How to prevent failure of relationships due to "High expectations"

  1. Shuchi12 profile image41
    Shuchi12posted 11 months ago
    Relationships fail because both people expect other person to follow their footsteps or to perform certain responsibilities. But if I suggest , not to have any expectations from other person, then dependency is lost. In today's world , love cannot persist without any interest or use. So when dependency is lost , love is lost. Since other person is not contributing nor interfering in any issues , his/her existance doesn't matter to his/her counterpart.

    So what is the solution for this "expectation" problem?

    It is "adjustment". How this word could be implemented in relationships?
    1)Listen to your partner when he/she is angry , frustrated and try to cool him/her down.
    2) Follow his/her instructions even if you have to put down your ego.
    3) Spend time with him/her.
    4)At the same time give him/her freedom.
    5) Respect his/her opinion.