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What makes you feel loved?

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    Beth37posted 3 years ago

    With Valentines Day coming up, I wonder... is there something special someone did for you in the past?
    Was there a gift or an action... a term of endearment?
    What speaks loud and clear to you, "I love you?"

    This song is a perfect love song imho. What girl wouldn't want to hear these words whispered in her ear?

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HoRkntoHkIE

    1. MissJamieD profile image79
      MissJamieDposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      My amazing boyfriend bought me roses when I should've been apologizing to him for being crabby.

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        Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

        Aw, you're so lucky. How sweet. smile

  2. Stina Caxe profile image87
    Stina Caxeposted 3 years ago

    I've always liked the boys who would write me songs or poems. 

    I love jewelry but creativity is sweet and deep.  I have to say though, the BEST gift I EVER got for Valentines day was a nap.  Now that I have two kids, I am hoping this year I get an even longer nap!

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      Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      haha... that's true... there's little else that touches our hearts and souls as deeply as that of a good sound sleep. lol

    2. MissJamieD profile image79
      MissJamieDposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      I agree that it's nice if a boy can write, but not all good men can..lol..so I accept whatever love my boyfriend will give me and sometimes it's flowers, it's also been a 52" TV, jewelry, eating at my favorite place, clothes, and he's always loving and adorable so I have the best of both worlds. Is he perfect? Of course not but he's the best thing that's ever happened to me. I wish for everyone to have the same love at least once in their lives, it changes you, it gives you hope.

      And hey, I have three kids and naps are amazing!! You've got a good man too:) Have a great day!

  3. donotfear profile image92
    donotfearposted 3 years ago

    Right now, what makes me feel loved is when my grandson sees me he runs up and hugs me.  When he stays with me, he want's to snuggle up and hold onto my arm.  He says "I wuv you, Nonny". 

    And that makes  me feel loved.

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      Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      aw smile

  4. Zelkiiro profile image83
    Zelkiiroposted 3 years ago

    I've always been single, so I couldn't tell ya.

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      Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      what about a parent? did they ever do anything to make you feel loved?

      1. Zelkiiro profile image83
        Zelkiiroposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        That's even harder to elaborate on, especially when you grow up in a relatively stable and loving family. Do I mention big things like Christmas gifts or supporting you financially, or do I mention menial things like cooking meals and helping with taxes?

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          Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

          sounds like you have good parents. smile

  5. Astra Nomik profile image81
    Astra Nomikposted 3 years ago

    What makes me feel loved ... is the person who loves me, and the love I find in the words, thoughts, emails, messages and sentiments and other crazy beautiful things that are lovingly expressed... out of love for me. Knowing I am loved... the feeling of my life shared with another... the kisses, hugs... the feeling of belonging to another person, of being part of a beautiful person's life.

    Saint Valentine's Day is a day to celebrate romance and love. But I try not to fall in the trap of making that one day more special, since every day is a Valentine's Day to me. Love and being loved by someone is an act of endearment in itself. Knowing love, having love in my life. It fills my cup and it overflows...

    Sometimes it can be the smallest things and the simplest things that speak loud and clear to me. I unclutter myself of excess baggage, of high or unfair expectations... and I just focus on my true love. My every essence, my existence begins and ends with her.

    Sharing a life with the ones I love so much...and the one sweet lady in particular. Just having a life with her is enough.

    And the song is nice. smile

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      Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Aw, Im glad you like it.

  6. dmvjane profile image60
    dmvjaneposted 3 years ago

    His presence. I really need to feel him whenever he is around. My schedule is hectic and his time is consumed by his career. So, whenever we're together, I really need to feel that he is around. Otherwise, he better go back to his job.

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      Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      I love that. Im the same way.

  7. weedprices profile image59
    weedpricesposted 3 years ago

    MY dog!

  8. ahorseback profile image48
    ahorsebackposted 3 years ago

    An act of love .  How about doing something  really nice for her [or him ]without prompt , no holiday ,no obligations , no promises or  pre planning .  Just decide next sunday to let her sleep in , or do the chores for a day for  her . Have a perfect day Beth !

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      Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Aren't you lovely? smile

  9. ahorseback profile image48
    ahorsebackposted 3 years ago

    Beth I want you to sleep in tomorrow morning  ! Okay sweety , heres your blankey !...hehe

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      Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      I actually got to today... that never happens. You must have known.

  10. MissJamieD profile image79
    MissJamieDposted 3 years ago

    My boyfriend helped me clean the entire house yesterday. I did have to ask, but he didn't complain once. I didn't have to remind him or tell him how it needed to be done, he just plowed through and got 'er done:)

    It's nice to have a lover that will do those things for us once in awhile isn't it? Or like some of you are saying, to just let us sleep in, or give us a day off from doing chores without saying anything or complaining? Those things are priceless. Sounds like I'm not the only lucky one:)

  11. Samith Jhon profile image79
    Samith Jhonposted 3 years ago

    Being cared about, the girl showing passion, respect, hugs, kisses, waving, smiling, touching, holding hands, flirting, just knowing that she loves me and is always there for me smile

  12. Paolocruz profile image59
    Paolocruzposted 3 years ago

    The presence of someone who love me is enough for me to feel loved. Especially during down moments wherein I badly need someone to listen to me, talk to me, and help me come up with better solutions to unload the weight in my shoulder.

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    PennyJay84posted 3 years ago

    That they love you no matter what and that you can be yourself with them, that they know your deepest darkest fears and insecurities and they are still there after another emotional outburst or sad memory. That they can make you laugh and no matter how bad a situation appears they always know the right words to say and a hug or two along the way helps!

  14. donotfear profile image92
    donotfearposted 3 years ago

    What makes me feel loved:

    When my horse nickers as I walk towards him.

 
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