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What makes girls good in BED?? any new tips?

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    horrible.oneposted 7 years ago

    hi guys...

    if any of you guys have any tips and tricks for girls, other than mine, to help them make pleasure love in bed with their partners, do feel free to post them on this section. thank you.

    1. yoshi97 profile image88
      yoshi97posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      For one thing ... not falling out of bed ... That's always a turnoff for me.

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        horrible.oneposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        ha ha.. do u usually fall out of bed??? try bar bed

      2. DogSiDaed profile image59
        DogSiDaedposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Does that happen often...? I could make a joke, but it is rather crude, and I shan't, especially as I don't know you tongue

    2. Black Lilly profile image60
      Black Lillyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Ability to relax and enjoy what's happening. Not to be afraid of her own passion.
      And of course, not to worry about her looks then. Men tend to be nearly blind then wink

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      cosetteposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      being uninhibited and well, slutty...

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      mtsi1098posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      don't limit yourself to the bedroom big_smile

    5. Diskobolos profile image60
      Diskobolosposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      No 1. trick is that you enjoy it and have orgasms, that drives us crazy. Also, if you show us that you really lustfully and passionately want us.

      As for technique - well just practice it, reading a ton of books on how to shoot free throws is not gonna make you more accurate.smile

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        oh, thats funny. if only it were that easy..orgasms on command...  lol do you suppose the man might need to have something to do with that one? or are we back to toys make women look unconfident?

        1. Hmrjmr1 profile image79
          Hmrjmr1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Goes back to being a team event...
          Toys? Toys are good...cool

        2. Mrvoodoo profile image59
          Mrvoodooposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          It IS that easy if you're a man. wink lol

          Unlucky, maybe in your next life. big_smile

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            Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            damn. boys get all the fun. sad

      2. curlytree2009 profile image45
        curlytree2009posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I simply love it. smile

    6. Pearldiver profile image87
      Pearldiverposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      And for the horrible ones ..... Use the Pillow Wisely lol

      1. tantrum profile image61
        tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol lol lol

      2. GeneralHowitzer profile image63
        GeneralHowitzerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        LOL big_smile big_smile big_smile, Long time no see pearl..., hi guys

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      shinujohn2008posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      If they keep their mouth shut , they can be good

    8. jgw899 profile image60
      jgw899posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      To be open to what their man likes and wants them to do.

    9. Harvey Stelman profile image59
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      horrible,

      1- Always count cracks in the ceiling out loud.
      2- Tell him how bored you are.
      3- Ask what's on TV.
      4- Ask if they are done yet.
      5- Ask if he wants you to move.
      And so many more.

  2. Misha profile image74
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    Girls are horrible in bed. Boys are way better wink

    1. habee profile image90
      habeeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      EWWWW!!

    2. blondepoet profile image78
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Proof it!!!!!

  3. Cagsil profile image60
    Cagsilposted 7 years ago

    Welcome to HubPages. smile

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    rialeeposted 7 years ago

    What makes chicks good in bed??
    Their partner guy or girl. You always paly to the quality of your partner.
    cheers

  5. Shadesbreath profile image90
    Shadesbreathposted 7 years ago

    Nudity and a pulse usually do the trick.

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      logic,commonsenseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Right On!

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    Denno66posted 7 years ago

    And barring that, at least nudity.

  7. Misha profile image74
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    Yeah, talking of nude carrots lol

  8. Wayne Orvisburg profile image79
    Wayne Orvisburgposted 7 years ago

    Just watch a couple porno movies and take notes. There's a reason it's a billion dollar industry.

    1. waynet profile image50
      waynetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      And also a reason why I've nearly gone blind with hairy palms!!

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        Denno66posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Dude, you have to shave them before..... lol

  9. quicksand profile image84
    quicksandposted 7 years ago

    The size of the bed also matters! lol

  10. flread45 profile image83
    flread45posted 7 years ago

    Wear your spurs!!

    1. Hmrjmr1 profile image79
      Hmrjmr1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Definatly a plus...cool

  11. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    Being adventurous, unselfish, and very passionate - throwing caution to the wind. Not being afraid or hesitant about pleasing and being pleased.

    Is it getting hot in heeya???

  12. blondepoet profile image78
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    A pair of black stilhetto heels and a whip!

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      logic,commonsenseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      That's my kind of woman!  But the heels are hard on my feet! smile

    2. Hmrjmr1 profile image79
      Hmrjmr1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      A mind like this is a terrible thing to waste, We need to so some musing together!!cool

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      Twenty One Daysposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      yip.

  13. dave272727 profile image60
    dave272727posted 7 years ago

    Confidence

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    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    flexibility big_smile

    1. dave272727 profile image60
      dave272727posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Hell Yes!!!

    2. AdsenseStrategies profile image73
      AdsenseStrategiesposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You mean like a flexible schedule?

    3. drej2522 profile image86
      drej2522posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      nice, Kimberly, nice

      I like it when they just lay there and do nothing...it's hot..

      I mean, what?

    4. qwark profile image61
      qwarkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I have to agree with Lyrics.
      Man, I love flexability! To move from one position to another and not miss a stroke! Fantastic!
      Deep slow strokes, deep french kissing, muscle f**king and timing "cums" together.....damn! damn! damn!
      Whew! Are we gonna be deleted?...:-)

  15. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    Jumper cables, duct tape, and a saddle! Yee-haw!

    1. dave272727 profile image60
      dave272727posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Now I am scared!

    2. Hmrjmr1 profile image79
      Hmrjmr1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Don't forget the Velcro Habee!!

  16. yenajeon profile image80
    yenajeonposted 7 years ago

    wow some of these answers are so extreme.
    whatever happened to like enthusiasm or lingerie? haha

    1. habee profile image90
      habeeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Yeah, stuff like that was great when I was in my twenties. Now, I'm serious!!

    2. Hmrjmr1 profile image79
      Hmrjmr1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I could work with that..cool

  17. tantrum profile image61
    tantrumposted 7 years ago

    I don't see any interesting replies from men.
    That shows they don't know  how to make girls good in bed.
    And that's it, because they really don't know!
    But we do ! lol

    1. Jerami profile image76
      Jeramiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        All he can do is to help her feel confortable enough to be herself and be compatible with that. make a few sudgestions by example. and maybe she will follow your lead. 
         It's all good.

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      logic,commonsenseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      In the words of JFK, "Ask not what your girl in bed can do for you, ask what you can do for your girl in bed! smile

      1. blondepoet profile image78
        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        That's exactly why I love ya Logic. smile smile

  18. Isabelle22 profile image60
    Isabelle22posted 7 years ago

    The type of man she is with

  19. Anamika S profile image70
    Anamika Sposted 7 years ago

    mental compatibility with partner

    1. GoldiString profile image60
      GoldiStringposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      So.. I will quiz him all the way to the bed? - What are the stages of female stimulation, and return demo required. Hot. smile

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    Jewelry.

  21. Ron Montgomery profile image60
    Ron Montgomeryposted 7 years ago

    20% gratuity

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    Seriously, I like alittle dinner and lots of compliments, lots of listening. Then gentile massages starting with her feet and legs. Warming up some oil to rub her back with and if she doesn't fall asleep you're in the money. If she dcoes fall asleep she'll feel bad and offer up a whole bunch of sympathy sex in the morning.big_smile

  23. PrettyPanther profile image84
    PrettyPantherposted 7 years ago

    Girls are generally not good in bed, but women are.

    wink

    1. blondepoet profile image78
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I second that motion. Woo hoo!!!

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image59
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Pretty,

      What age seperates a girl and a woman?

  24. fierycj profile image85
    fierycjposted 7 years ago

    The Fiery One arrives!

    1. blondepoet profile image78
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Oh god damn holy smoke......hot diggety dog ITS MY WEE LITTLE FIERY. Oh Ron told me he had you prisoner in his dungeon, thank god you escaped.
      I am so so happy to see you Fiery that I nearly fell off my chair. Welcome back peachy poo!!!

      1. fierycj profile image85
        fierycjposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        How you been, Gurl?

        1. blondepoet profile image78
          blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I was told you were busy making a movie. Is that where you have been Fiery?
          I didn't think it possible as I would have had the lead female role lol.

          1. fierycj profile image85
            fierycjposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Not making any movies...yet. But I've been having a friggin' great adventure in the bowels of Nigerian jungles...could make a great movie, though. LOL.

        2. Ron Montgomery profile image60
          Ron Montgomeryposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Heyyyyyyyy, WTF? yikes

          1. blondepoet profile image78
            blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            See Ron Fiery runs free so much for your home-made ropes smile

  25. wsp2469 profile image60
    wsp2469posted 7 years ago

    Make me believe you want me.  Enjoy wet,sloppy, probing, deep, breath-stealing kisses, be very, very clean as I put my tongue in places many men would NOT, don't be shy, be verbal don't hold back when you c*m--not the first time or the last time or any of the times in between and beg for my seed when it's finally my turn to c*m.
    perfume, satin sheets, scented candles and soft music are also nice.
    Save the two-way vibrating strap-on and leather hip boots for the second date

    1. blondepoet profile image78
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Oh my!!!

      1. wsp2469 profile image60
        wsp2469posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        What? Did I miss something?
        Or do you think I'm a prude now for asking a woman to save the strap-on for the second date?
        What?

        1. blondepoet profile image78
          blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Haha I think you need to be writing an erotic fiction novel. Remember us when you are dripping rich.

          1. wsp2469 profile image60
            wsp2469posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I'd love to try that someday or at least a short story.  (Seriously though, you think I should be accepting to toys on a FIRST date?  I've always considered myself to be sexually open-minded.)

    2. Black Lilly profile image60
      Black Lillyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      ...and the first sentence says it all...
      nice answer wink

  26. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    Dripping, BP? NOW I have a mental picture of Wsp!

    1. blondepoet profile image78
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Haha Habee it is inevitable

      1. wsp2469 profile image60
        wsp2469posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        NOW what did I do?

  27. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    Most guys I've known would be ecstatic for a woman to pull out the toys...on ANY date!

    1. wsp2469 profile image60
      wsp2469posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      But you want me to think you are good in bed.
      So wouldn't it be better to NOT want toys--just YOU--on the first date?
      Seriously after you think yo have proven yourself then it's a whole different story. 
      (Mind you, if you get out the strap-on then you better turn off the camera and swear not to tell ANY of your girlfriends what we did!)

  28. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    I'm not trying to make you think I'm good in bed. Why would I? I think I just hang with a pretty jaded crowd!

    What I'm trying to say is that I know so many women who have no interest at all in sex. These are women in their late 30s, 40s, and 50s. I think anything they did to show they had libido would be much appreciated by their partner!

    1. wsp2469 profile image60
      wsp2469posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      What makes girls good in bed is the topic.
      SO i am saying i would want her to be able or at least think she is able to be good without the toys.
      Confidence will automatically make you sexier!

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        hmmm...why would a woman wanting to use a toy, make her appear unconfident? I got confused....

  29. skyfire profile image72
    skyfireposted 7 years ago

    Bed, no couch.

  30. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    Right. I still stick to my earlier serious answer: a spirit of adventure and exploration, along with passion and unselfishness.

  31. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    Oh, the toys wouldn't be for my partner!

    1. wsp2469 profile image60
      wsp2469posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      oh ok
      well, yeah, that could be hot but--hey--if I like you you really won't truly NEED them.
      It would be hot for me to know you HAD them though that's true.

  32. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    But a lot of guys don't think like you - or at least they don't act that way when it comes down to it.

    1. wsp2469 profile image60
      wsp2469posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I just figure the hotter you think I think you are the better thigns will be for BOTH of us!

  33. habee profile image90
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    So, BP, when we gonna paint the town?? I found some red paint! lol

    1. blondepoet profile image78
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Woo hoo don your boots Habee, spray your little Eau De Cologne,dab a little of that red scarlet lippy, cos I'm on my way to get you on my Harly (wishful thinking). We'll even paint it purple with green spots. smile

  34. OregonWino profile image84
    OregonWinoposted 7 years ago

    A desire to be there with your partner

  35. dave272727 profile image60
    dave272727posted 7 years ago

    Alcohol

    1. Black Lilly profile image60
      Black Lillyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      really?!
      big_smile

      1. Mrvoodoo profile image59
        Mrvoodooposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Yep, really.

        Although not so much they projectile vomit on you mid-stroke. big_smile

  36. Hmrjmr1 profile image79
    Hmrjmr1posted 7 years ago

    Since Nookie is a team event, there is the one thing that every coach knows it takes to be the best,,,,,, Lots Of Practice!!! cool

  37. Sa Toya profile image85
    Sa Toyaposted 7 years ago

    Giggity!

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    Justine76posted 7 years ago

    you guys, alcohol for the girl or the guy? like, is a girl better if SHE is drunk, or if YOUR drunk? either way, Im glad to know its a simple as that..I must be a ROCK STAR.  smile

    1. Mrvoodoo profile image59
      Mrvoodooposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I can't speak for Dave, but for me it's probably both if you don't know each other too well.  If it's with somebody I'm comfortable with I'd rather smoke a big fat one, and drift away together. smile

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        ahh, I see...liquid courage and all. I have to agree with you on the big fat one...

  39. GeneralHowitzer profile image63
    GeneralHowitzerposted 7 years ago

    Way too easy, let her feel she is very important to you and you love her very well, and voila she is mind-controlled already... This worked for me very well hehehe... big_smile

  40. Colebabie profile image60
    Colebabieposted 7 years ago

    Willing to try new things.
    Listening to what their partner wants.
    Kegels.
    Confidence.

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      Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Kegels. Yes. Good one!  smile

  41. drej2522 profile image86
    drej2522posted 7 years ago

    I like that deadpan, condescending look in their eyes as I'm attempting to pleasure them. It's..wow..no other word!


    Hrmmmmmm

  42. wsp2469 profile image60
    wsp2469posted 7 years ago

    hi fiery
    long time no see!

  43. Mikel G Roberts profile image86
    Mikel G Robertsposted 7 years ago

    What makes 'women' good in bed...

    the Vagina

    big_smile

    1. blondepoet profile image78
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Not necessarily I have heard blow up dolls are the 'in' thing. This guy I know has one called 'Norma Jean'(oh so gross lol) I accidentally stood on her with my heel. She made a strange hissing sound and now has the skin texture of a prune.

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        Denno66posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Guess he's gotta get a new girlfriend, huh?

        1. blondepoet profile image78
          blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Denno66 you have mail. Oops no you don't couldnt mail u no link. Can you possibly click the contact BP, it is important.

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            Denno66posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Yep. give me a sec.

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        logic,commonsenseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Does she have a sister?  smile

  44. mega1 profile image81
    mega1posted 7 years ago

    WOW  I am learning so much on this thread -  so far, gotta get a new pillow, learn to squeeze, probably some major surgery may help, gotta ask my guy what he wants, and gotta run a little faster!

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      Denno66posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      See? And you thought there'd be nothing here. big_smile

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    Denno66posted 7 years ago

    Okie.

  46. double_frick profile image80
    double_frickposted 7 years ago

    it seems what a guy really wants in bed is a girl that hasn't been ran through but still Fs like a porn star. lol
    so watch some porn and take some notes.
    i've heard the worst thing a girl can do in bed is lay there or look bored, obviously. but for some reason many girls don't understand this, or just don't care.

    1. Alessia Amnesia profile image61
      Alessia Amnesiaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Perhaps if men did something that didn't bore women?

    2. Black Lilly profile image60
      Black Lillyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      And what if it is actually boring?

  47. Colebabie profile image60
    Colebabieposted 7 years ago

    Being a starfish sucks.

  48. cindyvine profile image86
    cindyvineposted 7 years ago

    Creativity and variety and interest.  Someone who lies back and thinks of England shows none of those requirements.

  49. qwark profile image61
    qwarkposted 7 years ago

    Endurance!
    A girl who can handle a 4 hr (or more) lead pipe erection is my kinda girl! :-)

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      rialeeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHHA
      sound like I believe you....LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL. oh YOU HAVE A PENILE IMPLANT....OOH!! OK

  50. cindyvine profile image86
    cindyvineposted 7 years ago

    Shame qwark, you have to prop yours up with a lead pipe?  my heart goes out to you!

    1. qwark profile image61
      qwarkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      cindy:
      hahahaha...my g/f says "it's as hard as a lead pipe!" soft on the outside and as unbendable as steel."
      whose yer daddy baby?...mmmmm...:-)
      It's gettin' late...ho hummm..I gotta hit the sac....
      nite all....:-)

 
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