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HOW MUCH SHOULD YOU TELL YOUR FIANCE ABOUT YOUR PASS RELATIONSHIPS?

  1. Shemang Joy M profile image59
    Shemang Joy Mposted 4 years ago

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    Like pulling down a poorly constructed building and starting construction from the foundation all over again, letting go of a relationship that has no magnitude or direction is indeed a wise move. Starting a new relationship takes a lot of courage. If you do start one and you get engaged, how much of your past should your fiance (or fiancee) know?

    1. Haunty profile image85
      Hauntyposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      If she doesn't ask, I would tell her nothing anout my past relationships. If she does ask, I would just answer the specific question, but without going into much detail. I think she has the right to know what she wants, but other than that talking about ex's is just not a good thing, imo.

      1. Shemang Joy M profile image59
        Shemang Joy Mposted 4 years ago in reply to this

        Haunty, thanks for your contribution. Don't you think there is risk in telling her nothing about the relationships? What happens if you later discover you had dated say her sister?

        1. Haunty profile image85
          Hauntyposted 4 years ago in reply to this

          Oh hahah, I don't know. I guess if I were dating someone I would know who her sister is. Maybe. I just think that girlfriends usually hate hearing about ex's. But this may be different where you are.

 
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