I'm a new residency here in the place where I meet my Love cousin,but before I know that we are cousins his my crush but when I saw him in Family reunion,I shock..gosh his my 3rd degree cousin,I cant believe it.It hurts that I could never expect more that we could be a lover because we are cousin,,huhuhu.
My girlfriends and I used to have the argument about one of us (not me) saying it was fine to have a relationship with a first cousin. (It was her nationality that apparently had no problem with it.) The other two of us used to say, "Eeew, gross, gross, gross." She was always telling us she didn't see the problem.
I have to agree with you, though, if I found out it was "any" cousin I'd have to rule him out. Whether it's a sin or not probably depends on the religion. Apparently, even a first cousin wouldn't have been a sin for my very Catholic girlfriend and her family.
in some religions and cultures it is acceptable to have a relationship with ur 2nd cousin forward... there arent any laws preventing you from forming a relationship, i think it is entirely up to you to make that decision of whether it is morally wrong or right. you shouldnt let anyone decide for you. if you think its ok, go for it! have a chat with your family and also him, to make sure you both have the same views on relationships within the family.
what is a 3rd degree cousin? depends what percentage of blood you share lol I kinda had a crush on a cousin when I was younger, we barely saw each other because she lived out in the countryside.. it was funny because they called me city boy and she made a fuss of me, because they didnt go to city often.. but i was young then so you dont understand..Theres plenty more fish in the sea
They say that having an intimate relationship with your relative or cousin is a big embarrass for community especially when you got married, the one who will suffer is your siblings maybe they will born abnormal? Is that true???
If that is true then..I'll better away my cousin, even though we love each other..its hurts huh..but I need to do it!
yea that's true, even though im not sure it if the kid will come out that way since it's your third cousin and not someone closer such as a brother or something. But in my community it is an embarrasement. I mean come on all the men in the world you can find someone who isn't family.
Some of that 'inbreeding' produced some very talented individuals. Right off I can think of 3. Jerry 'Killer' Lee, Mickey Gilly, and Jimmy Swaggert. All really great musicians and singers and cousins. Not too partial to Jimmy though.