My family, seeing my bf after a long day of work, being able to sit back relax to watch movies, or play video games together,cook, back, play with my cats, see my grandmother and eat some of her cooking, even though i hate my job be blessed i have one, feel blessed im able to pay my bills, I guess just the lil things in life
Money will make a woman happy, if you don't have money you might marry for dependence or do crazy things for money. I think a woman needs to feel secure in her independence to feel truly happy and feel her power as a woman not a slave. Women don't like to feel unappreciated and tired, when all that is left for a man is to make money and be appreciated. I respect all woman with or with out money but independence along with money is what i look up to.
This is what I've been told: A firm sense of financial and personal security, knowing that the kids are happy and well behaved, knowing are families are safe and secure, knowing the house is in good shape and everythings working, knowing her car is working properly, knowing I have list of things to do, knowing I'm listening when I'm suppose to be, knowing I lift the toilet seat when I pee(no target practice), knowing I put the toilet seat back down when I'm done( she doesn't want to fall in at 3 in the morning), knowing I've been well threatened before attending one of her companies parties(no reliving our trips to Amsterdamn with her boss), knowing I'll carry bags for her at Dillards and Macys, knowing I won't wear my food(I don't throw my food at my mouth!), knowing I won't include her in my stupid jokes, knowing I won't drive like I'm escaping from prison(she never gave me permission to risk her life), knowing I'll clean up after my self(yeah right!), knowing whatever she plans for the weekend I'll do without whineing(Oh hell no!), knowing I won't buy fireworks(but they're buy one get three free!), knowing I won't bring any fish or animal home that doesn't look like it came from Krogers and knowing I didn't say anything to my sons new girlfriend about him having AIDs.
days my husband is his old self, doesnt get down right whiskey drunk and mean, jewelry, candles, incense, crystals, text messaging, waking up and having a day where the pain is not so bad ( Im disabled ), and just having a nice family meal and having friends sit at that table with us...
and for some reason certain smells, vanilla is one and there is a company that has a scent caled ISIS ( who was a goddess I have been told ) makes me happy.. and I cant forget the beauty of tiffany lamps, boxer dogs, all animals in general and a day where I get good mail-not junk and hospital bills