"where's the street wise Hercules to fight the greatest odds?"
" I need a hero... He's gotta be strong... gotta be larger than life"
LOL I'm listening to good old Bonnie Tyler, love her husky voice!
Got me thinking though...
where have all the good men gone indeed? Is there a man out there that doesn't stare in lust at women's cleavages or hasn't slept with more than one woman? Is there a faithful man whose only had his wife since he said I do? Is there somebody I can finally call a real man out there??
I have the same question. Where have all the good women gone too? Good men and good women are all taken. Good men are gone with good women and good women with good men. Therefore, you have to ask yourself why are you still waiting?? At the end of the day you have to choose from left over.....hahahaha. Good luck
Well I have an amazing man. And he stares at women's cleavages, has slept with more than one woman, and isn't married yet. Who cares? I like that he stares at women's cleavages. And it doesn't bother me that I'm not the only one he has slept with. He is faithful and is definitely a real man.
No I found out the hard way that saying NO to a woman means she lies and reports you for sexual harrassment, that you didn't do, and gets her revenge for your rejecting her, by getting you fired. Sexual Harrassment is the modern day witch hunt, a crime requiring only that you be accused, no proof, no reason, nothing just the word of the 'victim'...
That has been the tool women have used for centuries to compete with each other. That women decided to use them as tools for competition and 'put them out there' for all to see is why men see them, and is why men have come to identify women as TnA.
Women sure don't use morality and ethics to compete for mates... they use sex and sexal attraction. Some are starting to use smarts... but it has been the other for hundeds of years, it will take hundreds of years to undo what has been done... Just my humble opinion...
I am the Zombie wolf, I'm that creature all the lady's been talk-in about, they all run for cover when I come charg-in out. If I raid your dormatoriam don't try to remain aloof, I might snatch you up scream-in all nakid through the window and do it to you up on the roof. Tell-in you all the zombie troof, here I'm is the zombie wolf. (Frank Zappa)
Humans males are biologically hard-wired to respond to "T n A." The phenomemon is called "sensory modality" and it manifests in numerous ways in humans, and very obviously in other creatures as well - many of whom evolved elaborate sensory modal physiology to accomodate and promote the reproductive process. Just because humans don't have peacock feathers or bright, swollen labia (female chimpanzees in estrous) to attract mates doesn't make us less a part of how creatures on this planet function. In essence, you appear to be looking for a male who does not respond to female reproductive signaling as designed by God or evolution, whichever you prefer... aka, you appear to be seeking a gay man.
Some religions try to create "good men" by completely covering women up so as to quell this response, but the biological urge for sex is pretty strong, so the visual aptitude for mate selection finds ways to seek visual recognition of sexual signaling, settling for a flash of ankle or wrist (as was so well documented during the sexually repressed Victorian period).
At best, unless you want a gay man - which would be frustrating I think for a heterosexual woman after a while - you'll have to settle for a man who can contain his response to the display behavior of women around him, one who can hide his notice from you so you won't be jealous. Either that, or consider working on the jealousy thing and don't hold biology against him.
the difference from one man to the next is all about how much they express it.
a real man is not afraid to say what he wants. it's the bitch-made men that try to pose as these self-righteous, self serving assholes who try to provide women with this sense of being 'above it all' on the one hand. and then turn around and sleep with multitudes of women, or simply go home and dream about sleeping with multitudes of women.
the point is, every [straight] man is the same when it comes to desires.
women want dick too, just the same. Some women try to sit on this high horse like they don't, trying to pretend there are all these morals, but that all comes down when the right man comes around - or the wrong man with the right words. And some women just want as many as they can get. To most women, an orgasm is a rare and extremely powerful thing. A real man learns how to give them one. A bitch made man doesn't give them, and tells his friends he does.
Real men also take care of their business and stick to their word. So if you're dealing with a man who is constantly late, flaky and doesn't deliver on what he says, he's bitch made.
If you don't want a man to constantly be thinking about having sex with you, hang out at the gay bar. Otherwise, don't hate him for looking at someone else, talk to him about it. You should check out other men too, it's limiting to be thinking about only one person all the time. This helps the feelings at least get out, and a real man will respond appropriately and be even more attracted to you. Don't hate him for looking at your tits, simply entice him. A real man will respond appropriately.
As adsense said, it's biology. Trying to hold it back is futile and turns human beings into robots. And not the efficient kind.
I agree, any healthy man will have desire to fuck a lot of women. I would say it is the self-discipline and respect and love that he feels for a woman that will stop him from fucking other women. However, saying that he is not sexually attracted to other women is an utter lie.
Well, by that definition of a real man, that was my ex...he was my first sexual partner, and according to him I was his first as well, and for all five years we were married he never stepped out of line until the end, at which point I don't know if he acted on his flirtations before I left or directly after. That said, there are plenty of other facets of his character and conduct that disqualified him from what I would consider a real man.
My current SO, soon to be husband, has been married twice before and has had several girlfriends in his life. I'm far from the first woman in his life, but what's important to me is he's always only had one at a time. In pretty much all other facets of his life he has also behaved in a way I consider consistent with a real man, and he does me the honor of looking my way whenever he needs a dose of TnA .
Women aren't so different, we all have our triggers, they just seem to be a little more varied on average than the male triggers. Personally, I love to see a man with big hands...you know, it's true what they say about them...
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