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What is it that men need from women most?

  1. AEvans profile image71
    AEvansposted 7 years ago

    Love and respect! smile

    1. Ivorwen profile image83
      Ivorwenposted 7 years ago

      Lots of respect, good food, great sex and clean cloths... or maybe that is just the recipe for a happy marriage.  smile

      1. drej2522 profile image87
        drej2522posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        agreed...on all accounts! smile

    2. Eaglekiwi profile image74
      Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago

      Approval
      Praise
      Patience
      Respect

      Not much really lol

      Heres another one

      Martha Stuart in the kitchen
      and Pamela Anderson in the bedroom

      (then he wokeup) lol

      1. Ivorwen profile image83
        Ivorwenposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Just don't get those two switched around!

        1. AEvans profile image71
          AEvansposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          One could only imagine! lololo big_smile

          1. drej2522 profile image87
            drej2522posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            hey, watch it!! Martha Stuart might be amazing in the sack!

            1. cheaptrick profile image77
              cheaptrickposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              She is ...

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        Ghost32posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Not bad, except I think I'd much rather have Rachel Ray in the kitchen and Martha Stewart in the bedroom.  And no, that's not really an attempt to be facetious!  big_smile

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      B.C. BOUTIQUEposted 7 years ago

      trust and companionship

    4. pioneer_writer5 profile image59
      pioneer_writer5posted 7 years ago

      FOOD!

    5. earnestshub profile image86
      earnestshubposted 7 years ago

      Children! smile

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      Leta Sposted 7 years ago

      Oh, I knew how this one would go! wink

      But guys are different.  Mine:  sex...sex, money (lol, true) and somebody to talk about art and politics with.

      1. drej2522 profile image87
        drej2522posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        haha, Lita...very nice

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          Leta Sposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Oh!  I'm half kidding...though all above is true.  wink Respect and love go with the territory.  Respect can be shown in many, many ways...like caring enough to take care of the finances when it is needed.  Or being best friends who share similar interests.

          1. drej2522 profile image87
            drej2522posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            All joking aside, I think you did make a very good point. Although it is a simple concept, it is very hard to find a companion who is also your best friend. Although love and respect are essential in any relationship, in the end, you must  be genuinely interested in them.

    7. Michael Willis profile image78
      Michael Willisposted 7 years ago

      Interesting. Most replies from women. 
      #1 thing a man will want from a woman, well other than the obvious...is accepting us AS WE ARE when you first meet us!!!!
      DO not try to change us.
      If a woman is attracted to a man when she meets him, it makes no sense to try to change him after dating a long time or especially after marriage. If you do not like his ways...then do not go out with us to start with.
      I am sure ladies will feel the same way when a man tries to change her ways.
      I have dumped dates and girlfriends instantly for this motive. It ends a relationship instantly. To me the woman has been dishonest with me from the beginning when this happens.
      Be who You are and I will be who I am...period.

      1. wychic profile image78
        wychicposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Personally I think that's part of respect, if you truly have respect for who someone is then you won't try to remake the person into who you think they should be rather than who they are.

        My own man needs respect, support, and understanding from me...and lots of snuggles! When he hasn't already been too drug out by the people at work talking to and around him all the time, stimulating conversation is also important to him...and otherwise, he really appreciates when I know to be quiet.

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        what happens if the guy is faking or hiding something when you first meet?

        1. Michael Willis profile image78
          Michael Willisposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Then you dump him! Same goes for women who are hiding something or faking it. That is why I wrote after dating a long time or after marriage in my post.

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            Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I get that. Missed that part of it before. I never wanted to change my man, I do love him just as he is. He doesnt belive me. He had this goofy idea about what he thought I wanted when we got together, so he tried to be that, all on his own. Now I have no idea what he wants...

    8. Hanna Bambina profile image60
      Hanna Bambinaposted 7 years ago

      Wtf?

    9. topgunjager profile image59
      topgunjagerposted 7 years ago

      truth is we'll do and put up with anything as long us you feed us, fck us and shut the fck up=)

      1. wychic profile image78
        wychicposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Oooh la la, you must get all the girls with that line wink. Truthfully...my issue would only be with the last one, I'm far too opinionated to keep it all to myself...but my other half knows where to find great deals on ear plugs tongue.

        1. topgunjager profile image59
          topgunjagerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          sorry, prefer to say the truth=)

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      Poppa Bluesposted 7 years ago

      Respect, I think everyone deserves respect until they do something that shows they don't deserve it.

      No, I think what men really want is support, someone to be there for them, to encourage them when they doubt themselves, to console them when they fail and praise them in their success. Men want a woman that will let them be, themselves and will love them as they are.

      Actually, I think women aren't any different really. To be there for each other when needed while allowing each other to be.

      1. prettydarkhorse profile image65
        prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        very correct, HI POPPA

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          Poppa Bluesposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Good morning gorgeous!

    11. prettydarkhorse profile image65
      prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago

      love, loyalty and commitment

    12. Pearldiver profile image88
      Pearldiverposted 7 years ago

      Enjoy your meal... Leave the dishes.... And Put the Seat Up! lol

      1. Jane@CM profile image61
        Jane@CMposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Smacking Purl big_smile

    13. hubby7 profile image80
      hubby7posted 7 years ago

      Intimacy, Companionship, and Femininity.

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      sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

      Friendship, strongback and back rubs.

    15. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 7 years ago

      Sex & Approval

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      Women as Objectsposted 7 years ago

      space, love and nurture and sex ;-)

    17. Will Apse profile image92
      Will Apseposted 7 years ago

      Romantic love was invented in the 19th Century, relationships arrived with D H Lawrence and then Cosmo told women what men wanted... We are lucky to live in an enlightened age.

    18. Brian Leighton profile image73
      Brian Leightonposted 7 years ago

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    19. rebekahELLE profile image92
      rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago

      they want to feel needed in every respect and category of a relationship.

    20. Ron Montgomery profile image60
      Ron Montgomeryposted 7 years ago

      http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Sp-fNUOndEE/SjFOtLPEphI/AAAAAAAAAIA/bi2G2R2aqxA/s320/P6101790.JPG

    21. habee profile image91
      habeeposted 7 years ago

      Sex, good food, good conversation, laughter, and beer!

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      B.C. BOUTIQUEposted 7 years ago

      I wont even bother to say, what I know by life and experience is wrong, so it doesnt matter what I say...
      who knows..I know what mine needs but why bother discussing it or even making a joke.

    23. prettydarkhorse profile image65
      prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago

      support, love, understanding and some great S_X

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      ralwusposted 7 years ago

      great sex and control of  my goddamn remote.

      1. prettydarkhorse profile image65
        prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        LOLOL< g'am ralwus!

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      lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

      commitment lol

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      lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

      more women lol

     
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