Do you mostly focus on looks, or do you believe that beauty is more than skin deep. Is compatibility more important than physical attraction? What are your thoughts?
I believe physical attraction is the (first) trait that draws us (men) in. I have never known a guy to pursue a woman he was NOT attracted to physically.
After he gets to know her and finds out whether they are compatible, share the same sense of humor and he determines the attraction is mutual the couple continues down the relationship path one step at a time.
The knee jerk reaction is to say beauty or phyiscal attraction is "shallow" but in reality all of us are out to select the best looking of anything we can get. If three cans of beans are on a store shelf, one is dented, another has the label torn part way off, and the third one looks brand new... Most of us are going to (choose) the third can even though the contents are the same in all three!
Thankfully when it comes to people "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and we are blessed to have over 7 billion people on the planet!
Odds are in our favor there is someone who would be attracted to each and everyone us enough to want to get to know us better.
One man's opinion! :-)
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by jonsswagger19784 years ago
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by AnonimusAdvice23 months ago
A follow up To my "SEXY is not the same thing as BEAUTIFUL" essay
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