If you're looking for a man- I suggest you do several things.
(1) PAY ATTENTION
(2) PAY ATTENTION
(3) ALWAYS PAY ATTENTION!
Should you fail to do this ONE simple rule, you will never find the right man.
If you do not actively pay attention to the things that he says, and how he says it? Then you'll be more than likely unable to tell whether or not he is lying. His words are important, because it tells you of what intelligence the man has. This is important in factoring life-time commitments, but might not matter, in a short-term reasoned one-night stand.
If you're not paying attention to his body language, when he approaches you, make sure you never have someone approach that you don't see coming. If you didn't notice him before he gets to you- leave him out of the equation- on hold permanent.
Why? These people are players working together, so one can saddle up along side a 'honey' and work their magic. Just, so they can get laid. It's kinda pathetic.
Anybody who approaches you, you should have enough time to evaluate appeal before an encounter would exist. If you happen to make eye contact with him before hand- even better, if your interested.
My main point is always beware of men. They are DOGS in heat. The human male thinks almost always about sex more than anything else in the world.
Men are always in heat. Some are players, purpose out for their own agenda.