Tough To Admit: How many lovers have you had?

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   Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years ago

   Are you afraid to comment? I wouldn't blame any married person if they didn't comment. I'm married 32 years, so I stopped adding when young. Being a singer, it was difficult to keep track.

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      Poppa Bluesposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Today or all together?

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         N. Ramiusposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         0. Wow that was easy.

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         Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Poppa,
         
         Have to ask this because of something said on a Forum. I always thought you were a man because of your name. Someone made reference to you being a woman. so I'm confused. If your pic is you, I could put you over 1,000. At least those that have tried.
         
         I'm talking all together.

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            Poppa Bluesposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            I am a man! How many women are called Poppa?

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               Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Poppa,
               
               Someone on a Forum said you were a woman.

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                  starme77posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  He's a Priest

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      donotfearposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Harvey, you seem quite obsessed with this type post lately. What's going on with you?

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         Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         DNF,
         
         I'm living in the past, over 60 and handicapped. It seemed like fun topics. Youth isn't wasted on the young, it should just continue. Lately many new people in my life have wanted to hear my old stories. I found out I have more than most.
         
         I didn't ask; how many in one day.
         
         My mind is still overactive, marriage has quelled the situation. Thinking about all the women in my past (that I remember) is fun.
         
         After I publish my first book (coming soon) the follow-up has a tory that is really about me.  You can see a video on youtub www.eyesofemerald.com, it's just talking about how the book got written and more.

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            donotfearposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            
            Well that's an answer worth pondering! I understand. Our mind whirls with lost memories as we get older. I've been noticing the same thing.

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            starme77posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Hey  Harvey How many lovers you had? And ya gotta add your married years too

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      pisean282311posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      lovers only 1 , affairs 3...

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      qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Can we include our right or left hands?...or both?...:-)

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      qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Wait! Wait!
      Let me count the bedpost notches!
      Give me a few minutes ok?

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         blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Golly gosh good to see some-one else has trouble adding up too.

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            qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            hahahaha....:-)
            
            My name is...BOND!.....JAMES BOND!

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               blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               I reckon I need to come over your house Mr Bond and we can work it out with a pencil together :)before we board the Moon-raker.
               I will bring a 48 page note-book ROFL!!!!
               

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                  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  Ok, you bring your 48 page notebook, I have mine...but wait, I have to get my reading glasses......:-)

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                     blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     Hahaha no worries I got to find my compass to get to your house.

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                  qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  DAMNED PAPARAZZI!!!
                  HOW THE HELL DID THEY GET OUR PIC
                  (you were good tho baby!!!...:-))
                  THEY EVEN GOT MY WOODY BEHIND THAT TREE!
                  I don't get no respect!!!! :-(
                  Where's my Mazzerati when I need it?

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                     blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     You brought out the tiger in me and that woody just got out of hand LMAO. Roar!!!!!!!!!!!!
                     
                     

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                        qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        WHAT A WOMAN!
                        BABY, YOU TOOK IT ALL!
                        IF I CAN GET "IT" ABOARD MY FLIGHT, we'll meet in London and do it again!...yehhhhhhh!!!   :-)

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                           blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                           Mum mum mum mah
                           Mum mum mum mah
                           Mum mum mum mah
                           Mum mum mum mah
                           Mum mum mum mah
                           
                           Oh, oh, oh
                           I'll get him hot, show him what I got,
                           Oh, oh, oh
                           I'll get him hot, show him what I got.
                           
                           (Til London woo hoo)
                           
                           

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                              waynetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                              I just like Lady garden!

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                                 blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                 Who is Lady Garden? Is she related to Gaga?

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                                    waynetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                    She is Lady gagas special friend that resides in her panties! wahey!

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                              She-rahposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                              OMG, LMAO!!! that was great, very entertaining!

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                                 blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                 

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   Greek Oneposted 14 years ago

   are you counting the ones where money was exchanged?

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Greek,
      
      I hope you never paid for it, I'm not counting dinner.

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         starme77posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         That's a good one

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   myownworldposted 14 years ago

   Harvey, don't mind, but I'm getting confused between the two threads here... mind games I call it!
   
   ok. I'll confess but please stop!

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      MOW,
      
      You want me to stop, but you comment. Now I'm confused.

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   Kenrick Chatmanposted 14 years ago

   Several if you include friends with benefits.

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Ken,
      
      I'll bet you increase that number quickly.

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   habeeposted 14 years ago

   does that include one-night stands??

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      habee,
      
      As long as you didn't get paid, no pros allowed. Ha!

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   Home Girlposted 14 years ago

   does that include your husband?

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      Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Home,
      
      Ask him! Of course it does.

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   Justine76posted 14 years ago

   7

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Justine 76,
      
      Honesty from a lady, that's great. Watch for it to get lower if you aree married. Men get higher, and women get lower with age. Very few are totaally honest.

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         Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         how would it get lower? is it possable to undo what you've done?
         Im 100 percent honest.

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   Cagsilposted 14 years ago

   How many lovers have you had? 15.

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Cag,
      
      Are you asking me? I said earlier that I sang in clubs, girl's go crazy when they see someone on stage. If I tell you over 200; would you believe me?

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         starme77posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         ewwwww if thats true then you should be tested regularly for hiv

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         Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Hey Harvey, I typed in the question you asked and then answered it. I wasn't asking you. I wasn't interested, because that is your business and what you do with your life in that aspect, has not effect/affect on my life.

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   mega1posted 14 years ago

   I have no idea why Harvey wants to know this about any of us  - I don't believe in bragging or being coy or anything so I'll just say -  Hey!  none of your business!

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      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

        peep!

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      mega,
      
      Not bragging, just doing this for fun. It looks like many have something to say, you have commented twice.

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      Ghost32posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Could be...Harvey, have you maybe taken on a secret agent job for the Census?  You know, getting us all to answer those questions in this obviously private format that we wouldn't give the bureaucratic temp worker who shows up at the door?

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      starme77posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Exactly

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    Ivorwenposted 14 years ago

    Not tough to admit, Harvey.  Just one.

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Ivor,
       
       If that was the one, great!

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    yoshi97posted 14 years ago

    Do fantasies count?

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       Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       OMG - that would put me in the 1000's!!!   

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       yoshi,
       
       Most of us would be in the hundred's or thousand's.

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    kerrygposted 14 years ago

    Only my husband.

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       kerr,
       
       Then that's great!

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    luvpassionposted 14 years ago

    I'm just wondering if Mr Ahmed sock-puppet is going to respond to one of these threads?
    
    Teri

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       luv,
       
       WHO?

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    prettydarkhorseposted 14 years ago

    I had three, they all cheated on me hehehehe!

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       pretty,
       
       Are you looking to find out if others would cheat on you also? Belated April Fools.

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       yoshi97posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Then they all lost out on a terrific gal.

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       She-rahposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Oh, so sorry, been down that road! Hand in there girl, there are good men! Hard to find!

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    tantrumposted 14 years ago

    I had enough.

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Me too!

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          Mark Knowlesposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Well? How many?

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             Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             Mark,
             
             Are you talkin ta me?

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                Mark Knowlesposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                Yes. You started this an I do not see a number.
                
                How is that trip down memory lane going?

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                   Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   Mark,
                   
                   You probably won't believe me when I say I stopped when I got married  at 28. The number you are searching for is over 200. When you have a night club act it's not difficult.
                   
                   I've seen the ugliest guys in the world take on three good looking girls in a night. I was always a lead singer, you can only imagine.
                   
                   I never understood why the girl's would just line-up and wait their turn.  It is rare that ladies admit to doing this in their past, but it wasn't one girl doing it all.
                   
                   I've had girl's that wouldn't go on a date with me, beg to go home with me after my act.
                   
                   I wasn't even a headliner. I was booked as the before act for Elton John and Jethro Tull individually. Girl's even wanted Slton knowing he's gay. Of course that line had guys also.
                   
                   Seeing one of the girl's on campus days after was fun. Most would say; she must have looked like me. Of course some wanted another shot, but being backstage was always important.

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    Hokeyposted 14 years ago

    38

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       Mark Knowlesposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       That all? What are you - gay? Oh - wait a minute.
       
       cue evangelists.......

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          Beth100posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          You bad Mark!   

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             Mark Knowlesposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             Yeah - I know - that is why I have Hokey beat.
             
             Still waiting on an answer from Harvey though. Unless he  forgot.......... Been a while? 

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                Uninvited Writerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                I think he said 50...
                
                I always want to wash my hands every time I open this thread.

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                   Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   Uni,
                   
                   I'm unusual for a guy, sometimes I give a lower number.

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                Beth100posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                Evasiveness is practiced by  many.  Including (and you can fill in the blanks Mark!) 

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       prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       maybe youre a HUNK like Wolverine -- HUGH or Daniel Day Lewis!

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    Ghost32posted 14 years ago

    Hmm...how many lovers....
    
    Uh, one question:
    
    Humans only? 

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Ghost,
       
       Since Denno isn't here, you can include sheep.

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    bojanglesk8posted 14 years ago

    3242334322.

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       boj,
       
       Congrat's, you and Wilt Chamberlain could have been friends.

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    Justine76posted 14 years ago

    this is just getting wierd....

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Jus,
       
       I did this for fun but things have gone down, no pun intended.

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          Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          haha, but its funny anyway. 

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    brethodgeposted 14 years ago

    I had 10 in scool time.. 15 in college and still dnt know how much.. hahaha.. have to recall..

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    Niteriterposted 14 years ago

    I don't remember much from years gone by but the word "husband" makes me want to jump up and run.

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Nit,
       
       It can be wonderful!

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    theirishobserver.posted 14 years ago

    Probably around 500 - but to be honest it could be more - there were nights when I wondered if I had simply been dreaming or had I actually been with more than one - then I find a tell tale sign - like panties in my car - or a women in my bed

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Irish,
       
       If you can't rember it; what good is it?

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    Niteriterposted 14 years ago

    I'm empathetic re the dreaming bit.

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Nit,
       
       If we count dreams, I'm in the thousands. I used to frequentlt dream about getting it on with friens or friends wives. The next day I would call the lady and say; thank you. Eventually they made me say what the thank you was about. The response was usually; oh Harvey.
       
       Later on I found out many would talk about my dreams and tell each other.  They had a contest which one I would dream about more. Is that nott innocent and strange?

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    andromidaposted 14 years ago

    I remember only 4

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    Deborah Sextonposted 14 years ago

    Has any body parts falling off anyone yet?

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    iantoPFposted 14 years ago

    My wife and I both got married late in life so when we were engaged we each tried to count how many lovers we'd had. I beat her by 5.
    We both agreed though, being the first isn't important. What's important is being the last.

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    blondepoetposted 14 years ago

    I am terribly sorry could not give you a figure. Do you have a calculator by any chance?

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    waynetposted 14 years ago

    Oh I've had millions all over the world when I used to be a spy for the government in world war 1, I was at it like a rabbit whilst bombs were dropping from the sky, so if you see lots of ginger people around the world that look like me, then it's nothing to do with me honest!

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       And I was Wayne's partner, Admiral De Vella BP, no wonder I lost track

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          waynetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Noooo you've blown my cover. here blow my trumpet....!!
          

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             blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             I am flat out containing my own trumpet
             
             

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                waynetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                Ha look at that tree with the strange nose....wait a minute... that aint no nose!!!!!!!!
                
                It's a trumpet..... do do do do

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                   blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   I think it is thirsty and wilting......

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                      waynetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                      Quick get the Kleenex!

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                         blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                         Aghhhhhhhhhh get the crane!!!!!!!!!!!

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                            waynetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                            And king size sheet kleenex!

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    ralwusposted 14 years ago

    Hey, does it include sheep?

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Baaaa sure does and chickens cluck cluck

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    She-rahposted 14 years ago

    I think only one other gave a definitive answer. I will be the second- I've been with 22. From the age of 16 to 34. Considering most teenagers lose their virginity at 11 (statistically speaking in the US). I'm not embarrassed. I truly admit I was a bit niave and believed what men would say to me when I was younger. I've never had a 1 night stand but my husband would have been the first, lol. Wow, he Knocked my socks off when he walked into the room and hit the dance floor with the ladies. They would line up AND now I'm married to him! He's been with a few hundred some in the same night. Let's just say, he's experienced and I don't mind

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    Jonathan Jancoposted 14 years ago

    Many many sex partners, very few "lovers"

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    LeanManposted 14 years ago

    Decided to do the count officially; started to carve notches on my bed post........
    
    Now I have no bed, but at least I have a nice pile of sawdust..
    
    No idea how many, lets just say my lucky pants worked after ny teens

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    ralwusposted 14 years ago

    It's not nice to count them after ten or twenty.

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    ThatGirlFrankieposted 14 years ago

    ummm 17?

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