I AM SUPPOSED TO BE ENGAGED BUT I DON'T FEEL LIKE IT , He hasn't pruposed like he is supposed to but i understand because we are going through a hard financial time he doesn't have the money to buy me the ring right now. we have talked about geting married about six month after we met but it already has been three years. now we have a one year old daughter i think he feels like he doesn't have to buy me a ring to make it official. He definetly works hard to keep our bill paid and i am a stay at home mom at this time. one thing that bugs me the most i think he feels like he has got me completly and i am not going anywhere, i don't want him to think that way. i wanna make it official but how do i get him to make it happen because i don't wanna push him either?
Surely you can negotiate a less flashy ring or to set the date for a quiet (cheap) wedding. So its official but not necessarily a financial worry.
If you can't tell him is it the right move anyway?
How about talking to him. Maybe suggest a Justice of the Peace wedding for right now. It is legal and official. Then when the financial crisis is over, then have the big wedding that you dreamed of.
Sounds like you are disappointed sorry to hear. Unless you fear him, I don't see why you don't ask when you're getting married. Dave has a good idea. Simple JP marriage then celebrate with a big wedding for a anniversary. good luck!
I would defiantly talk to him about it. I mean, Make your feelings known.
Weddings and ceremonies don't have to be big and fancy.. Sometimes a woman Just needs to know That her man is committed.
Be honest, and tell him what your feeling. I'm sure He will understand.
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