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mY male friend is mean to me

  1. schoolgirlforreal profile image75
    schoolgirlforrealposted 4 years ago

    yes ray is mean to me. what do I do? he has a problem with communication. he says I don't make sense.

    1. Shadesbreath profile image89
      Shadesbreathposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      If someone is mean to you, then the obvious thing to do would be to stop trying to communicate with that person. If you go back for more after someone is mean to you once, any injury suffered on the second and subsequent attempts is your own fault. Simply walk away.

    2. jpcmc profile image86
      jpcmcposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      If you did everything to communicate clearly then the problem is with him.

  2. WriteAngled profile image91
    WriteAngledposted 4 years ago

    A relationship does not have to involve physical violence to be abusive.

    Some people stay in abusive relationships because they get a certain emotional payback from being a victim. Others walk away without looking back. It's an individual choice.

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    Arlene V. Pomaposted 4 years ago

    You need to kick Ray to the curb.

    1. jpcmc profile image86
      jpcmcposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      Perhaps that will make him get the massage clearer. smile

  4. knolyourself profile image60
    knolyourselfposted 4 years ago

    If you don't make sense you are mean to him. Maybe not your fault. Maybe he just stupid. Or maybe you really don't make sense. Can't tell from here. You can educate him or move on. I usually try the first first
    and resolve the latter.