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why pay for sex

  1. mintinfo profile image83
    mintinfoposted 6 years ago

    Statistics suggest that aprox 20% of men pay for sex, Married, attached and single alike. I personally would never so I am curious as to why some would.

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image64
      prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      or maybe there are buyers because there are sellers

      1. mintinfo profile image83
        mintinfoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        there has to be a need first. Necessity is the mother of invention.

      2. EYEAM4ANARCHY profile image94
        EYEAM4ANARCHYposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I think you have it backwards.

        1. prettydarkhorse profile image64
          prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          yes backwards hehe

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            kittuuposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            hi how ru

      3. Sean Leong profile image79
        Sean Leongposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Let's face it guys, in order to get sex, you have got to pay one way or another.

        1. TheGlassSpider profile image79
          TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          I think this is a bit far-fetching.

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            kittuuposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            hiiiiiiii

    2. DogSiDaed profile image61
      DogSiDaedposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Probably because it's easy, guaranteed and they don't complain? tongue

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      sneakorocksolidposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Every man pays for sex! Some of us just never stop paying!

    4. Pr0metheus profile image61
      Pr0metheusposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      So, you don't pay for anything your g/f or wife buys?  All men pay for sex... even if that payment is just in time (after all time = money).  I guess that means that all women are whores too.  Cruel world...

      1. wychic profile image79
        wychicposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Men too! big_smile

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          kittuuposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          hiiiiiiiiiiiii friends

          1. ASHWINSPGA profile image58
            ASHWINSPGAposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            hi kittu. you looking for girls here? we got plenty. but of course you got to pay you know.

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        Poppa Bluesposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        That's not a fair statement! Women pay for sex too! It's not like they don't earn any money or do anything around the house. They invest much of their time in any relationship and expect their mate to do for them things they might not be able to do themselves.

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        cosetteposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        really?

        you are equating any woman in a relationship with a hooker? yikes

        first of all, not all women play those headgames - "buy me this and i will send you into the stratosphere" roll

        a loving relationship is built around trust and mutual give and take. why are men not described as prostituting themselves when they do things for women? roll

        greeneyes, i haven't 'backed down' from my opinion. i do think the idea of some beefy bald sweaty old stranger grunting all over me after i performed whatever ministrations to his nether regions that he bought and paid for is personally repugnant. i just don't judge those people for doing it. if that's what floats their boat, whatever. i don't call women who agree with it lowlifes, so they better not call me a prude.

        1. Mrvoodoo profile image61
          Mrvoodooposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Just the word I was looking for, because whilst you claim not to judge others, you clearly do.

          Only the ignorant would believe 'beefy bald sweaty old men' to be the only type of guys to frequent prostitutes.

          1. tantrum profile image60
            tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            lol lol lol

            I know a lot of handsome latin guys that once in a while pay for sex. And they're on their late 30s or 40s.
            As I said, if you want to pay, where's the problem?

            1. Mrvoodoo profile image61
              Mrvoodooposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              As per usual the only ones with the problem are those completely unaffected by it. big_smile

              It's easy to look down from a high tower and condemn.

              1. tantrum profile image60
                tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                And lot of women do that too.
                And they're not all ugly & old. Many of them are nice women in their 40s.

                1. Mrvoodoo profile image61
                  Mrvoodooposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  I'm sure you're right, and more power to them, sex isn't the 'disgusting' act that some would like us to believe, and if something is mutually beneficial, safe, and consenting, then why the hell not? smile

                  1. tantrum profile image60
                    tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    I don't know what happens in other countries, but here in Argentina they certainly do.

          2. Misha profile image76
            Mishaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            LOL I was wondering what happened to "beauty from within" motto - or is it applicable only to ugly women? lol

            But to be frank MrVoodoo, Prometheus sort of prompted an angry response with his sweeping statement LOL. I am surprised nobody else chimed in on this yet lol

            1. Mrvoodoo profile image61
              Mrvoodooposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              LOL, you make a good point Misha, guess the old 'beauty is on the inside' argument doesn't apply to balding sex fiends. big_smile

              As for Prometheus, he may have prompted an angry response, but he can't alter the nature of another's heart with a couple of lines of text. wink

            2. twuxedo profile image60
              twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Just the ugly chicks!
              Shes advocate for the uglies this one. I thinks shes joking, no one adds more smileys.

        2. Pr0metheus profile image61
          Pr0metheusposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Haha, it was a comical observation of my statement.  I definitely don't think all women are whores, nor do I think no men are whores.

      4. twuxedo profile image60
        twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Yes I have heard this said Marriage is legal prostituition, I wouldn't go so far myself, but see the anolgies, you are drawing.
        Does that mean prossies prize themselves higher than those that just give it out gratus, interesting concept.

    5. vox vocis profile image93
      vox vocisposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Because they're fools? And pathetic?

    6. yenajeon profile image83
      yenajeonposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Omg that is disgusting! I had no idea it would be so high. That is so sad. sad

      1. Misha profile image76
        Mishaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Why?

        1. blondepoet profile image79
          blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Yes why? smile

    7. vox vocis profile image93
      vox vocisposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Why pay for sex?
      Because of being shallow...

  2. Misha profile image76
    Mishaposted 6 years ago

    Not that I ever did, but I never say never tongue

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      lyricsingrayposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      lol

  3. blondepoet profile image79
    blondepoetposted 6 years ago

    I guess cos men are men, maybe there is no reason but just a impulse thing. I don't frown upon men who do or men who don't. It's not for me to judge.

  4. TheGlassSpider profile image79
    TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago

    Because gettin' it for free isn't workin' out??

    *shrugs*

    Never done it. I dunno.


    Because you get what you pay for? lol

  5. Betty Reid profile image62
    Betty Reidposted 6 years ago

    I think the point is to just have sex and nothing else, no strings attached.  To quote Charlie Sheen, “You don’t pay a prostitute for sex. You pay them to leave after the sex.”

    1. blondepoet profile image79
      blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      That's it, it's a simple business transaction, no ties, no buying drinks, I guess.

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        Zomermarketingposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I think that you hit the nail on the head there. Whether its right or wrong who is anyone to judge. Especially when you are in a relationship and your partner doesn't come to the party then what the hell is a bloke going to do? He starts thinking about pussy!! Women think about sex just like blokes do we are only human.
        Plus these women that provide a service are working people trying to make a living. I have a close female friend that runs a place in Qld as such. I also provide a service and maintenance on there Air-conditioning hence I am a refrigeration mechanic I have also meet some of the people that work there which have family's and are great people to know. This is a upper class 4 stars rated Palace
        it is deceiving on how the place is presented and the women that work there are just absolute stunner's. Well that's my opinion anyway. Like I said who is to judge?

        1. twuxedo profile image60
          twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Surely no one would believe this spin, No such thing as an upmarket prossie, they are all the same.

        2. wychic profile image79
          wychicposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Exactly!! I honestly don't know why males get the reputation for being so sex-centered where women seem to be perceived as more frigid. The people with the highest sex drives I know, by far, are all women...and it's not just me wink. Even in a committed relationship there's bound to be a mismatch in sex drive, and if there's a HUGE difference in drive there's temptation to buy...and many significant others don't have a problem with it, because it keeps their higher-sex-drive partners out of the arms of someone that might try to keep him/her.

          In another time and place (that is, one in which I didn't have a significant other) I wouldn't put it past myself to be a seller, and if more males were in the profession who knows...I could very well be a buyer! Granted, that's much more likely if it were legal so that one would have the benefit of being able to see certificates of health and what-not, but still. My SO and I recently had a discussion about this...my personality means I'd do much better as a madame than a worker, but morality aside it's a commodity that's in demand and who is to look down on the buyers and sellers of said commodities? Why is it okay to spend $20-$50 on a dildo or a battery-powered vagina but not on a real person? As someone said, "If you're going to spend $100 and an entire evening on dinner anyway, why not cut to the chase and just give her the cash?"

          1. twuxedo profile image60
            twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            tacky!

            1. wychic profile image79
              wychicposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Shhhhh, don't tell anyone...I guess it's a good thing I was born female, that kind of tackiness seems to be seen as an attribute to most males because they don't have to try to be Romeo or Fabio or something...poor guys, they have so much more pressure to be all romantic and what-not wink

              1. twuxedo profile image60
                twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                I agree with that sentiment, just don't like the idea of a working girl personally. How many would they put through in a Week say and then do the Math for a year. Some have guys happy to support them though so there you go. One mans meat etc.

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    lyricsingrayposted 6 years ago

    It's all about power, control and the game.  Ultimately the fun for some big_smile

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      lyricsingrayposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      tongue

  7. dave272727 profile image60
    dave272727posted 6 years ago

    Actually, its about intimacy.  Some people have a hard time with it.  They may have no options other than paying someone for their time.

    1. TheGlassSpider profile image79
      TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I guess I can understand that; intimacy leaves one vulnerable...but at the same time...How could someone not be thinking "I don't know where that's been" the whole time? I'm afraid with all that's floating around these days...I'll just *cough* take care of things myself.

      1. dave272727 profile image60
        dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Yep.  If you go the "pay for it" route, then you might end up with something that Clorox won't kill.

  8. Cagsil profile image84
    Cagsilposted 6 years ago

    Sorry, never paid cash for sex. smile

    But, I've been taken to the cleaners by some of my ex's, but I guess that's another story in and of itself. lol lol lol

    1. dave272727 profile image60
      dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I didn't know that they took checks j/k

  9. mintinfo profile image83
    mintinfoposted 6 years ago

    Some reasons that I also heard were,

    to gain experience if you are young(virgin),

    to relieve stress,

    gain confidence,

    feeling inadequate(small weewee)

    an ailment or deformity that hinders the development of a committed relationship,

    well educated and successful but a social recluse,

    or simply unable to relate to women.

  10. Len Cannon profile image88
    Len Cannonposted 6 years ago

    Why pay for a burger

    why pay for anything

    DOWN WITH CAPITILISM

  11. Misha profile image76
    Mishaposted 6 years ago

    Paid sex existed loooooong before CAPITILISM tongue

    1. TheGlassSpider profile image79
      TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Indeed, I've heard it called, "The Oldest Profession"

    2. Len Cannon profile image88
      Len Cannonposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I want government subsidized hookers.

      1. drej2522 profile image86
        drej2522posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        hahaha...hilarious!

  12. prettydarkhorse profile image64
    prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago

    boredom and trying somehting new, and risking their relationship plus STDS etc

    men who are paying for sex have low self confidence and cant get woman whom they love and will love them, the only basis for sex is love

    1. Misha profile image76
      Mishaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I think this is a bit far-fetching...

      1. prettydarkhorse profile image64
        prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        why pay sex when you can have it for free and for those you love

        the one you love hehe

        1. dave272727 profile image60
          dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Good points, but....
          There is always a but or butt.
          Anyway.  What if they are too lazy to go through the rituals of courtship and all that to get to the intimacy? 
          Or maybe they just moved to the town or city and don't know anyone and are feeling lonely. 
          Or they could have just come back from the war to find that the happy home they had been dreaming of had been destroyed by some random guy named Bob that she had met at an office party.  Just saying....  It could happen.

          1. prettydarkhorse profile image64
            prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            it could happen yes and avoid it, specially if you are into a relationship, you are also risking yourself for STDs

            I dont know dave but then maybe I was raised up differently, cant really accept such things, it is better to be loyal, and not paying for sex, you can DIY if you want but it can be addicted too hehe

            1. dave272727 profile image60
              dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Yes I mentioned catching something Clorox won't kill...  DIY is better than crabs for sure.

              1. prettydarkhorse profile image64
                prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                right, thank you

                1. dave272727 profile image60
                  dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  ]
                  You are always welcome!!
                  Or maybe in this thread I should just say You are welcome,
                  Or that still sounded bad.  I will just shut up now.

          2. JOE BARNETT profile image61
            JOE BARNETTposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            i have to agree with the guys . it is without strings. in a relationship you pay through the nose anyway. you pay for. . . . everything!!and it's long and drawn out. paying for it is like going to a restaurant. . . . great meal.

            1. prettydarkhorse profile image64
              prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              meal restaurant? what do you get in return? the reason some women are into expecting always men to pay and buy them this or that is because men have that notion too

              1. twuxedo profile image60
                twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                Ol Joes a Charmer  lol smile

                1. JOE BARNETT profile image61
                  JOE BARNETTposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  no you missed what i was saying. i said there are no strings attached. when you go to a restaurant you don't cook it wash dishes or anything. you simply eat and go. no strings attached . will i have to break it down further and in this analogy let me ask the ladies . why do they like restaurants?

      2. Sean Leong profile image79
        Sean Leongposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I agree.

        1. twuxedo profile image60
          twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Well they def. are not babe magnets are they? Theres one down the Road from my Salon,a Bordello that is, and frankly you want to see the State of them.
          I have yet to see a well rounded attractive prossie yet.
          The ones that come in for the colourings are all screwed up, thats the better looking ones.
          The skanks are just that. So the Guys that pay em are something else agauin. Spose no one wants them either.

  13. Misha profile image76
    Mishaposted 6 years ago

    Coming from your upbringing, you get hairy palms and go completely blind from DIY, so paid sex looks like a bit more viable alternative tongue

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image64
      prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      youre not going to die if you cant release it

      1. Misha profile image76
        Mishaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Huh? Doncha think it's a hella condescending to say, being a woman especially?

        1. prettydarkhorse profile image64
          prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          oh am not, am just saying have patience

  14. dave272727 profile image60
    dave272727posted 6 years ago

    To be honest I have been all over the world.  I have seen two things that are common almost everywhere I have been.  With the one exception being the Falkland Islands.  Prostitution and Irish pubs are everywhere!!!

  15. dave272727 profile image60
    dave272727posted 6 years ago

    Desperation plays a huge role in it as well.  Do a google search for Russian Brides.  Look how many "dating" sites come up.  Women from other countries are willing to basically sell themselves to get out of their current situations. 
    I haven't paid for it partly because I am scared of STDs and partly because I am afraid of getting arrested.

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    lyricsingrayposted 6 years ago

    I paid. Twice big_smile

    1. dave272727 profile image60
      dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      big_smile

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    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    Um voice of experience here. No excuses just facts. As an oil field worker and then an over the road trucker I paid for it time and again. Nice places and beautiful women for sex only. I was gone from home a lot in those days. I also paid for it in other ways, dinner, a movie a night out on the town [date], a car, a house/apt and a broken heart.
    There are women who pay for it as well. I think it started capitalism. Am I proud of it? No. Would I do it again? If I were going through the same thing I did then. Yes.

  18. efeguy profile image60
    efeguyposted 6 years ago

    it has been here and it will continue to be there.

    just for fun.but  risky fun

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    Poppa Bluesposted 6 years ago

    Everyone pays for sex one way or another.

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    lyricsingrayposted 6 years ago

    because you can.

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      Denno66posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Oh, giggity. big_smile

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        lyricsingrayposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        lol lol lol

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          Denno66posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Hey! I call 'em the way I see 'em. big_smile

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            lyricsingrayposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            well also it's fun being the boss when you pay big_smile

            not that I have before or anything hmm:

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              Denno66posted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Um, no, sure, I follow you. big_smile

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                lyricsingrayposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                follow or lead? big_smile

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                  Denno66posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  Well, I could just as easily lead. big_smile

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                    lyricsingrayposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    don't sheep follow though?
                    cool if one could lead tongue

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    lyricsingrayposted 6 years ago

    goodnight leader of men tongue

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      Denno66posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Good night, there Milady. big_smile

  22. Bill Manning profile image70
    Bill Manningposted 6 years ago

    Even though I've never paid for sex, the thought has crossed my mind. But it's only because I would like to experience a few different types of women, fantasy if you will.

    So, what better way then to just go to a place, pay for it and be done with it? Like, I've thought about going to Vegas, where it's legal and going to one of those cat houses.

    I would then pay for a petite, tight Asian girl. I've always wanted to try one. After that I'd love to try a tall, playboy type.

    Then once that was over I'd be like "great, now I've tried that, it was great and I can go back to looking for the woman of my dreams". Which has nothing to do with body type but personality.

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      sneakorocksolidposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Bill, Bill, Bill! What are we going to do with you? Tight and prostitute shouldn't be in the same sentence.

      1. Bill Manning profile image70
        Bill Manningposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        hmmmmm, that's true, never thought of that. Maybe I could get an apprentice Asian? lol

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          sneakorocksolidposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Now you're talking!big_smile

          1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
            greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

            THIS FORUM IS REPULSIVE

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              Denno66posted 6 years ago in reply to this

              This is not a religious forum.

              1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
                greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                wtf ever that means did i say it was? NO butt out!!

                1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
                  greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  talking about paying for sex is disgusting... why would ANYONE want to pay for something like that is DISGUSTING!! if anyone had any self respect they would GROW up and wouldnt do such a disgusting thing by bringing themselves to such a shallow place

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                    Justine76posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    why did you open this thread then?  to answer the question...
                    everyone wants a warm body to be next to, from time to time. As far as buying it, whilst in a committed relationship, there are a million reasons why it might happen. Right, wrong,  hurtful, whatever....its way to big of a question for one answer. It happens.

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                  Denno66posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  Anger; not necessary. This is merely a forum exploring a certain topic. If you want to express feelings of vitriol, then please help yourself to any of the religious forums of your choosing.

                  1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
                    greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    I just did express myself LOL cant you tell? who said I was angry? anger consists of extra large caps in all letters... i was emphasizing.... after all expressing ones self is what they are all about right??? then i served my purpose here!!!

            2. dave272727 profile image60
              dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Not nearly as repulsive as some....

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              ralwusposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              You are the judgmental one. Why did you stay in here if it is so repulsive? Live and let live I say.

              1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
                greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                why not??? ppl judge all the time... i said its gross that is MY opinion.. i deal with nonbelievers who are just as judgemntal and im still alive and the stars still shine.... so im sure yall will get over it smile after all it is my opinion why should my opinion matte to you

                1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
                  greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  i accept your opinion on this matter.. if u wanna give your money away for 2 mins of your life then by all means go for it.... i on the other hand will never give my money away to someone for such a thing.... i accept that you will have had or might or are going to pay for it.. kool whatever floats your coconuts

                  1. dave272727 profile image60
                    dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    Who said it was only 2 min?

  23. dave272727 profile image60
    dave272727posted 6 years ago

    greeneyes,
    If I could.  Maybe you should read from the beginning of this thread and then reserve judgment until after you have read everyone's responses.  There have been some very good points brought up by both males and females.  There are reasons for everything that people do.  Please take the time to view the responses before you pass judgment.

    1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
      greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      no thank u i read enough when i suddenly realised how gross it was... had enough of the comments its merely gross to even think of just had to make my point like everyone else does smile

      1. tantrum profile image60
        tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        what is gross in sex ? Even if you paid for it, is fun.
        Sex is fun and is good.

        1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
          greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          um lets see... PAYING for it is prostitution need i say more? why pay for it? if u have to pay for it then theres something wrong there... what u arent happy at home? or with your lover or just pickin it up at the bar??? i mean cmon PAYING FOR IT!!! ROFL

          1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
            greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

            then again if u arent happy at home or with who u are with then either your life in that dept sucks and u shouldnt have married them or there is something wrong with you personally.... I never feel the need to ever offer money for that or even receive it thats just sick......

            1. dave272727 profile image60
              dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Sometimes there is could be a point in a person's life that they have no alternative other than to sell or buy sex.  Take for example a woman that is trying to feed her children.  She tries EVERY option for assistance and to buy food for the children.  What options does she have left?

              1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
                greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                um going back to school no matter the extent i dont believe that there is EVERYTHING to be tried with no success... thats a ridiculous excuse

                1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
                  greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  anyways enjoy your sex topic in here peace to all im out!

                  1. dave272727 profile image60
                    dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    Aww, don't leave angry.

          2. tantrum profile image60
            tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            what if you can't find anyone to make love to? what if you're deformed ? aren't you entitled to the fun ???

            1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
              greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

              tantrum dont make me spit milk through my nose....

              1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
                greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                ya know God gave masturbation as a gift.. I mean have u ever tried to tickle yourself?

                1. tantrum profile image60
                  tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  some guys find it boring after doing it for months. some would like the 'real thing',don't you agree?

                  1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
                    greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    like i said if it takes them THAT long then theres probably something wrong there.... then again how strong are they to withstand

        2. dave272727 profile image60
          dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Couldn't agree more Tantrum!!

          1. TheGlassSpider profile image79
            TheGlassSpiderposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            I'll "third" that.

          2. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
            greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

            hmm funny how ppl twist things on here... where did i say SEX itself was gross? hmmm?? obviously yall didnt get what i said so ill leave that for u to figure out cus im not gonna repeat myself

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          Denno66posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          I'm still waiting for a hub from her. big_smile

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    Denno66posted 6 years ago

    Okay, take care. big_smile

  25. Misha profile image76
    Mishaposted 6 years ago

    Are you a natural blonde? wink

  26. 0
    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    Hmmm, some people are so judgmental, they scare me. I ain't scared of nuthin.

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    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    It's really no different than going in  for a massage now is it? It is a service to our community and has always been around. Like it or no.

    1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
      greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      a massage is legal and waaaaaayyy different then fornication...

      1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
        greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        yea served our world with diseases!! i hardly call that serving!!

        1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
          greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          would you like your nice bowl of st'ds now?? is how i look at it ... ugh im shuddering thinking of it!!

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            cosetteposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            i agree. just fifteen minutes ago that girl you pay for was in a bed with god knows who doing god knows what.

            ew.

            1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
              greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

              finally a sane brain!!! ew is right smile

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                cosetteposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                smile

            2. Mrvoodoo profile image61
              Mrvoodooposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Surely the same could be said of any girl you meet but don't pay for.

              1. tantrum profile image60
                tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                lol

              2. twuxedo profile image60
                twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                Was just thinking, Hey all the ladies on here say ew and the men are the bad guys, but badguys need badgirls to be badguys if you follow the logicistics.

        2. tantrum profile image60
          tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          I'm sure you have heard about condoms.

          1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
            greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

            oh yea cus there such a guarantee right?? lol come on tant even you know better then this!!

            1. tantrum profile image60
              tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Really ?
              I've been using condoms for more than 30 years, and never caught a 'disease'

              1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
                greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                how is using a condom the real thing ? lol far from it besides im not going to put my heatlth up to the fate of a condom... u know the things that ppl have gotten pregnant from or they have busted and what not...

  28. 0
    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    It is legal in parts of Nevada. And disease  is also spread freely. Fornication can also be of the mind. Remember Carter and his lust statement? Did Jesus cast stones on the harlot?

  29. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 6 years ago

    My husband says all men pay for sex one way or the other! lol

  30. 0
    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    I could just as easily get something nasty from a free piece of ass too. Thankfully I will never know yours.

    1. Misha profile image76
      Mishaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      LOL Charlie, she might a have a nice piece though wink

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      cosetteposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      wow, how hostile, just for expressing an opinion. that is really uncool.

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        ralwusposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I did not mean you Cosette. Nevah!

      2. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
        greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        it is and to think these ppl would think i would actually even THINK of them on that level let alone give something as precious up to someone like them...

        1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
          greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          sex is not a materialistic thing.. money buys THINGS not the body of another for what 2 MIN

          1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
            greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

            total wast of time and money... meaningless life will still go on just the same.. stop trying to justify your disgusting actions and thoughts

      3. Misha profile image76
        Mishaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Cosette, read back, would you please? smile

        1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
          greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          i too ralwus am thankful i will never know yours... but then again i would never go there

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          cosetteposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          oh ok. sorry ralwus. i was all 'wtf?' haha wink

          thanks Misha.

          anyway, i watch this show called Cathouse sometimes. they are all smiles going 'oh our clients are doctors and lawyers' as if to dignify what they do because they don't just do it with average men roll

          the owner of the house has sex with all of his staff. they all say they want to. um, right. i imagine some feel obligated to or it's out the door for them.

          they have hidden cameras in the rooms and it's pretty explicit and i don't know even if i adored sex i don't think i could turn it on and off like that. they say they don't have to do antthing or anyone if they don't want to. let's face it, they have to be productive and part of any job is doing something you don't necessarily want to to. i would rather my unwanted task for the day be filing and collating, not, well, you know.

          but i don't judge anyone for being a prostitute or for seeking one. i just have my own feelings about it. if i disagree it doesn't mean i am judging anyone who agrees with it. to each his own.

          1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
            greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

            yikes

          2. Mrvoodoo profile image61
            Mrvoodooposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            You imagine, suspect, assume and speculate, but know nothing for certain. smile

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    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    I would not touch her with yours Misha. big_smile

    1. Misha profile image76
      Mishaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I am just speculating smile

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    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    I smell a marine with a big dog big_smile

    1. Misha profile image76
      Mishaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      LOL Marine? I guess he is smarter than that smile

      1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
        greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        he?? o   k

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    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    Mine is an exit only and I think you are just another troll for HP to deal with. A butt sniffing one at that.

    1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
      greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      why thank you!! smile compliment accepted smile

      1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
        greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        how thoughtful and judgemental of you!! but guess what ? the stars are still shinin tonight!! HAR HAR

    2. twuxedo profile image60
      twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Hit the nail on that one Mate.

  34. dave272727 profile image60
    dave272727posted 6 years ago

    I hate that this thread has descended into personal attacks. 

    Greeneyes,
    Maybe you could write out how many ways this thread disgusts you and that could be your first hub.  I am sorry that I don't understand your point.  I wish that I could grasp what you are getting at with your anger and negativity.

    1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
      greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      im not being angry and negative... why am i being attacked now havent u seen what others wrote about me?? i think pointing fingers is irrelevant in these pages.. smile once again this thread does not allow for tone of voice.. so take my words as you will

      1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
        greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        personally they are kind of amusing in a way.. the topics ppl come up with

      2. dave272727 profile image60
        dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I am not angry with you, I just simply don't understand what you are hoping to accomplish.  People pay for sex.  It has been going on for thousands of years.  There is nothing wrong with it, there is nothing disgusting about it, it just is.  All the men and women that choose to sell themselves have the ability to say no.  Just as the men and women that buy it have the choice not to.  I am not pointing fingers, I am just trying to understand.

        1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
          greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          ok and like i said... i am not afraid to make my opinion on it.. and i said ITS GROSS and DISGUSTING.. if that offends then i guess thats their problem.... heck i get offended to so what life goes on

          1. Mrvoodoo profile image61
            Mrvoodooposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Every time you open your mouth a small child somewhere stops believing in God.

            If he is real, you do him a disservice.

            1. dave272727 profile image60
              dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

              lol

              1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
                greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                opinion noted and distasteful.... and you are any better???

                1. Mrvoodoo profile image61
                  Mrvoodooposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  I've never claimed to be righteous.

                  1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
                    greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    kool we in the same boat then as far as humanity goes...nice to meet you smile

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    cosetteposted 6 years ago

    true.

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    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    I see many things that repulse me. I do not judge them for it, only war. It is repulsive to me enough to speak out as well as pedophiles. I do not like tats or body piercing or many other things, but I do not speak against them in a judgmental way.

    1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
      greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      but see that is what is different here... these forums are for ppl to somewhat voice their opinion... that is what i have done. i agree with you on the war and pedophile stuff but lets not get me started again...

    2. twuxedo profile image60
      twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Agreed

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    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    I assure you 2 min would never do and I don't anymore. Don't need it you see. I am home for good and do not travel as I did so long ago when I really needed IT.

    1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
      greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      im also just trying to lighten the load in here.. ppl get sooo serious in these forums.. gosh tantrum even knows how iam!! although it is hard to tell when im serious smile hah!

      1. tantrum profile image60
        tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I'd rather think you're always joking!
        If not....lol

        1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
          greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          well see i said a few posts back that i really do think its gross but thats just my opinion.. and im certainly not going to back down from it cus some think im bein rude or whatever.. i voice my opinion.. but for the most part im always up for a good laugh to.. i dont like to be serious all the time life is too short to be i dunno all tied in a giant knot

      2. twuxedo profile image60
        twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Hey I thought you were serious. Seems you just like a laugh. Sorry lol

  38. dave272727 profile image60
    dave272727posted 6 years ago

    "lighten the load"

    "service"

    I may need a cold shower....

    1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
      greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      dont even start

      1. dave272727 profile image60
        dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Start what?  I just finished!

        1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
          greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          TMI!!

        2. tantrum profile image60
          tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          lol

        3. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
          greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          wow that quick huh

          1. dave272727 profile image60
            dave272727posted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Worst two minutes ever!

            1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
              greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

              shoulda got a receipt so u can return it LOL

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    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    Hell of a way to break the ice. But it is shattered I reckon. Now, write us a hub.

    1. greeneyesH1982 profile image60
      greeneyesH1982posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      HAH!! ill get to it when i feel like writing i guess... i have to be in the mood for it im not a magician who can just pull em out of u know where and write em on here... but trust me ill get to it when I feel like it smile

  40. cheaptrick profile image58
    cheaptrickposted 6 years ago

    "Why pay for sex"
    Why not?

  41. wychic profile image79
    wychicposted 6 years ago

    Goodness, this thread has exploded since yesterday tongue. I just got done catching myself up...reading...and I'm glad to see that a couple of other people have pointed out that STDs really have no idea whether you're paying for it or not, they'll spread regardless wink. There's definitely a distinct advantage to legal prostitution, though, in that it offers much more by way of transparency and protection than in areas where it's illegal. I'm certainly not an expert, but have been told that in places like Nevada there are more options for health care coverage for the "working professional" and most cat houses insist on a clean bill of health before someone can work there. If I were in the market, that would certainly make me feel a lot better than picking up some 15-year-old that sneaked out in the middle of the night to raise some money for entertainments and what-not.

    Now...what's that about all the ladies thinking it's gross? Or are the rest of us females just not ladylike enough for the term? tongue

    1. Misha profile image76
      Mishaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Would have joined your fan club on the spot, but been there for a loooong time already smile

    2. twuxedo profile image60
      twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      smile Well pointed out.

  42. tantrum profile image60
    tantrumposted 6 years ago

    What's wrong with paying for sex?
    If you have the money and feel like it. Where's the problem?

  43. 0
    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    I'm too skeered to say anything else about this. It has all been said anyway, I think.

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      Justine76posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      lol hi ralwus. yer nekkid....dont be skeered, its natural!!!

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        ralwusposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        OK darlin'. big_smile I just have had it with this one.

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          Justine76posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          smile catch ya 'round. luv ya!!

  44. myownworld profile image80
    myownworldposted 6 years ago

    roll

    I just knew the religious (or self righteous) would one day curse every thread here! It's FINALLY happened!!

    1. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      lol
      It was predictable ! lol

      1. myownworld profile image80
        myownworldposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        wink

  45. myownworld profile image80
    myownworldposted 6 years ago

    If someone does NOT want to sell sex, it is a crime to force them to. But when men or women DO want to out of a personal choice, they should have that right without punishment or discriminatory remarks. Who are we to judge anyone or their motives?

    1. Mrvoodoo profile image61
      Mrvoodooposted 6 years ago

      Internet connection dying, dying, dead. sad

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        Justine76posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        sad   come back when you can. Ive got to move my computer to the kitchen soon. wii sucks...

    2. prettydarkhorse profile image64
      prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago

      yes some women do that too, but its that we have a choice really,

      prostitution is the oldest business yes, but then is our body a commodity?
      I see that prositution is not even a problem of poverty, at times it is a problem of firm moral values, young girls do it because they want to belong and engage in other risky behaviors like drugs too

      I think it is about respecting your body and all, if you cant even respect your body and sell sex then how much more respecting others physical body too?

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        Justine76posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        not every one has the luxuroy of being raised with loving parents who instill in thier children a sense of self respect. other times...it really is poverty. Maybe ill write a hub....

        1. prettydarkhorse profile image64
          prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          hey just come on write something about it, I worked before and interviewed a lot of prostitutes and some I even cried because of their circumstances but then, there are various reasons like they were raped, they are poor, misguided, maybe I am wrong, but for those who see the light and have a chance I dont see why they still indulge to it though...and for those who dont even have the food, they just do it because they want to eat too,,

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            Kenrick Chatmanposted 6 years ago in reply to this

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            1. twuxedo profile image60
              twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              That was kinda a one off tho wasn't it.
              Not like she's still in demand.

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                Kenrick Chatmanposted 6 years ago in reply to this

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                1. twuxedo profile image60
                  twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  Must admit same sentiment, Divine Brown wasn't she, always stayed with me the Divine bit, because she so wasn't.
                  I can only imagine that Grant was munted that night and ordered one off the Street.

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            Justine76posted 6 years ago in reply to this

            its such a broad topic....so many sides to it. You should write too!!! (oh, yes, there are those who know better)....like i said, there are so many sides, especially if you talk about worldwide!!!

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      ralwusposted 6 years ago

      Those girls who loved and followed Charles Manson were raised 'properly', look what they did.

    4. aware profile image70
      awareposted 6 years ago

      you pay for them to leave

    5. aware profile image70
      awareposted 6 years ago

      you can kill your baby but cant sell your pusy .thats poetry

      1. twuxedo profile image60
        twuxedoposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Better Humour you I think er if you say so.

     
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