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Broken heart, strong liver.

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    Beth37posted 3 years ago

    I saw that you all were great at giving romance advice so I thought I'd come to you with my situation.

    I'm not sure how to interpret my boyfriends signals and I thought maybe you all could help. I'm pretty sure he's going to pop the question any day now because we have been dating for a few years and I really get the "proposal vibe" from him.

    I mesmerize him cause when I talk he has a far off look in his eyes or he falls asleep. He's never given me a gift or anything, but I think that's 'cause he's saving up for a ring. The first time we met, I was donating blood and he was my phlebotomist. He didn't seem very interested in me, so I didn't think I'd ever see him again, but as fate would have it, he accidentally ran into my car with his truck a week later. What a stroke of fate! I was shocked to find out that he was in need of a new liver in order to survive, but it didn't matter to me, I plan to stay with him till the end. The weird thing is, we have the same exact rare blood type. What are the odds?!

    I know he loves me 'cause once he took me to a hotel in a remote location. It was a little odd... the people who had used the room before us had left the bathtub full of ice, but we didn't let that dampen our mood... we just went out on the town, but no drinking! He never lets me have even a tiny bit of alcohol. Sometimes I think he cares about my body more than his own.

    We returned to the hotel and the lobby was swarming with the local police. Someone said some surgical paraphernalia was found by a maid in one of the bathrooms and they were trying to locate the occupants. My boyfriend said we should probably just leave our stuff behind and head straight for the airport. He'd do anything to keep me out of harms way. He's so classy.

    Anyway, everyone I know tells me to leave him. They say he's just using me and that he doesn't love me, but it's so obvious to me that he does. I don't know why people are so blind to all his beautiful qualities. I can tell how much he want's me. I can't wait to share my life with him. Thank you in advance  for any advice.

    1. PhoenixV profile image81
      PhoenixVposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Hotels in remote locations can cost and arm and a leg, so he must really care. Many women would give their right arm for someone like that.

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        Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

        I'm so glad you understand. I was hoping someone wise would come along.

        1. PhoenixV profile image81
          PhoenixVposted 3 years ago in reply to this

          I think you should donate all your heart and time to the relationship. Just a gut feeling.

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            Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

            You've convinced me. I am going to give my all to this relationship. I'll hold nothing back.

    2. dashingscorpio profile image86
      dashingscorpioposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Very funny! Another instance of how people can be so gullible! LOL!
      Anyone with a rare blood type who draws blood is no doubt looking for a match. Remote hotels, tubs of ice, and surgical equipment is a sure sign this guy has no intention of getting on anyone's " list" to wait for a new liver. :-)

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        Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

        What are you talking about? He loves me with all his heart. Some of you sure seem a bit loco in la cabeza.

        1. A Troubled Man profile image61
          A Troubled Manposted 3 years ago in reply to this

          And, liver. smile

  2. Mark Ewbie profile image82
    Mark Ewbieposted 3 years ago

    Beth - great funny post.

    Guess where it would have made you a dollar?

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      Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      It's not about money for me Mark. It's all about the love.

      1. Mark Ewbie profile image82
        Mark Ewbieposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        You'd get love as well.  Just a thought.

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          Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

          Im filthy rich... Ive probably never mentioned it.

          1. Mark Ewbie profile image82
            Mark Ewbieposted 3 years ago in reply to this

            OK, well I only was thinking you deserved a wider audience.  I made a dollar out of just talking about it - "why post on forums" or something like that?  And so far I didn't get some troll giving me grief...

            1. PhoenixV profile image81
              PhoenixVposted 3 years ago in reply to this

              You are right and your friend should listen.

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              Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

              Trolls?! Here on HP's? Unheard of!

  3. Will Apse profile image91
    Will Apseposted 3 years ago

    http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/7/70/Songs_of_innocence_and_of_experience%2C_page_39%2C_The_Sick_Rose_%28Fitzwilliam_copy%29.png

    O Rose, thou art sick.
    The invisible worm
    That flies in the night
    In the howling storm

    Has found out thy bed
    Of crimson joy,
    And his dark secret love
    Does thy life destroy.

    ..................................

    The only picture I could find of a liver eating a woman.

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      Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      hahaha. You're crazier than I am.

  4. cheaptrick profile image73
    cheaptrickposted 3 years ago

    Remote location
    Bathtub full of ice
    Same blood type
    Surgical instruments
    He needs a liver
    You have a liver
    Hmmm, run like hell girl!

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      Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      I had not thought of that. When you say it like that, it seems to have some merit.

      1. wilderness profile image95
        wildernessposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        No.  That is only fear speaking.  I...uh...he loves you; go to him!

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          Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

          I knew this was the best place to seek advise. You all are so wise and good-hearted.

    2. A Troubled Man profile image61
      A Troubled Manposted 3 years ago in reply to this

      +1 Yup, that's what he's after.

  5. Marcy Goodfleisch profile image94
    Marcy Goodfleischposted 3 years ago

    Beth - snap him up - he's definitely one of a kind. So many women pray for a guy like yours - one who is so peaceful and calm when you're together that he falls asleep.  One who doesn't even need to express his love.  One who knows that being spontaneous is far more important than delaying a sudden departure just to grab belongings from a hotel room. 

    If you get tired of him, I'll introduce you to the guy I met who borrowed my car while he was in town & it turned out he was sleeping in it. There are several other stellar qualities I could list, but I'm afraid I'd leave something out.  (True story!). 

    Hope you get that proposal soon . . .

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      Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Congratulations! You found someone practical! So many men seek out careers, fancy homes and cars... ludicrous! If he say... delivered pizza, he could have a job, car and home all in one. Why aren't there more women like us that see that diamond in the rough? My man loves me inside out.

      1. wilderness profile image95
        wildernessposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        Beauty is only skin deep; true love (and need) goes far beyond that, to the very center of a person.

      2. Silverspeeder profile image60
        Silverspeederposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        Chianti and fava beans come to mind.........................

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          Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

          pish posh

  6. Will Apse profile image91
    Will Apseposted 3 years ago

    They moved you to Advice and Tips for Women in Relationships? lol.

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      Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Spurned again.

      1. Will Apse profile image91
        Will Apseposted 3 years ago in reply to this

        This site is not a lot of fun right now. But don't abandon us, Beth! Keep posting on the other side too. They might move a few more threads but I can't see this turmoil lasting too long.

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          Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

          Oh I think you imagine my life to be way more interesting than it is. This is all still fun for me... if you and Mark stick around a while, I will always be entertained. smile

  7. healingscars profile image61
    healingscarsposted 3 years ago

    do what you feel is right. only you will see the real signs and if youre lying to yourself you would know it. if you feel or just want to make sure that youre not being used for something else, express your concern and just be honest. tell him that you truly love him but just have some real reason that other people have told you. if he really cares about you he would be open to you doing whatever it takes to protect yourself in case something goes bad.

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      Beth37posted 3 years ago in reply to this

      Now this is the kind of advice I really wanted. Thank you... and your pen name is perfect.

 
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