dude, it is possible to give a girl an orgasm okay. however, its like chris rock said, no matter what you do it'll be never good enough for a woman. you can make a girl cum 3 times with a diamond D*** and she'll still complain.
however, seriously, i found out on imdb.com that supposedly someone is making a documentary called "fake orgasms", that explores women faking their orgasms. just thought you wanted to know.
okay, i guess. just been busy with school and working a lot lately. i decided to take your advice and try to do baby steps of improving myself. i hope everything goes well for you, it sounds like you got a lot of things to do.
My own experience has been...one does, and one didn't. I'm the kind of person who will say exactly what needs to be done even, but my ex was one of those that, for years, simply refused most of the time and bungled it other times.
The current one...definitely does. Maybe he's a rarity, I don't know, but I think you can chalk it up to a willingness to take suggestions as well as an expert's knowledge of human anatomy, who woulda thunk it's helpful to know where all those nerves are?
You can usually tell when a woman has had an orgasm if she says stop and is in really really strange looking pain, thrusting her body towards the heavens. if you continue, she may try punch you but still have that awkward grin still on her face
Men can and do give women orgasms all the time. Allow me to give you an anatomy lesson. I have been a nurse 15 years so I feel I am qualified............In the womb as the baby developes the genitalia of both male and females starts to form and both the penis and the clitoris is made up of the same erectile tissue. As a boy baby grows his tissue begins to elongate and form a penis. The little girl baby does not naturally. So picture this. All a clitoris is, is a minature penis. Well its like the head of a penis. The clitoris has the same nerve endings as does the head of your shaft. Most women cannot have an orgasm without clitoral stimuli. Be it manually or orally. The clitoris is like a flower in that it is sheathed inside 4 petals, the outer 2 being called the labia majora, the inner two are the labia minora. That means you have to open this flower and then once you find the sensitive bud you need to treat it like you want a women to treat your penis head. Lick on it, take it between your lips and suck on it. Some women like more suction pressure than others, you need only to ask. Of course you do not just have to provide oral pleasure, while your licking and sucking etc., insert your finger in her vaginal canal ( once she is wet ) and curl your finger upwards toward her pubic bone. This is where the g-spot is. Alot of women love this, some say it makes them want to pee. Go slow and be gentle and ask her what feels good but do it in a soft whispery romantic voice. We women are more sensitive creature and like to be treated more tenderly. A women can also have an orgasm during penetration if you will manually massage her clitoris or have her do it. You can also grind your pelvis against her clitoris while you are thrusting in and out to stimulate her clitoris and help her orgasm. We women love sex when we are with a partner who takes the time to get to know us and learn how to pleasure us. If you satisfy your lady I can promise she will want sex more frequently and she will also want to do things you with you and to you that she might otherwise find distasteful because she wants to give you as much pleasure as you are giving her ie: licking/sucking your taint (that sensitive patch of skin behind your testicals that is oh so close to no mans land.) Good luck and remember this, practice makes perfect. Don't be shy, ask and believe me you will be forever thankful for what your female partner can teach you.
who says, im trying to make friends right now. besides, your not being very nice being up in my business like this. i can't believe i became a fan of yours because i liked your hubs. oh well, you just lost yourself a fan there buddy.
Why thank you. And I am flattered you are following me around now. I would have thought you could find something more productive to do at this time of year, because I know you are raising a lot of unwanted children as your own. But if it makes you feel good - that is what is important.
Just an observation from my side of the world. (reading the whole thread) It would appear that you are premature in more than your attitude and towards spitting the dummy when you get relevant advice from more mature hubbers
ummmm..yeah, so basically your calling me an idiot? look, i wasn't trying to act immature or fight with anyone here. all i was doing was bumping random threads for fun last night, since I had no one else to talk to. I'd like to point out, I'm not the only one that does this. In fact, I could tell you the EXACT FORUMS AND USERS if I wanted to. However, I don't believe in tattling. Mark apparently took things the wrong way. However, since I don't want this to escalate any further. Please forgive whatever YOU THINK I've done wrong, and drop this as I feel this backlash towards me is unwarranted and unjust. I apologize if I offened you sir/maam or whatever you are, and to mark. is that mature enough for you?
The bear is en-route to Mr Two Heads. I'd imagine there must be something to do around his little ... patch. Though I'm sure Gulliver isn't fooling himself about yachts, fine wine and bear-naked ladies Mark
Darkside is goung to outfit the blog so I can update it as and when. Hopefully he'll not be too long at Eric's and I can get the bear rolling round the globe ...
Otherwise life is as it always is - inclusive of a beating heart. Which I'll take over the alternative
He's not AWOl PD. Strictly speaking anyway. And how good are my eggs? lol one thing I can cook. Poached eggs. And I'm none too bad with toast come to think of it!
And maybe you can have him next PD? He's over your way. Ish
FD... if he's in Oz, there are heaps of hubbers to visit there before he comes to NZ. But of course it will depend on what Eric does with him; whether other Aussis will accept him after Tassi Heaven forebid that internet bloke might send him on in the traditional Tasmanian garb. - 2 x Heads
What a confusing thread!! sex, stalkers, accusations of forum rudeness, buckets of cold water on hot girls... and I am so glad to hear Gulliver is on his travles still!! this is going to be a fun day maybe?
A partner will know what to do to please you if you tell him what feels good. The partner can't read your mind, so if there is no satisfaction, then tell the partner what to do. Sounds logical to me....
I personally can't understand what the hell is wrong with non scorpio guys
I can honestly say that I have never had to 'learn' how to satisfy my lover and could never understand why so many guys are happy to be two minute terriers! What is wrong with lovemaking today? All Day?
I know I'm not alone in this respect and I'm not promoting myself in any way... But OMG How and Why Do you put up with substandard lovers who bear their hearts for 2 minutes, roll over and go to sleep and boast about studliness to their workmates?
Because, you wanted to voice your opinion, Pearldiver. I would have thought you knew why you posted, but I'm glad I could help.
As for the other question....with regards to....why do women put up with substandards lovers.....is because they are use to have substandard other things in their life....so judging what is considered good, bad or indifferent is a challenge for most.
sorry i didnt read all the posts, but then I will never leave my bf or husband if he stink or suck in bed, I will stick with him and advise him what makes me happy and have orgasm. fair isnt it, if he cant learn about it then I will have to live by it, LOL
it is really bad, in this world sometimes people just cant learn how to satisfy their partners LOL< or they think they satisfy their partners but when they turn their back, their partner just cry and say, huhuhuhu
Well Hey..... No one can call me a 2 minute terrier... I've been here an hour And it's 6.00am ..... I've gotta race and catch up with my eyes... they closed two hours ago and I was having such a nice dream
Well if there is a god and a heaven surely the journey that leads to that moment, that instant in time when you are both holding out, waiting to release together, and become nothing but a single stream of consciousness quivering in a guttural harmonic scream of "Oh God!" in orgasmic bliss, surely, that must be what heaven is like!
Sex without touch is like a mind f**k. Sorry, but without physiology you might as well be having phone sex. And that becomes down right boring once the novelty wears off.
True being in the right frame of mind helps a woman orgasm. She has to be relaxed, aroused and feel sexual. But it's through the skin, through the physical senses that sex becomes all beautiful.
Without the body, sex would not exist. For a woman to really really please a man, she has to learn how to be inside her own body and learn what makes her feel sensual. She can do that without the partner as an incentive. Making love with your skin and feeling your skin against your partner is one of the most sensual experiences and just by doing this you don't even have to use your genitals to climax. It will happen spontaneously.
Sex has to become an out of mind experience to truly appreciate it. Best drug you can get is an orgasm by total indulgence of the bodily senses.
LOL...so many people overlook the socks, I'm glad someone remembered
...and yeah, I'd be feeling pretty abandoned at twice in three weeks...weekends last from Friday night to Sunday evening and there's very little excuse for interruption (when the kid isn't here, anyway) and it's nearly impossible to get through the week without any additional attention!
Yes, he has contemplated taking me off his life insurance to see if that'd help him get more sleep