Why Do Men Love Strippers And Porn??

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   Pearldiverposted 14 years ago

   This Thread (& Question) was started 7 months ago!!
   
   Any Idea How many times in 7 months You Can Deny This?

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   saved078posted 14 years ago

   The reason why some men are turned onto porn and strippers is that it's a sensual turn-on.

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   Has_aWayWithWordsposted 14 years ago

   keep your strippers and porn I prefer hookers and cocaine        I hope someone gets the joke

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   Phenomenal womanposted 13 years ago

   Men love strippers and porn for the same reason,it's a thrill,a fantasy for them.Whatever they dont get from their wife or girlfriend,they get from watching the images of another.Whether it's how she's dressed or the way she moves.Men are attracted to woman in different ways.His wife may not wear lingerie or talk sexually the way he wants her too,so he may turn on a porno and get a thrill from that.Haven't you ever closed your eyes and imagined something freaky,that turned you on,I'm sure you have.It's normal.Men rely more on an image,where as a woman uses more of her own imagination.It's all the same.I would rather my man watch a porn,than cheat on me.As far as the comments I've read about strippers and what people think they know about them,I'm highly offended.And very shocked that so many people are so ignorant when it comes to certain topics.Strippers and hookers are not the same,strippers show their beautiful bodies that god gave them and they get payed for it,like buying a portrait.A piece of art.Hookers on the other hand,have sex for money,they sell their goods.Instead of useing the gift of gab to make their money,they lack the very existance of game,instead,it's easier for them to give it away.So,in case some of you don't know,they are not the same.You should educate yourself more on the topic at hand,rather than talking out the side of your neck.Alot of these strippers are in school,trying to pursue careers and trying to pay tuition.Some are single mothers,trying to feed their babies,because their 9-5 doesnt pay enough.And some are mentally screwed up because of abuse and can't manage a regular job at the moment.Everyone has a reason for what they do.If you lost your job,couldn't feed your children and had no options,what would you do? Let those babies starve,because of your pride? Screw that,I would do whatever it takes to make sure my baby had food.Only god can pass judgement,and who are you again?

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   Hotplateposted 13 years ago

   To be completely honest with you, here it is.  Strippers know exactly what men want.  They don't make it about them, and want to do nothing more than please him.  There is no friendship or feelings there to get in the way of anything.  It's nothing more than a business transaction.  When a guy has gotten what he came there for, he is free to leave without any other obligations to her.  Porn is the same thing, but without a real person there with you.  Wives, girlfriends and women in general load guys down with so many tasks, commitments and guilt that everything they want turns in to a negotiated deal.  The guy only gets what he wants if he agrees to the list of her demands.  After a while that gets a bit old and daunting.

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      Phenomenal womanposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      So true @ hotplate,nicely put.

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   Iontachposted 13 years ago

   Men just love porn, that's the way it is. All that testosterone drives us mental. I wouldn't all men love strippers, seems like too much hassle to pay for one.

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   Gunsnrosesposted 13 years ago

   Porn YES
   Strippers NO

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   ijedimmaposted 13 years ago

   i tink its bcos it gives men xtra plesure 4 sex. they are driven into mood pretty fast nd make them more sexual active

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   RomanceRealityposted 13 years ago

   Men are visual creatures. For a lot of men, most of their girlfriends and wives are not as free with their body and sexuality as a whole. Strippers and women in porn are very unrestricted in that sense. Plus they are for fantasy and stimulation

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    Phil The Gainposted 13 years ago

    It's all about fantasy.  If your lady wont do that stuff then men will find another way to get their fixation satisfied.  Also, men don't always want to worry about satisfying their partner...they just want to get theirs.

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    logic,commonsenseposted 13 years ago

    What's not to love?

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    schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years ago

    I would hope our sex life would be so great
                that we wouldn't desire it or
          That we could be open and honest and like the same
    things so we could share it and not hide it, whatever it be
    
    Having a guy who hides it is dishonest same for girl too
    
    Having a guy who secretly does it cause he's frustrated.....must be the woman's fault.....unless he's into sick stuff and then you wouldn't want him...
      Men and women in relationship or marriage Should satisfy each other
          I don't agree to do it alone, unless there's good reason..
                 If both are very adventurous, it's pretty much endless fun.
    
         This should be discussed before serious commitment.
    
                      my ideas.

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    schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years ago

    ANyone else?

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       Phenomenal womanposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       You are absolutly right @ schoolgirlforreal,unfortunately we live in a world that has been tainted by so many jezzabells.That the options are endless.Me and my fiance share all of our sexual desires and enjoy them together,we are very open.Unfortunately,not every couple is as open.So there becomes a problem.Thats where cheating comes into play for both parties,one was not willing,so the other went to look for another.Its so sad.

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          Greek Oneposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          you said it!!!
          
          what SOOO wrong with wanting to role play with a life size figure on Minnie Mouse!?!?

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    Greek Oneposted 13 years ago

    I stopped looking at porn a long time ago.. before it even became popular online...
    
    WAAAAAY too many paper cuts in all the wrong pages

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       china manposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       don't you mean in the wrong places ?

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          Greek Oneposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          either way works I guess

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    china manposted 13 years ago

    Men love strippers and pron because they think they are controlling woman - HA HAAAA HAAAAAAAAA AAAA AA !  No chance.

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    lady_love158posted 13 years ago

    Men are pigs is why!

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       china manposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Ah!!  so that is the what drives the right wing, hate

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    SomewayOuttaHereposted 13 years ago

    ...ummmmm....they like presents?....

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       china manposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Hey - how you doin' you have just come online as I am pi@@ed as a rat and going to collapse in bed Sukie-less !

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          SomewayOuttaHereposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          ....is that why the whisky and vid?....no spanking for you!....aw come on you can pull it off...she'll be back soon .............and i'm off to work.....

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             SomewayOuttaHereposted 13 years agoin reply to this

             ...left you a couple of gifts on the gifts for men thread...hope that helps!....

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                china manposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                Only if they have great bodies and are smpathic to really ugly men

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                   SomewayOuttaHereposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                   ....that's cuz of the whisky..you'll be back to your handsome self tomorrow.....put that bottle down and stay outta the religious forums..... 

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                      china manposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                      Nah !!   I have this wicked urge to get banned again so that I can get on with the shedloads of translation and editing I gotta do !
                      
                      AND it is only cos I went to bed with whiskey and electric blanket (did I tell you I was Sukie-less?) and the new dvd won't play MP4 @!!!  so I got another whiskey -  - - - and here I am

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                         SomewayOuttaHereposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                         ..ummmm....yes u mentioned being Sukie-less....poor you....get some sleep.....we'll talk later when Sukie's back...don't be trying to get yourself banned....i won't have anyone to talk to later....and Sukie needs you in good shape cuz you'll have some homework to catch up on....not just translatin' stuff.....and make sure the dishes are done too......   

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                            china manposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                            yes MAAM !  I have a fortnight of late nights and self indulgence - why would anyone want to spoil that ?

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    JDeAngelisposted 13 years ago

    I'm a man and I don't like strippers and porn. I'd say that boys like strippers and porn because real men have the enormous responsibility of looking after their families and have no time for useless things. But when men indulge in such things you find that they all have the same selfish, immature personalities, they are weak and don't deserve to be called men.
    
    Real men respect women, they marry and have daughters, you cannot be a good man and still like strippers and porn. Sex should not be a publicized thing, it's a private act between two people who love each other.

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    sergs_pogiposted 13 years ago

    Perhaps, it's nature and innate. Sometimes, when you are lonely, you cannot find somebody to talk with. I know it's bad; however, when it comes to couples, its already natural. How come when singles do watch porn others would judge negatively?

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    Jnich2posted 13 years ago

    Well as far as strippers go there are at least two reasons. The first one is that a stripper treats a man like he is important and feeds his ego (as long as he has lots of cash). Men dream of women falling all over themselves to be with him and when a beautiful woman pays attention to him he feels awesome (unless he has an IQ and realizes if the money stopped these women would care less about him than most).
    
    The second reason can be a social reason. A group of guys want to feel young again. They want to feel like they are not tied down and can do what they want... So they go to a strip club as a rebellion against the constraints of polite society.
    
    Porn can be a lot of things. Maybe the guy just wants to look at beautiful women? Maybe he has an addiction to it? The bottom line on both topics is that men (the straight ones)are attracted to women instinctively so that the human race can survive and these industries are taking advantage of that instinct. Judging from the amount of money these two industries make I would say there is no danger of extinction from lack of breeding.

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    prettydarkhorseposted 13 years ago

    not love, maybe like. Those women make men blood rise and make them young again (feeling), hehe!

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    superwagsposted 13 years ago

    No idea. I'd better go and do some research of my own. Be back in half an hour!

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    knolyourselfposted 12 years ago

    "I would say": so what would be your take on the horns (cuckhold) symbolically?

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    stclairjackposted 12 years ago

    spent the time to read through the whole comversation and i must agree with those that say that for the most part men seem to be the visualy driven creature while women  would apear to be the more audio or tactile entity.
    
    from personal experience i can say that a 14 yr relationship with a man who adored porn and strippers,... well,... in the end, it was very hard to live up to. he realy could not seperate the fantasy from the reality,... i'm sorry,but some of those shots are just for the camera,.. not because it realy is that wonderfull to experience,... just wonderfull to see,... thats why porn is truely a spectator sport.
    
    as to the stripper thing, i couldnt have cared less if he went and watched strippers, hell he always came home in a very usefull mood, so what was there to complain about from my end? nothing. i did find it a bit odd that he would wind up dropping most of his money on the chubby or less than gorgeous ones,... some kind of crazy benevolent pitty thing i guess,... this told to me by his friends,... kinda blew thier minds too.
    
    as for my tastes,.... i like porn when its good,... throw in some reasonable acting in the not too fabulous plot and i'm in,... funny will get me every time, i love laughing my ass off,... if you can get a dvd of the bloopers,... more than worth it!,... and it works to, cause this is funny as hell, you and your partner will laugh till it hurts, and when its over with, you'll find the mood enhancement you were looking for is there.
    
    ron jeremy in "one eyed monster",... seriously funny.
    
    as to strippers,... male or female,... 99.9% of the human race looks better with thier cloths on,.... original sin might be a drag in the spritual sense but at least we got cloths out of the deal.

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    ibbarkingmadposted 12 years ago

    Much research has been done on this topic. It turns out that pornography is actually a drug of sorts. The viewing of it leads to the same results as taking drugs. It is highly addictive and adversely effects the brain's chemistry. The only thing that makes porn better than drugs is that you cannot over dose on it to the point of dying. That being said, it still kills relationships and ruins trust. I recently attended a series of lectures on addiction and found this information out. It was very surprising. The researchers presented a lot of credible duplicated research to show how bad porn is for the human body. While men do gravitate to it more, there is still women who suffer from the same affliction. Like any additive substance abuse, the researchers view it as a disease. I have to agree with them.

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    DGuerreroposted 12 years ago

    Interesting, I just happens that I love neither strippers or porn. Now I cant say that I have actually gone to such a club, let alone stared into a strippers eyes. However in my opinion I don't believe a man would go to a strip club to make "purposeful" eye contact with a woman. If that were the case the women wouldn't need to parade around stage without any clothing. I mean, I for one have never heard of a successful strip club where the woman remained clothed but were great at making eye contact?....come to think of it, that would mean that it wasn't a strip club at all.  I think that men as a whole don't "love" strippers and porn (me for example), and that it weighs more so on the individual and his personal preferences.

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    samanthamsmithposted 12 years ago

    For the fantasy.

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       SanXuaryposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       Wow three pages of comments. I think when your young its all about curiosity. Other times you our just lonely and after a few minutes you realize that you our not really missing anything. Going to a strip club would probably be the biggest waste of time. If I go out I am looking for possibilities and not some impossible person wanting my money. After living in Europe I find the American view on this subject to be very different. Europe has just as many odd people as we do. The big difference is that everything has a place for all these things. You can not get rid of every thing we consider to be different behaviour. The key is to give them somewhere they can go legally so that they have a choice to not break the law. The question was why do men love strippers and porn? In truth nudity is really nothing. Spend some time at a nudist camp or any number of places that our coed in Europe and it becomes pretty overrated. A bored and lonely mind simply leads to bad fantasies and unrealistic expectations of real relationships and people.

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    ajayshah2005posted 12 years ago

    Have you completed your hub?

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    GirgisAgeebposted 12 years ago

    It is because they always need more and this will be more watching and enjoying that if they got problems in there relation ships

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    klarawieckposted 12 years ago

    It's the variety... Men love to think they are open to many options... They THINK!

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    psycheskinnerposted 12 years ago

    I think strippers and porn are great. And I am 100% female.

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