there is so much more to sex than just penatration, anyone can have sex, a roll in the sack, a one night stand, but when it comes to the art.......and i say ART, of making love, you find yourself on a higher level, a level that is undescribable.
Education is the key to unlocking lifes journey, so enjoy, as you explore yourself and your partner. Learn what they like, love and what makes them hit the roof.
I love how it's always the men who are "no good." It's so easy to be condescending if you are in possession of a vagina, the singular piece of biological hardware capable of causing orgasms on contact. It may not always work like that, but the simple fact that it can, and frequently does, goes to prove the total lack of biological parity. Technically speaking, a woman only has to show up to be "good" as her plumbing and natural lubricity will handle all the "skill" parts on her behalf. Which is fine, but hardly merits too much horn blowing.
a lot of times, when a woman isn't pleased, it is because she is the one who is not doing her duty in the bed.
there are a lot of girls that think like men, that if they ride it hard and make loud noises I'm supposed to magically be aroused. Unnecessary roughness, and then there are men who deal with it simply because the act of "getting pussy" is enough to satisfy them when they know that shit hurts and don't even feel good. I been there, and I learned. Now I blow the whistle, stop the game, lay the penalty and give instructions. This is usually for women 29 and under, thinking they're doing something special. Older women play less games and are team players! Watch and learn, young ladies!
there are also a lot of women who feel a sense of entitlement, like having a pussy is automatically permission to just lay there and expect fireworks. listen ladies, you are special but your pussy is not. and half of you have no clue what you are doing and get a huge head when it is really quite easy to make a man shoot out. shit, we got magazines that can do that, what the hell are you contributing? you better get to work!
and i simply can't stand men who put it on a pedestal. Worshipping the pussy like it's some sort of secret garden, forbidden cave or some silly shit. it's nothing but a hole attached to a person. that mess is not even one bit special, until I marry it of course.
it takes two to tango...ladies?
(obviously, I just got finished watching some Paul Mooney. Infectious!)