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Love without sex or sex without love?

  1. Black Lilly profile image59
    Black Lillyposted 7 years ago

    well, just immagine being given that choice.
    And ONLY that choice - no ifs or buts - what path would you choose and why?

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image63
      prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      LOVE WITHOUT SEX for me

    2. Himitsu Shugisha profile image77
      Himitsu Shugishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      If I were younger man I would probably go with a different answer, but the satisfaction of being with someone that you truly love is in my opinion much more satisfying than just sex.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    1. marraige
    2. South Main

  3. XTASIS profile image59
    XTASISposted 7 years ago

    Sex without love.
    I have a body to look after.

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol
      I think the same. As Xtasis is me ! lol

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    Justine76posted 7 years ago

    Love without sex. I have had plenty of the other, it gets old. Besides, theres always toys..... wink

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    Poppa Bluesposted 7 years ago

    Love without sex? Depends on how you define sex. One can be intimate without having sex. I think in both cases you can't have either without intimacy, and given the choice I'd choose love because love is simple more rare, more precious, more valuable, and more satisfying.

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      Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I have a friend who's husband became paralyzed from the neck down 2 weeks after they got married, as the result of a horrific car accident and they are so deeply amazingly in love....maybe its becuase I am a girl, I dont know, but I would choose that kind of lasting love over any physical thing in a heartbeat.

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    BadCompanyposted 7 years ago

    Gotta be sex without love, like I got needs ya know !!

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image63
      prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Hi Bad, yehey

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        BadCompanyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Hey hotstuff, hows ya doing !

        1. prettydarkhorse profile image63
          prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          we are doing good, and everybody miss you here

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            BadCompanyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Awwwww shucks ya have me blushing here !

            1. Sufidreamer profile image81
              Sufidreamerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              There you are, you daft sod - have to say, that was an awesome result at the weekend. Good to see Chelsea humbled! smile

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                BadCompanyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Lol that so made my night Sufi, was just finishing writing about Greek women at lunchtime for my new hub. Gotta get all the countries in ya know but I won't get my damn replacement laptop for at least another week. Tis crap having no internet access at nights and weekends. Good to hear from ya !

            2. rebekahELLE profile image92
              rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              our pirate is back, that was a long absence.... hmm
              welcome back, try to 'behave' and stay unbanned for a while. big_smile

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                BadCompanyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Fear not I am a good Pirate these days ; )

    2. Black Lilly profile image59
      Black Lillyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Well.. as much as I've heard about your company, HP should be a lot more..ahem... vibrant now that you're back big_smile

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        BadCompanyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Lol rumour has it I am a vibrant pirate oh Blackness smile

        1. Black Lilly profile image59
          Black Lillyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          welcome to the Black club wink

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            BadCompanyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Tis moi pleasure to be a member smile

  7. wychic profile image80
    wychicposted 7 years ago

    Love without sex...I don't know that I'd be capable of sex without love, but to love and be loved is much more precious than temporary physical pleasure. Of course, my SO is considerably older than me, so there's a good chance that I will eventually have to experience love without sex, and I know I'd much rather be with him and celibate than not with him at all. Besides, I know where to buy more batteries tongue.

  8. maverickmonk profile image73
    maverickmonkposted 7 years ago

    LOVE

    sex is a minor part of your life.. major part of it lies in love and effection!!

  9. GeneralHowitzer profile image64
    GeneralHowitzerposted 7 years ago

    Can I choose neither eh...

    This is a dilemma, is there any better choice. 

    There are other better alternatives you know but this is just a viewpoint though... big_smile

  10. K Partin profile image61
    K Partinposted 7 years ago

    This is a tough, tough choice, but I gotta go with the love! smile Morning all.

  11. Black Lilly profile image59
    Black Lillyposted 7 years ago

    That's the thing - I know it's a very, VERY hard choice, especially when you get into some situation where it's inevitable..

    And that's why I asked that question in the first place.

    1. K Partin profile image61
      K Partinposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Well I been married for 38 years so I have the best of both worlds. smile

      1. Himitsu Shugisha profile image77
        Himitsu Shugishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Congrats!!

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      BadCompanyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      And you so love a hard choice, doncha lol smile

      1. Black Lilly profile image59
        Black Lillyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Let's say I love having LOTS of choice..both good company and bad company wink

  12. Jane@CM profile image61
    Jane@CMposted 7 years ago

    I've been married for 21 years and I choose LOVE.

  13. Bovine Currency profile image60
    Bovine Currencyposted 7 years ago

    Once I get the snip, sex.  Until then, sex... with hand.

    1. Black Lilly profile image59
      Black Lillyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      why sound so desperate? wink

      1. Bovine Currency profile image60
        Bovine Currencyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        desperate?  Hardly sweetheart.

        1. Bovine Currency profile image60
          Bovine Currencyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I do myself by choice tongue

          1. Black Lilly profile image59
            Black Lillyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            big_smile big_smile big_smile big_smile big_smile
            Now that's the phrase to remember...

            1. Bovine Currency profile image60
              Bovine Currencyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Glad you enjoyed it.

  14. myownworld profile image82
    myownworldposted 7 years ago

    I want a bit of both...from time to time! wink

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      BadCompanyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I can help you out with that smile

      1. myownworld profile image82
        myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        ah......!  at least, we'll be banned together then! wink

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          BadCompanyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Lol alas moi work hours are over, the Captain is offline until tomorrow. But moi new laptop arrives soon, tis like losing my right arm as I miss all ya lovely ladies.

          Lookin hot in that pic MOW, anyways until tomorrow I bid ya farewell lol x ! smile

          1. myownworld profile image82
            myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            smile thanks...it's just wonderful seeing u here.....at last, some life and fun back in the forums!
            take care....see u soon!! x

  15. Sa Toya profile image85
    Sa Toyaposted 7 years ago

    Love without sex please, I long for that rue deep everlasting love and all that gushy stuff

    BUT

    I do wonder if given the choice- I'd be okay because I'm a virgin so I don't feel like I have needs to satisfy, even though I get HORNY.

    Does that make sense?

    I think if I was having sex it might be sex without love, but like I said I long to be in love so erm hmm

  16. Black Lilly profile image59
    Black Lillyposted 7 years ago

    Sex without love, ONLY.
    Love is an illusion we create to justify our actions, no more.

 
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