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We all lost it sometime

  1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
    Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago

    How old were you when you lost it and did you REALLY enjoy it that much.

    I'll begin: I was 18, things  were slower in my day. In addition I was REALLY UGLY until 17 or 18. It was in college and a "townie picked me up. Huge car, back seat, you could count the seconds on one-maybe two hand(s) and of course it wasn't great.

    If I had just waited a couple of weeks...... Who am I kidding!

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      A Texanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      What was his name?  Sorry Harvey, I couldn't resist.

      1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
        Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Tex,

        I forget and I never saw his face. I do know it was some guy from near Austin or some Texas city. He got down in front of me, and kept saying;  one day I'm gonna be a writer. He added that he was gonna join the military first. Know anyone like that; wise guy?

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          A Texanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Said I was sorry, jeez.

  2. Cagsil profile image60
    Cagsilposted 7 years ago

    I was 13 years old, if you're reference is to virginity? hmm

    lol lol lol

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Cag,

      Whatever made you think........................of course. You youngin's start earlier these days. I was so ugly at 13, no girl would even talk to me.

      1. Cagsil profile image60
        Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Yes, I was young, but it happens when you live in a broken home and learn about sex on the streets.

        If you're interested - A Lost Soul, My Missing Father Hub was just recently written. It might give you a little clarity about my life. Not all of my life, but some of my early years. smile

  3. NewYorker profile image62
    NewYorkerposted 7 years ago

    14 years, two months and eighteen days old!

    And yes, I REALLY enjoyed it that much.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      New Yorker,

      I hope you're not in the Bronx; I grew up across the street from the old Yankee Stadium. Sounds good.

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Virginity? I was 22 and it was with my now husband...it was weird but nice at the same time.

    Lose our mind? I lost that years ago like tween years I think when my imagination really got going lol

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      Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      oh!! lost my mind? who says I ever had it?....  smile

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        You mean you lost it right after you came out of the womb? yikes Wow lol

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          Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          i mean.....im not sure ive ever had full control of my mind..

          1. Flightkeeper profile image73
            Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Justine, I'm on the same boat as you are and it's a crowded boat lol

            1. Cagsil profile image60
              Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Actually Flightkeeper, there are people on that boat pushing others off, just to make room. lol lol lol lol lol

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              Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              its so crowded in here....im loosing my mind!!!   haha  smile

          2. Harvey Stelman profile image61
            Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Just,

            Who is?

        2. Harvey Stelman profile image61
          Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          craz,

          I guess if you are in the womb you are.......................oh my G-D.  What ever you do, don't think of your mother.

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      craz,

      Thanks, I though I would be the oldest to lose it.  I'm just one of the oldest age wise.

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    Justine76posted 7 years ago

    i was 18. i didnt 'loose' it. It was taken without my permission, and no, I didnt like it too much. But he was my 'boyfriend' so it was my fault. Really sucked when he broke up with me the next day.

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Wow justine I am so sorry *hugs*

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        smile  thanks, it was a looooong time ago. Im ok now.

    2. NewYorker profile image62
      NewYorkerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Oh, that sucks. I'm so sorry for you.

    3. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Justine,

      That sucks all around, the guys a real shit. He's the type that gives guys a bad name.

  6. blondepoet profile image74
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    Also taken without my permission (14)

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      Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      sad

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Blondie,

      I guess there are lousy guys all over. I hear about these ass-holes too often. I am pro-removal!

    3. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Blondie,

      This is so hard to hear so frequently, even for a normal guy. Don't guys know that NO, means NO!

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    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    still waiting at 43 yikes

    1. blondepoet profile image74
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Haaaaaaaaa I liked that one.

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lyric,

      I have a list of over 500 names that would swear to.................

  8. Flightkeeper profile image73
    Flightkeeperposted 7 years ago

    Are we talking about virginity, minds or adsense accounts?

    1. Uninvited Writer profile image81
      Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol

    2. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I wasn't sure myself. big_smile

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        lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        roll

    3. NewYorker profile image62
      NewYorkerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Virginities. I think.

    4. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Flight,

      If you don't know.......................

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    Justine76posted 7 years ago

    what? adsense? oh...i was waaaay off on that one...  ha

    1. blondepoet profile image74
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Heck I just caught the wrong bus.

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        story of my life....

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          lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          me too sad

        2. Harvey Stelman profile image61
          Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Justine & lyric,

          You need to get away from the wrong guys. Many of us are actually nice.

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    So we were talking about when you lost your mind? or adsense? i'm confused now lol

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    waynetposted 7 years ago

    I lost it when this little penguin came along and he said get off my lawn, so I just started throwing snowballs at the little penguin birdy and things calmed down after a short while.

    As for poppin my cherry, I was about 15 years old and this inflatable doll called Mavis just came into my life, but then she just had to leave the next day because it wouldn't have worked, not with her career to think about!

    1. EmpressFelicity profile image81
      EmpressFelicityposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Veering slightly off-topic...

      I once got on a bus and this man got on at the next stop and sat in front of me.  He had a fully blown-up inflatable sheep under his arm, so I spent the rest of my journey looking at its backside lol

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol  ohhhh where is denno?

        1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
          Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Empress,

          Good one, I'mglad you can still breath.

        2. Harvey Stelman profile image61
          Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Just,

          That was Deeno.

      2. waynet profile image50
        waynetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        hahahaha....was it baaaaaaad ass!

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Way,

      Good one. I have a friend that partied with her.

  12. blondepoet profile image74
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    Have we worked out yet what we are talking about here?
    Where is Harvey?
    smilesmile

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Blondie, 

      I'm here, soon it will be NITE-NITE!

  13. Eaglekiwi profile image73
    Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago

    Im still trying to move past  Mavis  lol

    1. blondepoet profile image74
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Hey EK where you been buddy???

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Eagle,

      Get on line!

  14. Eaglekiwi profile image73
    Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago

    Relocated BP ,not far but no connection ,ya know how that goes....amazing life before the internet ,gosh they invented some new things since I been gone lol but the eagle has landed - wink

    1. blondepoet profile image74
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!! me partner in crime has returned.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    I'll exercise my right to remain silent on this one.big_smile

  16. Colebabie profile image60
    Colebabieposted 7 years ago

    I was 18. It was on the floor in my bedroom. I was in love, and still am. It was spontaneous, unexpected, a little awkward but still great. We took a shower together afterwards. It definitely wasn't the best sex I've ever had. We have had amazing since then. We've been together for almost five years now.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Cole,

      Nice story.

  17. PrettyPanther profile image84
    PrettyPantherposted 7 years ago

    I was 19 and in love with his intellect.  He was incredibly smart, a Ph.D. in physics studying nuclear fusion.  He was also 36 years old, a returning student who already had master's degrees in economics and mathematics.

    The sex was not good.  I was with him for three years and when he asked me to marry him I split.  He wasn't "the one."

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      pretty,

      Lucky you got out.

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    probafixposted 7 years ago

    i am still waiting for something to be happen

    i am only 23.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      pro,

      Call Rosey Palm.

  19. Eaglekiwi profile image73
    Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago

    Well Im not telling ,so there tongue, but I was annoyed cuz I missed Gidget lol

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Eagle,

      I'll bet you were watching it.

  20. Chaotic Chica profile image76
    Chaotic Chicaposted 7 years ago

    More women lose it before they are ready than we will ever know about. I was four months shy of 19 and a guy who roomed with a good friend of mine knew I was innocent and decided that I had been waiting too long and took the honors for himself. I was so shocked that I couldn't even register what was happening. He spent time at Leavenworth and can never enlist again. It changes you.

  21. taganisted profile image77
    taganistedposted 7 years ago

    A few days after my 16th birthday, it was kind of uncomfortable and really boring.

 
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