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Incest

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    curoshmaposted 6 years ago

    Why do you have parents that won't address incest among  siblings?

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      Pani Midnyte Odinposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I guess I never thought of incest as an issue. Most children I know won't even hug their siblings, and this continues right into the young adult years. By the time they reach the age where they don't view their siblings as "icky," they already know about incest.

      But... perhaps it is an issue in different parts of the world?

    2. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      the natural thing is to see your siblings not as a sexual partner.
      It seldom happens. But if it does, I'm sure parents will notice and take care about the issue.

  2. Faybe Bay profile image82
    Faybe Bayposted 6 years ago

    we would never think our children would do that to each other. You are right it should be addressed, but how? Perhaps you could write a hub about how to approach these subjects with our children.
    We think of them as innocent, and maybe do not want to give them ideas on how not to be. Maybe unsure how to prepare them for harsh realities.

  3. skyfire profile image72
    skyfireposted 6 years ago

    Incest relations are not good cause it results into deformed babies AFAIK. In some Asian countries, marriage between cousins is quite normal as it have no issue of deformed babies.

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    lynnechandlerposted 6 years ago

    And at what age would you bring this up? We start teaching our children about stranger danger very young, but what about sexual predators in the home or not so distant relatives or in the case of the dysfunctional family where mom or dad have started dating, what would be the appropriate age to clue them in on what is right and wrong?

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      Pani Midnyte Odinposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Isn't part of the Stranger Danger lessons also Good Touch, Bad Touch? They taught my niece in school about Good Touch, Bad Touch. They also started teaching my nephew this year. They are 5 and 6 years old. So perhaps this is enough to warn them against sexual predators and molestation?

  5. Faybe Bay profile image82
    Faybe Bayposted 6 years ago

    I have checked him out he's new and had no hubs. that is why I told him to write a hub.

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      Pani Midnyte Odinposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      You know, it's odd. I always become wary of hubbers without a photograph or without hubs who come into the forum and make strange topics. But I didn't think to look at his profile. Now I've got the heeby jeebies about him.

      1. tantrum profile image61
        tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Maybe he's in love with his sister

        1. Mamelody profile image59
          Mamelodyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          You know I thought that too!! I mean why else would you start such a topic when you have no pictures, hubs, or anything?

          1. tantrum profile image61
            tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            EXACTLY ! big_smile

  6. Alota profile image61
    Alotaposted 6 years ago

    Billions of people on this planet believe that we all derive from Adam and Eve....therefore we all all incestuous....

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    lynnechandlerposted 6 years ago

    Prob a sock puppet but it does bring up an interesting topic or two that someone could follow up on.

    @Pani, yes it is part of the topic of Stranger Danger and yes they are starting them out at 5 and 6. We had to unfortunately go through this with the my step boys. At the age of 3 and 4 they had been exposed to so much sex in their mothers house that they were starting to experiment on each other. So, even though you might think that children in the bedroom with you is ok up until a certain age you might be surprised by what they are gleaning from it.

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      Pani Midnyte Odinposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I'm sorry to hear that, lynnechandler. I hope you didn't think I was being insensitive to children who have been sexually molested or lived in an environment like that. I, too, have had some experiences with sexual abuse. I guess I was stating my opinion from most of the norms I've seen and not thinking about the more severe cases where children don't live in a "normal" home. Honestly, I didn't think most parents would have sex with their children in the room, even when they are very young, but sometimes I forget people's opinions differ from mine.

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        lynnechandlerposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Pani, I took no offense. I never would have thought about it either. I mean, I know my own mother kept me in a bassinet by their bed up until I was about six months old, then moved me into the room with my sister. I didn't grow up thinking about these things and when presented with them for the first time it took me some adjusting in my thinking on how to handle things.

        I mean my own children took baths together I think up until my daughter was like six and her brother was 4 it was just a conservation on time. However, now I wouldn't think of it knowing what I know.

        You just have to be really aware of what they are seeing and hearing etc because they retain so much at such a young age and then it might just go out of their minds but if it continues or they continue to see such acts, ok rambling I will stop now.

  8. Alota profile image61
    Alotaposted 6 years ago

    85% of all sexual crime against children happens at the hands of a family member.....I think the stranger danger is not so stranger....

  9. Alota profile image61
    Alotaposted 6 years ago

    perhaps he is a dwarf with a large pencil

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      For drawing ?  Attention ? hmm

  10. Alota profile image61
    Alotaposted 6 years ago

    Tantrum you are on fire, yes for drawing attention, as we speak he is probably at his computer sharpening his pencil

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      lol lol lol

      Maybe he will draw us !

  11. Alota profile image61
    Alotaposted 6 years ago

    I just hope he does not stick it in his eye, he could be blinded

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I've never seen a guy sticking it in his eye !. they're always trying to aim at something else lol

  12. Alota profile image61
    Alotaposted 6 years ago

    Yes and usually in the wrong place...I told you about my boyfriend...sore but nice

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      lol
      tell me who he is, I wouldn't like to meet him ! lol

  13. Alota profile image61
    Alotaposted 6 years ago

    he is not a dwarf and his pencil is well sharpened

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Everybody's like that ! more or less big_smile

  14. Alota profile image61
    Alotaposted 6 years ago

    I suppose what I meant to say is that he is big and he gets it sharpened three times per day...last time one hour ago in the kitchen....

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      He must be in his 20s ! lol
      Or is from other planet.
      I never heard a boyfriend has sex  with his girl more than once a week. He's busy with his lovers the other days ! lol

  15. Alota profile image61
    Alotaposted 6 years ago

    Honestly if he dosnt deliver then I go to his friend Big Guss...rugby player......I love his test tickles.....get me every time

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Do you score high in that tests ? hmm

      1. Hokey profile image61
        Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I do!   big_smile

        1. tantrum profile image61
          tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          lol
          I don't believe you ! lol

          1. Hokey profile image61
            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            hmm

            1. tantrum profile image61
              tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              big_smile

              1. Hokey profile image61
                Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                If only you knew.....    hmm

                1. tantrum profile image61
                  tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  tongue

  16. Alota profile image61
    Alotaposted 6 years ago

    I like it when he test tickles from behind

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    lyricsingrayposted 6 years ago

    lol

    1. Hokey profile image61
      Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Now your on top!!   big_smile

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        lyricsingrayposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        my turn big_smile

        1. Hokey profile image61
          Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Roll over!!!!    big_smile

  18. Alota profile image61
    Alotaposted 6 years ago

    Sandwich

  19. Alota profile image61
    Alotaposted 6 years ago

    I have to go he has got the KY Jelly out again....Ok Im coming Elton

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      John ? hmm

      lol
      Are you a drag ? big_smile

      1. Hokey profile image61
        Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Hmmmm........  Very Interesting!!!    smile

    2. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      OK alota. So... are you or not roll

      Hmmmm????
      lol

      1. Hokey profile image61
        Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Hey tantrum. Is silence confirmation?   neutral

        1. tantrum profile image61
          tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          I love drags !! big_smile
          hope she is !!

          1. Hokey profile image61
            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            I wanna see that tatoo little better  smile

            1. tantrum profile image61
              tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Meaning ?

              1. Hokey profile image61
                Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                Um...  I like tattoos? neutral

                1. tantrum profile image61
                  tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                  If you want to see it closer ,you can come all the way to Argentina. I'm sure I'll find some time for you in my agenda ! big_smile

                  1. Hokey profile image61
                    Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                    Don't cry for me Argentina...........

                                 cool

  20. tantrum profile image61
    tantrumposted 6 years ago

    lol ha ha !

  21. Hokey profile image61
    Hokeyposted 6 years ago

    Le haré parecer al viento caliente en la piel mojada

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Sounds weird ! It must be the bloody translator. LOL
      But I get the picture ! tongue

      1. Hokey profile image61
        Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Yup! translator..   It's the thought that counts  big_smile

        1. tantrum profile image61
          tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          Think in English ! big_smile

  22. Hokey profile image61
    Hokeyposted 6 years ago

    If you were a new sandwich at Mcdonalds, you'de be called the McGorgeous.

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      OH !!!!Sweet ! tongue
      big_smile

      1. Hokey profile image61
        Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        There you are. Now how am I supposed to properly stalk you if you keep disappearing? Lucky for you I am psychic!  big_smile

        1. tantrum profile image61
          tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          yikes
          don't scare me !

          lol

          1. Hokey profile image61
            Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Surprise increases the blood flow stimulating the brain promoting hyper stimulation to the erogenous zones.


                     tongue

            1. tantrum profile image61
              tantrumposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Oh !
              Well take care ! I might give you a surprise ! big_smile

              lol

              1. Hokey profile image61
                Hokeyposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                One can only dream



                Don't cry for me Argentina!!!   big_smile

  23. tantrum profile image61
    tantrumposted 6 years ago

    lol
    Wait & see

  24. blondepoet profile image79
    blondepoetposted 6 years ago

    Oh you two you are corrupting me!!!!

    1. earnestshub profile image87
      earnestshubposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Too late! lol

      1. blondepoet profile image79
        blondepoetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Hahaha Earnest how true that is. You did it to me a year ago. smile

        1. earnestshub profile image87
          earnestshubposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          That is the trouble with getting old... I forgot. Can we go through it one more time? lol

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    sneakorocksolidposted 6 years ago

    Just say no to incest! Quit fooling around with your relatives and that means you in Oklahoma, Arkansas, Tennesse and Ireland!big_smile

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      i_am_Legendposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      LOL HaaaahAAA

 
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