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Attraction to pretty women

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    freedomspiritposted 3 years ago

    First off, I love men and their bodies...I absolutely love men's bodies
    but I was thinking about the following

    If I enjoy looking at pretty women even in Playboy, does that mean I'm bisexual?
    When I see pretty woman, my mind does Not automatically go to "I want to do this" or anything
    but I admit if I could have one of those models, I just might take up the offer.
    I'm not attracted to ordinary women although I can appreciate beauty in general.

    1. recommend1 profile image73
      recommend1posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Beautiful things are only beautiful when looked at as beauty is literally 'in the eye . . '.  The only thing that interferes with our assessment is our life training - girls are not supposed to look at girls etc . .

      this is clearly nonsense and the more unhindered you are - the more can appreciate things of beauty whatever they are.

      I am available for 'looking at' if you fancy popping round - there is plenty to see . . . . . . . . . . . unfortunately most of it is around my waist big_smile

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        freedomspiritposted 3 years ago in reply to this


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      Peelander Gallyposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      The average female body is profoundly more aesthetically pleasing than that of an average man, IMO and in the opinion of most. There's also quite a rift between purely hetero and purely homosexual into which most people fall, but they for some reason have trouble rationalising or exploring that.

  2. Dame Scribe profile image60
    Dame Scribeposted 3 years ago

    I think if a woman can look at another woman and 'admit', this woman is lovely and just continue on her way, shows that she's quite emotionally mature. She's quite comfortable with herself. I don't think it means she's bisexual at all tongue I do the same but if a 'lovely' woman shows 'hostility' towards other women, well, she'll never be part of my circle of friends. Making oneself feel better at expense of destroying another, really is not a emotional or personality characteristic I'd celebrate. I teach this to my sons wink

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      freedomspiritposted 3 years ago in reply to this


    2. tammybarnette profile image61
      tammybarnetteposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      I agree smile

  3. John-Rose profile image61
    John-Roseposted 3 years ago

    I'm a man, so my opinion may not matter. The female body is increadiy seductive and a wonderful thing to take in. I am not a pervert and I don't go following random women around the mall. More importantly; just because I love the female figure doesn't mean that I am unfaithful. I'm married and love my wife to death. So, my answer to your question is "no" I don't think that you are bisexual. You to appreciate the tamale figure.

    I read a report years ago that a lot of women would rather stare at a nude tamale than a nude male.

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      freedomspiritposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      yes, I've heard that too. thanks smile

  4. John-Rose profile image61
    John-Roseposted 3 years ago

    That's not supposed to be "tamale"....female.  smile

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      freedomspiritposted 3 years ago in reply to this


  5. gmwilliams profile image85
    gmwilliamsposted 3 years ago

    Not at all!

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      freedomspiritposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      what? you agree that its not bi to be attracted to women? I think the above commenters -thank you all for commenting- are right

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    freedomspiritposted 3 years ago

    I guess I would say I agree with Dame Scribe and Peelander Gally,
    the woman's body is a beauty and work of art
    been told that when i was a kid

    and so yeah

    and so yeah if you don't want to do anything that's cool.

    And yes there are varying degrees like some like to kiss to turn guys on or whatever
    i guess


    I''m getting more comfortable around women. some issues came up and I was going thru therapy
    I'm realizing I can trust women - and that it's okay and that they really want to be my friend
    -for years I was angry and no one approached me so I was like "Wow! they like me!!

    Anyways, I think I'll be ok wink

  7. Jonathan Janco profile image81
    Jonathan Jancoposted 3 years ago

    I definitely love to look at pretty women as well, and I don't think that means I'm bisexual. lol
    But seriously, I wouldn't put too much stake in this until you are confronted with an oppurtunity of such an experience. And if you are bisexual, well, then so what . . . it is what it is.

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      freedomspiritposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      true. it is what it is. if that ever happens. if
      if if if if if if