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How was your first time having sex?

  1. Stevennix2001 profile image83
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    Please share with us your story of how you lost your virginity.  however, please try to keep it pg-13ish rated. big_smile

    1. Faybe Bay profile image85
      Faybe Bayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Aw come on I shared that already... big_smile

      1. Stevennix2001 profile image83
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol  fair enough then.  who else would like to share?  I'll tell you all my story if you guys are willing to share yours. big_smile

    2. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      AREN'T YOU SEXUAL TONIGHT !!!

      yikes
      hmm
      big_smile
      tongue
      lol

      1. Stevennix2001 profile image83
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol how can you tell? lol

      2. manomoney profile image60
        manomoneyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        not wyyy becoz can get u

      3. manomoney profile image60
        manomoneyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        its just in heaven no word to say

    3. Uninvited Writer profile image83
      Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You certainly have a one track mind these days. Not getting any?

      lol

      1. Stevennix2001 profile image83
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        no, but that's not why i opened up this forum.  usually whenever i open up forums, i try to be as original as possible by thinking up stuff NOBODY ELSE thought of.  Or at least topics that nobody bothered to open a forum about before.  therefore, i decided to create this forum.  besides,  it's fun for me to watch everyone else's reactions.

        1. Uninvited Writer profile image83
          Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I hate to tell you but this has already been done smile

          1. Stevennix2001 profile image83
            Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            dang!  and here i was hoping i was being original.  oh well.  at least i tried.  lol

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      Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      it was very bad

    5. lawretta profile image77
      lawrettaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      i am still a virgin. lol!!!

    6. leatherjackets99s profile image60
      leatherjackets99sposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      This is a stupid of stupid request

    7. RNMSN profile image88
      RNMSNposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      NTK BASIS ONLY

  2. habee profile image89
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    I was in college, and it was with my future husband. It was a little scary and a little painful, but also nice. I was 17.

  3. Stevennix2001 profile image83
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    wow, he must be a lucky guy.  thanks for sharing with us habee. smile

    1. Rafini profile image87
      Rafiniposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      um, isn't it your turn?

      1. Stevennix2001 profile image83
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        don't worry, i will in due time.  i just want to see what everyone else has to say first. big_smile

  4. Richieb799 profile image62
    Richieb799posted 7 years ago

    I guess my first 1 wasn't that good hmm at least it was with someone I knew wellish.. 2nd was crumby on a sofa at a new years party, 3rd was a cute girl and Ive had my share of good times since then.. aren't I a bad boy
    I waited a long long time for a girl I loved but she changed and her friends turned her really nasty, so that idea went up in smoke - long story

  5. Stevennix2001 profile image83
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    okay, i'll tell you all now, since i need to bump up the thread anyway. lol  sadly, i didn't lose my virginity until i was 23 and in college.  my best friend, who was seeing another guy at the time.  Of course, he ALWAYS cheated on her religiously, which led to a lot of confrontations between them.  Anyway, long story short they got into a fight, and she had me try to console her.  However, one thing led to another and we inevitably had sex. Seeing as I was caught up in the moment, fell in love with her, but she only wanted to be friends.  Which led to her leaving without even saying bye. There's only one other hubber i told about this experience. although i gave her more a detailed version of it, where as here i'm giving you all the short version. lol.  anyway, i hope that answers your questions.

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      poetlorraineposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      23 wow you waited a long time, self control or what.......

  6. Richieb799 profile image62
    Richieb799posted 7 years ago

    Its ok Steve, I was 23 too smile

    1. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Why did you guys wait so long ?? hmm

      1. Stevennix2001 profile image83
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        i can't speak for richie but for me, i was just very shy as a kid.  in fact, when i was younger i would often get extremely nervous just talking to girls, so it was hard for me to be intimate with a girl growing up.   i was just too shy. lol. pretty sad, huh?

        1. Faybe Bay profile image85
          Faybe Bayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          It's not sad, it's sweet. People don't realize it's the shy ones with all the fire... I won't go into detail. Let's just say the only really worth while thing I ever did, was with a guy who's family told me they thought he was gay. He was so shy they didn't know if he'd ever done it before, and he was ... He was never shy with me.


          Ahhh memories, Stevennix, he ruined me for every other man. That is the truth, cross my heart.

  7. samboiam profile image60
    samboiamposted 7 years ago

    You sure are relying a lot on my memory. What am I talking about? I am a writer. I can make something up.

    1. brianzen profile image62
      brianzenposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Do we mean with; a partner, alone, or an orgy?

  8. samboiam profile image60
    samboiamposted 7 years ago

    I was 19 she was 27.

  9. ladyjane1 profile image86
    ladyjane1posted 7 years ago

    I was 17 and so in love with my boyfriend he was a bit older than me and well taught me a few things. He was my first and I have never regretted losing my virginity to him because my love was sincere even if his wasn't. Thats about as much detail that I will give smile

  10. Richieb799 profile image62
    Richieb799posted 7 years ago

    I was shy, not as in I was lacking confidence, I was always up for a snog.. I just wanted to get to know the girl first.. some girls I would go out with and if I hadn't express a sexual interest within a week i got dumped, one girl even bought condoms from the toilets and said they dropped out the machine instead of tampax lol

    1. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol lol
      You didn't show interest in a whole week ?? yikes
      I would have dumped you as well. Or raped you ! tongue

      1. brianzen profile image62
        brianzenposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I dumped my first timer the same night, kind of feel bad about it but I could never take her seriously after that. we were like 13. (I was) she was older but not by much. the whole thing just didn't feel at all how I expected.

        1. tantrum profile image60
          tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I wonder what the girl expected from you ! a 13 year old !! roll

          lol

          1. brianzen profile image62
            brianzenposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            That was so pathetic, we were watching the doors movie, and her older sister left and then whammo, I did enjoy the trying but before that night I really had no idea what to expect so the nudity freaked me right out, I mean I was so uncomfortable, but these days I am the complete opposite I nearly used nude pics of myself on a hub (jk)

  11. samboiam profile image60
    samboiamposted 7 years ago

    There was this time on my grandpa's farm.... he had this sheep... never mind.

    1. ladyjane1 profile image86
      ladyjane1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      And the sheep was 27?

      1. samboiam profile image60
        samboiamposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        No. No. No. I guess I walked into that one. Let me clarify. There has never been a sheep experoence. The 27 year old was more of a cougar than a sheep.

        1. ladyjane1 profile image86
          ladyjane1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I know I was teasing. lol

    2. skyfire profile image72
      skyfireposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol

  12. Richieb799 profile image62
    Richieb799posted 7 years ago

    I wanted to know what I was looking for in a girl, glad I didnt with those particular girls to be honest

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Okay I guess I'll answer...was in college 20something and it ws with my hubby. I lied to my parents about going to get some stuff at Walmart and we went to his place...his dad was in the other room. It was awkward and different and it did hurt. But I am still glad he was my first and now my only smile

  14. Ivorwen profile image85
    Ivorwenposted 7 years ago

    It was my wedding day and well worth the wait!  smile

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    pinkyleeposted 7 years ago

    my first time sucked point blank

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      StormRyderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I agree..I was scared, nervous and it was far from pleasurable.
      I was 15...didn't do it again until I was 17...That wasn't the greatest either. Something just clicked for me sexually when I was around 19. Sex is really, really good now!

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        pinkyleeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        oh i love it now and can never have enough lol but the first time for me was like you said far from pleasurable and not the way i wanted it to happen ... i was 15 too

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    Lecieposted 7 years ago

    saving myself for you steve;)

    1. waynet profile image49
      waynetposted 7 years ago

      Well me and my inflatable doll Mavis have been together for a few years now, but the first time was a disaster as some Prick popped her arse!!

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        StormRyderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Why do I get the feeling this is a true story?? lol lol

        1. waynet profile image49
          waynetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

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            StormRyderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            big_smile lol lol lol tongue

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      ralwusposted 7 years ago

      Ahhh yes, she was a bow-legged blond. messy affair it was...

    3. Rafini profile image87
      Rafiniposted 7 years ago

      Didn't we already discuss this?  I seem to remember posting this before...

      Anyway, I was 18 and just wanted to get it over with.  Didn't understand the significance of virginity until many years later - I don't regret my decision, but I do regret not choosing the right partner. sad  So, to answer the question, not a great experience.

    4. Sab Oh profile image61
      Sab Ohposted 7 years ago

      You mean the first time today? Fine, thank you.

    5. Alota profile image60
      Alotaposted 7 years ago

      It was sore but after that first time uncle always used vasaline - it was even more fun when he put it in my virgina, still I had to learn sometime.

    6. KeithTax profile image79
      KeithTaxposted 7 years ago

      I'm still a virgin. I'll fill y'all in when I lose it.

      Hmmm, Hmmm, Hmmm. Now where did I put my virginity? &%$*, I lost my virginity.

    7. Alota profile image60
      Alotaposted 7 years ago

      Keith just call over I will help you the way uncle helped me.

    8. qwark profile image61
      qwarkposted 7 years ago

      I was a christian seminarian who was invited by friends to go to Villa Acuna Mexico with them to celibrate my 21st b'day.
      They took me to a place called 'boys town."
      They bought me a b'day present....a gorgeous 16 yr old girl who was to take my "christia...." virginity.
      I fought like hell for about...ohhh...15 minutes!
      I lost the fight and my "christianity!"
      I slept that night. ecstatically, sandwiched naked between my buddies girl and mine. He was the unlucky one, he was on the outside.
      I owe my caring buddies a debt of gratitude for following thru with their plan to introduce me to the wonderful world of sinful sex!
      From that day forward I worshipped the "holy" vagina! amen and amen!

    9. Greek One profile image78
      Greek Oneposted 7 years ago

      Expensive

    10. myownworld profile image81
      myownworldposted 7 years ago

      A blur of awkward shy movements - best forgotten! wink

    11. MagicStarER profile image92
      MagicStarERposted 7 years ago

      big_smile

    12. thisisoli profile image55
      thisisoliposted 7 years ago

      Heh, house party, drunk, 7 people passed out in the same room, with the chat up line, 'want to sleep with me?'

      Not my proudest moment ever, but at least it introduced me to just how easy it can be to pull a girl you fancy tongue

      Of curse that wont be happening any more now that I'm settling down sad tongue

    13. aspiringauthor profile image61
      aspiringauthorposted 7 years ago

      It was awful. I still shudder when I remember that day.

    14. aimeeSF profile image79
      aimeeSFposted 7 years ago

      I was in high school, maybe 17 or 18, and I met a guy at a park near my house.  At 5'4" on the chubby side, I was surprised to capture the interest of this sexy African-American track runner with nicely sculpted abs who was a couple of years older than I was.

      Needless to say, we kept in touch, hung out, and we just did it as friends.  It was very painful the first time - and every time after that, so I stopped doing it with him and we ended up losing touch after an argument down the line.  Looking back, he was actually the biggest and longest I ever had, so no wonder it was always painful, eh? :p

      I hope this was clean enough. Whoops :x

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      Taeohposted 7 years ago

      The first time i ever had sex was at my high school. it was freshman year and my girlfriend at the time told me she was "ready" (what ever that means) during lunch, and that she didn't want to wait. so we traveled out to the far side of our baseball field. Got to say it was an interesting 48 seconds! I didn't know what I was doing and fortunately neither did she, and it just kind of became a jumbled mess. I'll spare the awkward details... fortunately we both enjoyed the strange experience (well at least i think she did) I wonder how many other students have messed around back there? My school had over 4,000 students... I bet there are a ton of nasty memories in that same spot.

    16. Origin profile image60
      Originposted 7 years ago

      I was 16-17, it was at one of those high school parties. Not much else to say, it was like.. boom-badda-bing and done! tongue

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        poetlorraineposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        o.k. second time then

        1. Origin profile image60
          Originposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          But.. but... the topic is when you lost your virginity. I can lose my virginity twice!? yikes

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      poetlorraineposted 7 years ago

      just thought your second time, may be more interesting, nobody minds if you go off topic

      1. Origin profile image60
        Originposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Hmmmm.. About a year later with my girlfriend, we were at at hotel with a spa inside the room, it was a suite. (the only time I had a hotel room with a spa inside of it) and it was fun! big_smile

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          poetlorraineposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          yeah yeah yeah....... on the edge of my seat here, don't stop there

          1. Origin profile image60
            Originposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Haha, what you want me to turn this into erotic literature or something? hahaha big_smile

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      poetlorraineposted 7 years ago

      thought this thread would be well, you know.  I am an old woman with alzheimers, so i don't remember my first encounter

      1. Rajab Nsubuga profile image61
        Rajab Nsubugaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        prefer taking my swimming lessons.......... still intact.

    19. Disturbia profile image60
      Disturbiaposted 7 years ago

      None of your damn business!

    20. TerryGl profile image59
      TerryGlposted 7 years ago

      I remember it well. I lived in Geraldton Western Australia and was in a group of friends. I was seventeen.  We did everything together, the beaches camping fixing cars the movies, had a great time. There was one girl outside our group and we called her Midnight.

      The reason why we called her Midnight was because the other boys in other groups used to pick her up from her home and take her out, usually after the pubs shut and hence she got the nickname of Midnight.

      Midnight was a very popular girl and loved the guys in Geraldton.

      I remember one night at a party looking at Midnight as she laid on the blanket on the ground. Her firm naked body with the moonlight shining on her, her beautiful legs, her firm hard breasts, her long hair falling on the ground around her shoulders, her delighted moans and heaving of her body as she came with each guy.

      I watched as one after the other enjoyed Midnight - just as she enjoyed each of them. It took all of my energy not to explode where I stood.

      Thanks to my mates I was pushed in line and Midnight looked me straight in the eyes and said, "Oh, your cute - come here".

      I enjoyed Midnight and lost my v on the spot.

      It was the first time I touched a womans breast and felt the shape of a womans waist and hips, feeling her hard warm breath in my ear and her firm grasp across my back.

      I will always remember Midnight, but not her real name. Thank you Midnight, your the reason why I am not gay.

    21. Bard of Ely profile image87
      Bard of Elyposted 7 years ago

      I was 20 and drunk at the time and at a party and can't remember much about it.

      1. Origin profile image60
        Originposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I hear that, I was mostly sober my first time though. I woke up and I was like yikes, then I was like big_smile, and then cool while my friends were like roll then I responded with tongue

    22. pisean282311 profile image58
      pisean282311posted 7 years ago

      never :-(

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      Ahmed Munatposted 7 years ago

      Very bad cos i was forced to, oooooooooh i really regret it aaaayyyk

      1. calpol25 profile image78
        calpol25posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Mine was hilarious!!!

        It went from funny to down right hilarious in 1 hour, after I fell out the bed and broke my leg...... hahahahahaha lol still makes me laugh now lol

    24. Greek One profile image78
      Greek Oneposted 7 years ago

      It is going to be a magical time...  full of romance and tenderness...

      we will get to our room and have some wine...

      we'll talk about the future and what a wonderful wedding we had that day....

      I can't wait!!!

    25. Ron Montgomery profile image60
      Ron Montgomeryposted 7 years ago

      I learned why sheep ranchers wear knee-high boots.

    26. Rambo-boy profile image59
      Rambo-boyposted 7 years ago

      I remember every little think from that day .It was a summer beautiful day .Me and my girl we went in town to eat a dinner .She never knew what is going to be after that dinner .I have had prepared everything before .I rend a room  in a hotel near the restaurant .Eeverything was ready .I could wait to finish that dinner .It was the first time to make lave with her ,i wanted her so much in that time .So when we where done with dinner i said to her .I have to meet a guy there in the hotel .Because i was scared to tell her the truth ,i knew she was not ready to have sex with me ,she could tell me that every day ,we have to wait for the wright moment but i could .SO we went to that hotel ,when we get inside she start to fell that something is going to happen .Then she said to me .I"m not ready please we have to wait .Then i said is okay we are just going to relax little bit nothing more .We got to that room ,i start to kiss her ,when i touch her body i could die it was so wonderful .She was perfect everything in her was perfect ,i just could stop kissing her .I took of her clothes .She was beautiful.She said one more time please im not ready yet .I said trust me is going to be okay then she left me doit . I remember  that moment it was the most beautiful moment in my life .Make love with somebody you desire so much is just perfect ,the first time was perfect the best in my life

    27. brimancandy profile image82
      brimancandyposted 5 years ago

      It depends on what you consider first time sex. If you mean soley intercourse, I didn't do that until I was 18, and it was with a man. But didn't really care for it, and unless I am "On Top" I still don't care for it. But, I do get to "Top" on occasion, and that I do enjoy. I have not had intercourse with a woman, and don't want to.

      Now if you are talking about making out, Oral, or other forms of sex. I started doing that with both guys and girls when I was 15. My first experiences were with girls, but, it was mostly just a lot of making out, and touching. But, I couldn't tell if they (Only 3 girls over 5 years starting at age 11) were enjoying being with me, or not.

      But, my best friend in highschool, used to get into making out with me too, which lead to masturbation and eventually oral in the 2 years that we were buddies. And, every time with him was 100 fold better than with any girlfriend  that I was dating at that time. It was good with him, because there was no bullshit. You can't fake an erection, or a male orgasm. So, I always knew that he liked having sex with me, and I sure liked doing it with him.

      My first full on sex was with my buddy Mike, and, words can't describe how it felt. lots of emotions going on there. And, some not so good, like fear of being caught, wondering if you might be queer, and being hated by everyone around you if they figured out what you were doing. I didn't even know what I was going with Mike was gay, until years later. I just thought it was fun. But, I did know that I was in love with him, especially when I was moving away to another town, and would probably never see him again. But, do you think I gave a crap about those girls...not even a tear. So, I spent a lot of time thinking I was messed up in the head.

      But, if I had a time machine, I would go back and be with Mike again. And, if that happened I would do it right, and devote every second to being with him. I still miss him every day.

    28. mistyhorizon2003 profile image92
      mistyhorizon2003posted 5 years ago

      Boring and overrated, painful and not at all what I expected after all the fuss everyone made about what sex was like.

     
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