Take up watching footy, drink a little more than you normally would. Insist on having the sports on all day long. Have his meal ready when he gets home from work. Run him a nice bath and wash his back everyday. Insist that you love doing chores and make him sit with a bag of popcorn in front of the TV. Tell him you need a break and he is to go on a golfing holiday with all his buddies. Or you could do what I do which is none of the above. Hide the remote for the TV and only give it back when he has given in to your demands.
How to secure a man? Fuzzy handcuffs! how to seduce a man? cat-walking, clutching books to your chest and a sweet smile. That is how I got my husband LMAO back in HS HAHAHAh he fell in love with me the first time he laid his eyes on me or so he says
Securing - well, that takes some work, lots of love, try recipes his mom made for him growing up & hope you don't screw them up, make sure his clothes are always washed, ironed or neatly folded, massage, support, --- damn, I've been at this too long. I want someone to do this for ME! LOL
I like what Charlie Chaplin said about the differences between men and women. He said that we have a difficult task of communicating with each other because we think two different ways in that women always want to be respected and men always want to be understood.
So if you want to seduce and secure a man try to let him think you understand him. Good luck!
How I seduce my man 1. Leave him notes in his jacket pocket or send him a text message. "I can't wait to see you tonight " 2. We go on dates at least once a week. I get dressed up and wear the "sexy perfume" he calls it. 3. Before I get in the shower I drop clothes on the way there and then ask if he's coming. 4. I'm not a tease, if I mention it throughout the day, there's gotta be some action.
How I secure my man 1. I'm very honest with him. There are no secrets here! 2. I tell him every day how much I love him and how much he means to me. 3. I show him how much I love him. (And I am faithful) 4. I'm a really good cook.