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Is It Okay to Seduce Somebody?

  1. AdsenseStrategies profile image73
    AdsenseStrategiesposted 7 years ago

    Or, in fact, on the contrary, do we not actually all *want* to be seduced? wink

    1. seyiari profile image56
      seyiariposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      the only person you have the right to seduce is your husband or your wife.

      1. babyching profile image61
        babychingposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        What if we're not married?  We don't have the right to seduce anyone?

    2. falcon64 profile image60
      falcon64posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Not allowed, if both of you has a string attachment already. And more worst if one of you are not available anymore. We allowed only to seduced our partner.

      1. Cagsil profile image59
        Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Who mentioned anything about strings attached? roll

    3. prettydarkhorse profile image66
      prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      it depends on your purpose and relationship with the person

      1. Cagsil profile image59
        Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Hmmm......? lol lol

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      cosetteposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      se·duce (s-ds, -dys)
      tr.v. se·duced, se·duc·ing, se·duc·es
      1. To lead away from duty, accepted principles, or proper conduct. See Synonyms at lure.
      2. To induce to engage in sex.
      3.
      a. To entice or beguile into a desired state or position.


      i guess it's ok to seduce someone (adult) if that is how someone operates, although it's not something i would enjoy doing. do we all want to be sedcued? big_smile nooooo......

      1. Friendlyword profile image60
        Friendlywordposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Any other way of engaging in sex would be mechanical.  Seduction is the way of the world.

      2. AdsenseStrategies profile image73
        AdsenseStrategiesposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Ah, you're one of them dictionary types.....

      3. Mikel G Roberts profile image89
        Mikel G Robertsposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Nicely Done...I must agree.

        1. AdsenseStrategies profile image73
          AdsenseStrategiesposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          So you wouldn't want to be "sedcued" either wink

          1. Mikel G Roberts profile image89
            Mikel G Robertsposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Personally I wouldn't mind it, but I'm sure some people would mind.

    5. IntimatEvolution profile image83
      IntimatEvolutionposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Feel free to seduce me...

    6. wsp2469 profile image59
      wsp2469posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      All the women I have ever known wanted it. . .that's for sure.

      1. Pearldiver profile image86
        Pearldiverposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I love the way you avoided stating whether they Got It tho lol

        1. wsp2469 profile image59
          wsp2469posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Ok.  I'll kiss and tell but won't mention any names.
          Yes.  They all got it providing they had some place to take me.
          There was this one Latina lady who had to take me to a motel and another that wanted me to do her in her work van and I am just too classy of a guy to make the first time in a vehicle, ya know?

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      Ghost32posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I actually dislike the concept immensely.  Much rather have the other person just be straight up with me about where they're coming from.  Don't know why, though; could be a personality disorder!  lol

    8. Black Lilly profile image60
      Black Lillyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Both, at the same time - we want to be seduced, though without any response that won't work very well...
      It's the game for two wink

    9. Stevennix2001 profile image82
      Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      i actually like being seduced by women, but i don't mind doing seducing of my own if i have to.  wink lol

      1. tantrum profile image60
        tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        So where's Beth ??




        big_smile

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          are you stalking me? yikes

        2. Stevennix2001 profile image82
          Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          oh she's around.  wink lol  in fact, i was hoping i could seduce her wink lol

          1. tantrum profile image60
            tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Why don't you practice with me ! hmm

            lol lol

            1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
              Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago in reply to this

              lol lol lol thats a tempting idea. wink lollol however, i'd hate to risk breaking her heart like that. besides, i care too much about her to ever do that. wink lol

              1. tantrum profile image60
                tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                I'm only joking Steven ! lol
                it won't break Beth's heart! I'm sure she knows me ! big_smile

                1. Stevennix2001 profile image82
                  Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  lollollol

  2. KCC Big Country profile image85
    KCC Big Countryposted 7 years ago

    Sometimes we lead, sometimes we follow.  It's a game all healthy adults like to play.  They like to play both roles one time or another.

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    A Texanposted 7 years ago

    I'm here, do your thing.

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      lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol  waiting too lol

    2. Paradise7 profile image85
      Paradise7posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Is that a microphone your holding in your avatar picture?  Do you sing, baby?

  4. Paradise7 profile image85
    Paradise7posted 7 years ago

    OK TO SEDUCE SOMEONE????  Gee, why not, it happens all the time.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    Yes. If they're over the age of 18 and they're the opposite sex.

    1. nosmo_king profile image58
      nosmo_kingposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      The age of consent in Hawaii is 16! Oh and what if you bisexual or gay?

      1. livewithrichard profile image85
        livewithrichardposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        If you're an adult then it doesn't matter what the age of consent is. An adult having sex with a minor is Sexual Abuse and is still against the law, at least it is here in the US.

    2. ForKicks profile image61
      ForKicksposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Yet, pedophiles exist.

  6. astoic profile image59
    astoicposted 6 years ago

    No, it is not okay. One must keep away from such things. If someone comes on to you, they are trying to seduce you. You must not allow it.
    Seduction is wrong; sex is sin.

    1. Cagsil profile image59
      Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      You are kidding right? lol lol lol

    2. ForKicks profile image61
      ForKicksposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      This is why I look at religion more as politics.

      How do people reproduce? The stork?

  7. jimmythejock profile image83
    jimmythejockposted 6 years ago

    seduction is a vital part of any loving relationship.....jimmy

  8. Cagsil profile image59
    Cagsilposted 6 years ago

    Yes, it's okay to seduce somebody. It's also okay to let yourself be seduced.

    To inhibit natural desires can be dangerous, just as well, as letting them roam free.

    Sexual desires given into seduction can be a very exciting point to arousal. Not to mention, someone knows when they are being seduced or that a person is trying.

    The action itself isn't mystifying. It open and easily seen. smile

  9. Eaglekiwi profile image73
    Eaglekiwiposted 6 years ago

    Good lovemaking is the art of seduction ,dontya think tongue

  10. RecoverToday profile image86
    RecoverTodayposted 6 years ago

    That's a good question. But I have one to fire back at you: What are your motives?

  11. salt profile image65
    saltposted 6 years ago

    I think the real art of seduction is to make something beautiful. Seduction to me would be something that is agreable to both, not one persons desires being met through the manipulation of another.

    Seduction in my mind should be something that is fun and playful.. and fully consentual.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 6 years ago

    Yes if they have all their senses and they're over 21.

  13. Misha profile image75
    Mishaposted 6 years ago

    I am over 21 and have all my senses. Would you please Sneako? Pretty please? wink

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    B.C. BOUTIQUEposted 6 years ago

    absolutley!!
    Seduction is part of the fun...

    Infact I always have a bunch of aphrodisiacs on hand, and about 20 "new" ones for Valentine's Day..and they do work..wink

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    sneakorocksolidposted 6 years ago

    Misha I do love you but I have performance issues you might want someone more predictable.big_smile

  16. Misha profile image75
    Mishaposted 6 years ago

    Ahh, everybody says no to me today sad

    * moves away bubbling: couldrons of mucus, lightning bolts, performance issues...*


    lol

  17. tantrum profile image60
    tantrumposted 6 years ago

    lol

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    sneakorocksolidposted 6 years ago

    Hey Tantrum did you get my message? Please excuse my interuption.smile

    1. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Yes! Didn't you receive my answer ??

      are you talking about the e-mail?

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    sneakorocksolidposted 6 years ago

    Yes! I just got on the computer I was out hunting!

    1. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Hunting chicks ?
      big_smile

      lol

  20. wychic profile image79
    wychicposted 6 years ago

    Yes, it is absolutely okay to seduce and be seduced! For my own sense of morality, the people either need to be connected to each other or not at all (after all, how do those new relationships start?) but I know I love both sides of that m'self smile.

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    logic,commonsenseposted 6 years ago

    You can only be seduced if you want to be seduced!
    Try me anytime! smile

    1. blondepoet profile image78
      blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Ok I will what time suits.

      1. Cagsil profile image59
        Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I think he already said "anytime"? lol lol lol

        1. blondepoet profile image78
          blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Oh he did too Cags, great I'll go pack my little bag of tricks

          1. Cagsil profile image59
            Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            I can just imagine what those are? lol roll lol

            1. blondepoet profile image78
              blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Do you want me to show you....see I'm at it already I aint modest LMAO

              1. Cagsil profile image59
                Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                I think I'll stick with my imagination. The truth could be scarier. lol


                How are you today Blonde? smile

                1. blondepoet profile image78
                  blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  Hahahaha ye man with little faith
                  I'm great today, just about ready to whip up a couple of sausages for tea. Stinking hot here today 38C...stick to the seat weather

                  1. Cagsil profile image59
                    Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    Oh I have faith in myself, I just don't really need to know. Well, not at this particular point in time. yikes tongue

                    Actually, sounds like great weather. It's about 33F here. lol lol

                  2. wsp2469 profile image59
                    wsp2469posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    38C?  Sounds like a cup size!

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        logic,commonsenseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        ,
        BP, I will always make time for you!

        1. blondepoet profile image78
          blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Woo hoo done deal Logic although I have probably already started it ages ago with my cheesey pick-up lines. That was a classic wasn't it?

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            logic,commonsenseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Hey babe, I usually miss you this time of day, how are you, besides awesome? smile

            1. blondepoet profile image78
              blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              I'm much better now that I bumped into you.

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                logic,commonsenseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                Hope you didn't bruise that beautiful bod! smile

                1. blondepoet profile image78
                  blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  Sorry I was away my tummy was going beserk so quickly cooked up a two min dinner, am dropping bits and pieces in the keyboard but it is all good ROFL

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                    logic,commonsenseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    Not only beautiful, but a great cool as well!  The perfect woman!

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      Malyasposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I couldn't agree more. It's part of the dance. As they say, it takes two.

  22. mistyhorizon2003 profile image89
    mistyhorizon2003posted 6 years ago

    Seduction and being seduced are exciting if you are single and not at risk of hurting anyone. You don't have to be married to enjoy this, and you don't have to be dating or serious about the partner so long as you are careful. In my twenties being flirted with and the game of seduction were a real adrenalin rush, and the resulting encounters were often equally as much of a high from what I recall, (which is not to say my encounters were numerous, so much as memorable!)

  23. Misha profile image75
    Mishaposted 6 years ago

    Ah Cindy, I would seduce you any time smile

    1. mistyhorizon2003 profile image89
      mistyhorizon2003posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      LOL Misha, I am flattered, but aren't you married last time I looked?? wink

  24. Pearldiver profile image86
    Pearldiverposted 6 years ago

    You Toucha My Granderma..... I Breaka You Face.. Capeesh?? lol

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    BSBabyposted 6 years ago

    Yes, Only if that person is not married, and with good intentions of course.  It's not a bad think wink
    Ashley B.

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    lyricsingrayposted 6 years ago

    pick me, pick me big_smile

    1. Cagsil profile image59
      Cagsilposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      lol lol

  27. blondepoet profile image78
    blondepoetposted 6 years ago

    Lay it on me lover

    1. mistyhorizon2003 profile image89
      mistyhorizon2003posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Glad you said "lay it on me" rather than "get laid on me" BP winkwinkbig_smile

      1. blondepoet profile image78
        blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        hahaha well I'm sure the latter will follow providing it's all good.

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    BSBabyposted 6 years ago

    It's not a bad thing....
    Ashley B.

  29. Cagsil profile image59
    Cagsilposted 6 years ago

    I don't. It just doesn't seem all that important to learn about. Not just yet. Moderation in learning is a good thing. lol lol lol

    1. blondepoet profile image78
      blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Ok Cags got to go my little Budgie Charlie is callin'

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    B.C. BOUTIQUEposted 6 years ago

    seduction is all a fun part of the begining of foreplay for concenting people...
    enjoy it, embrace it and most of all, have fun with it!

  31. yenajeon profile image83
    yenajeonposted 6 years ago

    I've actually never seduced anyone. I'm so old fashioned, shouldn't it be the mans job to initiate? Lol

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    BSBabyposted 6 years ago

    I am Guilty, LoL
    Ashley B.

  33. Jonathan Janco profile image81
    Jonathan Jancoposted 6 years ago

    Is it ok to seduce somebody? It better be, because I'm still waiting.

  34. mega1 profile image80
    mega1posted 6 years ago

    AND there are all kinds of seductions happening all the time - little seductions like the way your kids seduce you into reading an extra bed-time story, the way you are seduced by a rainbow into taking a long walk to find the pot of gold, the seduction of HubPages as a place to explore -   Seduction does not always have to involve sex, although it is very nice when it does!

    Now I have seduced you into exploring mega1!

  35. theirishobserver. profile image60
    theirishobserver.posted 6 years ago

    mega1, you say you are being suduced by fellow Hubtastic people, shame on them, now have you read my poem that I posted today.....or should I have said...would you like to see my Simpsons collection...they are in my bedroom...hanging from my fourposter bed.....and there is lots of other toys also.... smile

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    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    Seduction needs a seducee to happen. So in that light all is fair in love and war! Let the games begin!

    1. blondepoet profile image78
      blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Hey ralwus woo hooo it is so great to see you back. How are you feeling?

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    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    Hello Deb. I am better thanks. going ta bed shortly. How are you darling poetess?

    1. blondepoet profile image78
      blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Was so worried about you, oh boy oh boy, didn't want to mail you, cause I wanted to give you space to get better, but for someone who doesn't pray much these days I certainly did for you.

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        ralwusposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I know you did and am so thankful, it helped. Really it did. g'nite dear princess of OZ. xox

        1. blondepoet profile image78
          blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Gnite my dear buddy of the Wild Wild West.

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    varunmagoposted 6 years ago

    its ok....till the time u dont get hurt or hurt someone ...

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    Jill Bruceposted 6 years ago

    I was very attracted to a handsome, sexy guy that I had talked to at a couple of parties.  He came to my work, said he'd like to take me out, just the two of us.  My reply?  "Yes, I'm sure that would be nice, but I'd really rather spend the night with you".  He was, to say the least, a little taken aback by that, but he got over it.  We've been married more than 20 years now.

  40. Hokey profile image59
    Hokeyposted 6 years ago

    Do your best....I'm ready!   big_smile

  41. bg jojo profile image62
    bg jojoposted 6 years ago

    Is it not okay to flirt?  Do we not act on instinct?  Isn't doing what is true in our nature being truthful whether it be through seduction or flirtation in order to get the ones we fall for?

 
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