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An eHarmony login subscription doesn't include the thrill

Hey Guys and Girls! I am writing this piece about some of these online dating sites like eHarmony.ca and the like.MY whole premise is that it costs money to get an eHarmony login when dating and making friends should be free. Just want to say that I do support anyone helping other people find love but I also want to put forth an alternative point of view of online dating. By all means, you should try out eHarmony.ca and other sites for yourself and come up with your own judgment.

Now lets give credit where credit is due. Dating sites are a great business and there are many people in this world willing to pay for an eHarmony login. I mean, if you consider the number of people that have signed up at eHarmony.ca in the past few years, you can imagine how much cash they are making.

Well, I am all for them having amazing business sense and putting up a great idea in the form of a website but the amount they charge for getting an eHarmony login is too much in my opinion. Especially for something that they don’t even give you: the authentic social experience which you can get for free. Look Dating is supposed to be fun and entertaining and there may be a better way to go about it than searching on eHarmony.ca


Dating is not meant to be a chore that can be made easier using the Internet. You can certainly learn how to date effectively by reading up about it online. I mean, it’s not like buying insurance or getting your groceries delivered, for crying out loud! It is more like making new friends (good ones that you can fool around with ;) So, why relegate it to some “algorithm” that you get with an eHarmony login account? Why not just go outside and smile at everyone you see. Join social events or use the online medium to organize social events. Just keep reading and I will tell you exactly what I mean. You will then need to make up your own mind on eharmony.ca and whether paying that much for an eharmony login is worth it to you.

Facebook Trumps eHarmony.ca

Yup, you fight fire with fire right? The cool thing about Facebook is that, if used correctly, it can be used for good rather than evil. Well, you have SOME friends right? And you most likely have a Facebook account. Have a party and invite all your friends, then ask them to invite all their other friends. Soon, you will have a mix of people, most that you don’t know at your party and more interesting than people you are likely to meet online, maybe even at eHarmony.ca . Meet them all! Make more friends and find that someone using nature’s algorithm – chemistry (and maybe some light cocktails)! It is a lot more fun! Trust me! And you don’t even have to shell out the big bucks for the eHarmony login account.

Meetup.com “one-ups” the eHarmony Login

So what is both free and more fun than simply putting up an impersonal profile up at sites like eHarmony.ca ?

Have you heard of this site? Meetup.com? It is awesome! Look, this is how it works – you have some interests, right? I mean, you gotta like something. So, you sign on to this site and then you search for groups of people who like what you like – say knitting Chihuahua sweaters! Then, once a week or so, you can get together face to face and have some drinks or dinner or talk about the latest platinum tipped sewing needles. It works great! These are all tips to meet people but they are all about doing it face to face in the real world and do not include extra fees for an eHarmony login

Other Gripes

One of the biggest problem with eHarmony.ca and other dating sites is the legitimacy of the people who are actually members in those sites. I mean, it is no secret that people lie about all sorts of things on the internet and no matter how comprehensive a verfication program claims to be from a dating site, people will always lie. Nature's way of being able to spot a lie by face to face interactions cannot be replaced using eHarmony.ca verification procedures. Look, at the end of the day, it is absolutely true that dating sites, love promising ebooks etc are at best very poor replacements for the real thing. An eHarmony Login will never allow you experience the thrill of the face to face courtship. But the internet can be used to bring about real courtship as was mentioned in this article just don't use the internet to accomplish all aspects of dating. Sites like eHarmony.ca, date.com, match.com and others who offer to do it all for you in exchange for money are not cool in my book. Just like facebook cannot replace hanging out with your friends, you should not expect your eHarmony login to replace going out on an actual date.

I am not a fan of dating sites

If you have read all the way down here, you probably know that by now. It’s true, I don’t like dating sites. I just don’t approve of them. They are not the real deal. They are like fake vegan burgers but let’s just leave that for another time! :D Happy Hunting without that eHarmony login account! You don't need it!

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8 comments

Bob 5 years ago

I should be making coffee for a special someone instead of

poking keys on a cotten picking computer.


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mailxpress 5 years ago from New York

Hi,

I can understand the point of view you make in this article. I hear ya and I get it.

I'm someone who joined eHarmony about a month ago and going to meet one person this week. I had many emails sent to me telling me the eHarmony system has a match for me but one particular match profile stood out from the rest. I look forward to meeting him tomorrow and I will keep you updated with the progress and if it's a success. I also wrote a Hub about my experience using different online dating sites.


FOZDIGUAZU 5 years ago

PERHAPS THERE IS AN INACCURATE ASSUMPTION THAT WE,,FEMALES HERE, HAVE ZILCH 2 BRING 2 THE DATING TABLE AND THE FACT THAT WE R HERE INDICATES THAT WE R AT THE END OF OUR TETHER...HENCE SHLD SWALLOW ANY EXCRETIA / UNACCEPTABLE MISMATCHESSITES DUMP CARELESSLY ON US..

AS ACONFIDENT /SUCCESSFUL / WELLEDUCATED / TERTIARY EDUCATED PROFESSIONAL ATTRACTIVE FEMALE THEY TRY 2 MAKE U FEEL U R CREATING YR MISMATCHED DATES PROBLEM BY HAVING WHAT R MINIMAL STANDARDS,,WHICH UD HAVE IN THE REAL WORLD ANYWAY...

COMPATIBILITY BEGINS WITH YR COMFORT ZONE IN THE AREA OF EDUCATION...SOMEONEWHO CANT READ /SPELL/WRITE LICIDLY MAY B YR CHOICE ,,YET THEY SEND

BORDERLINELITERATES WITH THE GROSSEST SPELLINGS /GRAMMAR /SYNTAX /ON SOME OF THESE SITES...WONT CALL THEIR NAMES....AS THO BEINGEDUCATED IS A MAJOR MAJOR PROBLEM

I WAS SENT EVERY GYM INSTRUCTOR, HAIRDRESSER,TRAVELLING SALESMAN,INSURANCE SELLER, BAND MUSICIAN,REPAIRMAN , TRUCKER,ETC,,WHEN MY UNAPOLOGETICC REQUEST WAS 4 SIMILARLY TERTIARY EDUCATED GRAD..SO WHATS WRONG WITH SELECTING A LIKE SOUL PRAY...ONE SITE INCORPORATES THE MESNOMER PROFESSIONAL INTO THEIR ADVERTISING RUBRIC,, YET CONSISTED SOLELY OF THE ABOVE MATCHES SENT ME AND CUTELY INSISTED THAT I WAS CREATING THE PROB BY MY STANDARDS,,,,IMPARAPHHRASING ,,,AND I SHLD LOWER THE BAR...

JUST AS IN THE REAL WORLD ,THE ETHER WORLD APPEARED TIPPED IN FAVOUR OF OUR MALE COMPATRIOTS HAVING THE WIDER CHOICE OF ACCEPTABLE PARTNERS/OPTIONS..

THE SITES BECOME DEFENSIVE OF THEIR LOW BARS WHERE APPLICABLE,AND TRY2MAKE U THE PERSON WITH SELECTIVITY, FEEL U R THE ISSUE....ONE NEEDS 2 COMEINTO THIS ACTIVITY WITH A SOLID SENSE OFPERSONAL WORTH


Steppenwolf 5 years ago

I had tried years back, and your very much on the mark to what you state here. As, I just got back on the internet after 4 years and by accidently ran a couple of the services and found that they send you this message that these are the best matches; this one wants to cat or meet you. You go to the site and all that it is: nothing but a lead on to get you to throw your money into their site. I say that I for one do not believe in the use of credit cards and exspecially on the internet. Credit cards are for those that need help in an EMERGENCY, but people put themselves out by (for eg. Christmas shopping) charging to the max and them paying the two prices. No thanks!!

There had been a thing on some chats lines that are just as bad as these date lines. It seems you justt cannot look for conversations or friends; they want sexual contacts. I try to be careful with these chat lines because I've had females (that is if they truely are) tried to say and expect you to but them a ticket to get out of their country. They show as if they are in the U.S., and then they tell you that they are on the other side of the world. And they don't understand the English or something else. Then when they had not got anything out of you, they move on and never want to chat with you any more.

To what I see and understand, is those chat lines and date lines are very misleading and are foe losers.


Bri 5 years ago

Why do we well educaded women have to lower our standards? After all we r talking about possibly forevr,personally, I dont intend on lowering any of my standards,furthermore, do men really lower their standards?no-i dont think so!


Andy Borths 4 years ago

I'm looking for the women that over the age of 45 and don't have kid's and love to fun and also scrow around on the weekend's and don't mind be around disfrount place with me and going to travel around to Green Bay and also down by steven point to go vist and old frend of my from high school year ago i'm just looking for to suddel and also grow old with life get perty boring with noboby to it with.


diane 3 years ago

no one is serious to date on e harmony 3 mounts no serious responds waste of my time


Kay 3 years ago

GREAT eHARMONY STORY TO SHARE: I met a man on eHarmony; all is well (after 2.5 years of long distancing dating)...our only concern has been who moves? I moved. As he owes nothing on his residence in Florida and I still owed on my home however I fairly easily SOLD my home! And my love offered to sell his place. I said. No. We 'date' long distance; I fly to his place (he pays) and he flies to my place. Our relationship is headed toward marriage; we both agree! Being in an agreement is possible a second time around!

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