So, how can you tell me that you're a good guy when you are asking for nude photos? Where's your respect for us.

Well, i'm still hoping to find the right one for me.

Seriously seeking

alburo.richelle@y.c


Mimi 20 months ago

I'm filipina but currently live here I US for almost a months, since I was in the Philippines I knew some people who married to an old men, and most filipinos think it's disdisgusting, I know they are looking for money accept it but the good thing is although they got married with an old men they really fell in love with them because most filipinas have a wonderdul heart and faithful as long as you treat them good. I decided to go to online dating and believe me or not most people are the bitches and gold diggers I'm not saying all of them but most of them like 7 percent from 10, I always get fight with those filipinas who are gold diggers because of them most of filipinas accused also, I don't have anymore self confidence with american in here sometimes I ashamed to say I'm filipino because i feel like they gonna think I'm gold digger and easily fuck up like the others which is a big no! And for those who wants to marry Fililpina you would rather visit Philippines and go to province you will find a good one don't trust online easily !


Tom 20 months ago

@mimi, and @richelle, thanks for sharing. My concern is this. Not all men are the same. It is very hard to find a sincere girl online. Most girls are there to have fun likewise men too. Different judgement has led innocent and sincere ppl missed their opportunities of meeting the right person bcos there's the assumption that all online men or women are the same. During my early online dating I met this young, beautiful innocent looking girl who wanted my to come to the Philippines but I was unable to achieve her wish until she met another foreigner who rimmed our relationship. I was so in love with this girl, but after I knew about her affair with this men, I was heartbroken. Long story short, we are still friends and have been friends for over 4 years now. But we are no longer in a dating relationship. Till today, she still regrets her action and mistakes in our relationship. @mimi the fact that you did nothing wrong, u don't have to feel ashamed or regret anything. I know a lot of ppl stereotype but life goes on. I'm always proud of my country no matter how it's been condemned by any individuals or nation. Good to have you in the states. Have fun and be happy. Cheers


Tom 20 months ago

@mimi, and @richelle, thanks for sharing. My concern is this. Not all men are the same. It is very hard to find a sincere girl online. Most girls are there to have fun likewise men too. Different judgement has led innocent and sincere ppl missed their opportunities of meeting the right person, just bcos there's the assumption that all online men or women are the same. During my early online dating I met this young, beautiful innocent looking girl who wanted me to come to the Philippines, but I was unable to achieve her wish, until she met another foreigner who ruined our relationship. I was so in love with this girl, but after I knew about her affairs with several men, I was heartbroken. Long story short, we are still friends, still chatting till date and have been friends for over 4 years now. But we are no longer in a dating relationship. Till today, she still regrets her action and mistakes in our relationship. @mimi the fact that you did nothing wrong, u don't have to feel ashamed or regret anything. I know a lot of ppl are stereotypical but life goes on. I'm always proud of my country no matter how it's been condemned by any individuals or nation. Good to have you in the states and am happy for u. Have fun and be happy. Cheers


raghu 20 months ago

Filipinas are Users and extort money from u...........

I don't know about the Filipinas living in Philippines but I can say certain things very surely about Filipinas living in Dubai.

I had a relationship with a Filipina and I got to know about her secrets just 2 months after the relationship started. I really could not believe that how come a person can have secrets like that . Then I started researching about Filipinas behavior and their consideration for a relationships. I went to each and every Filipino colleague of mine just to know how come a girl can be so secretive. I kept researching for six months just out of curiosity how come people be so fake. During that time i broke up with my GF but kept friendship alive. Then slowly slowly she told me the below mentioned things about Filipinas and i got confirmation from almost all colleagues of mine + other Filipino friends of mine and reached to these conclusions and trust me 90% of them are like that and it is very normal for them (may be this is what their culture is or this is how they take the relationship).

1. They make relationship with other nationals just to suck their money or to get passport of some western country, if the guy is White.

2. Almost all Filipinas just play with guys for money ( they can date a guy just for 1 time meal at KFC) and have more than 1 boyfriend for sure. If ur GF who is a Filipina is faithful and loyal to u, u need to wake up from ur illusion. She is not faithful, she is just clever and knows how play.

3. Here in Dubai 90% are single moms and most of them lie and don't disclose their marital status and their kids.

4. Not all but more than 50% are into hidden prostitution. They have links and sleep with White guys or locals just for 500 bucks (sometimes even 300).

5.A Filipina can leave her husband and kids just for a teddy bear, nice chocolate (not even expensive ones) and 1 rose. U need to pamper her with these 3 things for three days in a row and 4th day she'll be in ur bed.

Their image in Dubai is really bad. people think that they are easily available puss** and treat them like tissue paper (use n throw) almost without any efforts just because they behave cheap and low standard.

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Sanjay 17 months ago

I like philipino girl


anthony 16 months ago

humm .cebu girl 24 ..im 49 i like her ?


ann 16 months ago

hello...im ann, im 35.from philippine... looking a man can love me who i am..here's my fb account rek av pd....


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Jack Burton 16 months ago from The Midwest

My lovely Filipina wife and I just crossed our 41st anniversary together as we were married in February, 1974. We got to celebrate it in Luzon. I must say many of these posts are quite amusing.


Tom 16 months ago

@Jack Button, congrats to you. Glad to see your input. Though, I will say your generating is quite different from the current generation. Current generation seems corrupt these days. My Filipino female friend once told me and I quote, "never you trust a Filipino woman, not even me ". She also said, Almost all Filipinos girls hardly love these days and are all after money and traveling abroad...


Alastair 15 months ago

I have been dating a 44 year old lady from the Phils for some time, I am 49. While I could have chosen a much younger lady very easy, I met this one online and fell in love. Age is just a number, she could have been 24 or 34, it would not make a difference. Next week I will be travelling to meet her for the first time. We are both very excited.


Christian Mersing 6 months ago

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BEWARE.... 3 months ago

BEEN MARRIED TO A FILIPINO FOR SEVERAL YEARS NOW....SHE'S LIKE A BLACK WIDOW SPIDER....AS MANY OF THEM TRULY SEEM TO BE.....AFTER MUCH EXPERIENCE...OBSERVATIONS....AND WHAT WAS MOST SHOCKING TO ME WARNINGS FROM FILIPINO MEN AND WOMEN....WHO SEEMED TRULY CHRISTIANLY HONEST....THESE SEEM TOO FEW AND FAR BETWEEN...GOD BLESS....PRAY EXTREMELY THOROUGHLY BEFORE CONSIDERING....I WOULD HIGHLY RECOMMEND AGAINST IT.....


Arnie Sorenson 7 weeks ago

I got married in 1989 ... to a Filipino lady ..before the internet became popular ...back then it was a case of marry or move on ...the marriage failed but it was not because any party was unfaithful . Some of the comments here have some truth in them ...but as a whole the average marriage success between Asian / Filipino / European is better than average.

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