There is some wisdom in that, but no two relationships are the same though. Not everyone that dumps someone does it because they ceased to love that person. Sometimes there are other factors to consider.
I don't think being dumped would be so horriblee. There's nothing worseee than trying to dump someone who won't be dumped. More than once, what I would have given to just be the dumpee. I think it's far mor "horriblee" to try to break up with someone and have them refuse to accept it.
Being dumped is not horrible at all. It could very well be the best thing that could happen to you! It's a Get Out of Jail Free card. If you get dumped, then things weren't good anyway. Why would you want to be stuck in that? Go out and have FUN! Do all of the things that your dumper hated to do. You are reborn!
Being dumped is just a person's way of vocalizing the verdict of evolution for those who are not smart enough to realize that they should not procreate and pass on their genes.
When I was single and had to let a lady go, I also took this scientific and rational approach, and avoided any inappropriate emotional dialogue.
I simply said to the young lady (to paraphrase)..
"Thank you very much for our sexual congress and intimate activities. I trust that the experiences we shared were enjoyable for you, as i deduced by your moaning (not that that really concerns me).
As you know, during many of our intimate embraces, I used prophylactic protection. This was not merely so as to protect myself from acquiring any of the dangerous lifeforms that currently inhabit your body, but also to guard against diluting my superior gene pool by mixing it with yours. Having experienced you sexually a number of times, I feel it is now time to engage my next conquest, as evolutionary requirements dictate.
Thank you once again for the congress, and please tell your more attractive friends that I am now single."
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